Make your relationship stronger with this simple trick…

Let’s face it – most of the advice we give isn’t rocket science. We’re not exactly reinventing the wheel!

That said, one of our guiding principles is what sets us apart and makes our relationships stronger Make things as feasible as possible.

You can read all the relationship books in the world, but if you don’t know how to put that information into action… it’s just another self-help trophy collecting dust on your shelf… and nothing will change.

The fact is…it is It’s the simplest, smallest things that have the biggest impact on our relationships.

Life gets busy. We can convince ourselves that we need exaggerated, grandiose gestures to reconnect (just like if a string quartet wasn’t serenading you at dinner… why bother???).

But honestly? The magic is in the small, regular moments of connection.

Think about it:

What is one small thing you can do for your partner every day to make them feel loved?

What’s one small thing they can do for you?

Here is one of our examples:

• Vanessa meets Xander Life For a hug. If she squeezes him spontaneously – without any words – it will definitely turn him on, like she’s just handed him a winning lottery ticket. He usually responds with, “Oh my gosh, that’s so sweet. I love you so much!” (Big hug energy here, y’all.)

• For Vanessa, that’s when Xander suddenly says “I really love you.” No fanfare, no writing on the air, just some heartfelt words of affirmation to make her feel seen and appreciated.

It doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming! A sticky note on the bathroom mirror…a surprise coffee trip… These small acts of love and kindness add up!

So whether you’re in a good place and want to get closer, or you’re going through a rough patch and looking for a fresh start…ask yourself…

wattWhat’s one small thing I can start doing today?

Start today. Hey, your relationship might get even sweeter tomorrow.