I have a [soft silicone dildo]( that has 5,3in/13,5cm of usable length and a diameter of 1,5in/3,8cm. I’m comfortable with the girth because i have a smaller dildo that i warm up with. I can only take about 4,7in/12cm of the 13.5cm until i hit a spot that hurts and i dont seem to get past it. Goal is to take the dildo whole. Could it be that the girth of the dildo is a bit too big deeper inside and i should insert something smaller deep first?
[Anal beads in question]( are 6,7in/17cm ish insertable and diameter of the 7 beads grows from 0,79in/2cm to 1,34in/3,4cm, they’re silicone too ofc, i’m not that much of newbie. Also i think i can be careful enough to not let my ass swallow the bead toy whole but does anyone have a solution to that very small handle at the end?