Vibrators as relationship enhancement tool

Take some time to imagine a woman with a vibrator. What type of toy do you imagine she uses? If you imagine a toy that stimulates external genitals, you will be consistent with reality. In an informal investigation My Instagram Followers, 83% of those who use sex toys use people who only provide external genital stimulation. A more scientific study found the same thing: among women using vibrators, most people use it externally. This fully tracks that 96% of women need external stimulation to orgasm. The outside of the female genitals is called the vulva, which includes the hot spot of female orgasm: the clitoris. Therefore, toys that stimulate external genitals are called clitoral vibrators.

There is no doubt that clitoral vibrators will enhance women’s orgasm capabilities. In a study of women who never orgasm, 93% of people were able to orgasm after using a clitoral vibrator! But clitoral vibrators can not only help women who have never orgasm. Women who use them have easier time. They do this with less time and less effort. Many people describe their orgasm as more intense. In one study, more than three-quarters of women said vibrators profoundly altered their sexual experiences and orgasm abilities.

Many women use only vibrators. Others use vibrators alone with their partners. However, according to the study, Female using only vibrators is less sexually satisfied with women who use alone and with partners. The study also tells us that it is women who have sex with men, not women who have sex with women, who are reluctant to use vibrators with their partners. In one study, all women recognized as lesbians used vibrators with their partners, but only 70% of women identified as heterosexuals did so. Other 30% don’t use them because they fear that their male partner’s ego will be hurt and that his masculinity will be threatened. And, while this is the initial reaction of some men, most men end up showing up once they use a vibrator to understand the benefits of their partner.

In my favorite study, men who had never used a vibrator with a partner were given one and told to use it twice a week for three months before being interviewed. They say there are four benefits to using a vibrator. First, they said Increases their excitement as it adds novelty– This makes sense because the research shows that novelty enhances excitement. They also say vibrator Increases their excitement as it makes their partner even more aroused– It also makes sense because the man is excited about his partner’s awakening. Third, they said Increase intimacybecause they have to talk about vibrators. Finally, they said the vibrator is The vibrating feeling on the penis is exciting. This is because both the penis and clitoris have special receptors to respond to vibrations. The penis and clitoris are made of the same tissue and both love the feeling of vibration!

So if you have been using a vibrator with your partner and it has been enhanced for your sexual life, it is a great honor for you! Keep doing this and keep reading some interesting new ways. If you don’t use a vibrator during your partner’s sex, start doing this!

If you have casual sex, bring a vibrator and use it. We know that during casual intercourse, women have significantly less orgasms than men, the biggest reason is that in connection, women usually don’t get the clitoral stimulation they need to orgasm. To solve your life problems, throw a small handheld clitoral vibrator (e.g. Mia 2) in your wallet and make sure you get what you need.

To get what you need in a long-term relationship, set aside some time to talk to your partner outside the bedroom. Say similar:

I want to talk to you about things that make me nervous, but I do it because I hope our sex is the best. I read a blog where a sex therapist talks about a bunch of research showing that couples who incorporate vibrators into love are more excited, orgasm and intimate. Next time we have sex, I’d love to try it.

There are many ways to incorporate vibrators during sex with your partner. Here are three ways, and suggestions for a perfect vibrator for these situations.

First, you can use a vibrator designed specifically for your partner’s sex. My favorite thing is Tor 2.

This is a vibrating cock ring. The man put it on his penis during penetration. He felt the vibrations on his penis when his partner felt them on her clitoris. Win-win!

Another option is to have women stimulate their clitoris during sexual intercourse – which is a scientifically supported sexual therapy advice in itself! To do this, it is best to be in a position of intercourse (such as a woman sitting on the side entrance or a top), and the woman can easily use her clitoris. My favorite toy is Lelo Mia 3,,,,, Siri 3, or Lily 3 (Although previous versions of these, Mia 2, Siri 2and Lily 2 All the work is good too)! These all provide precise clitoral stimulation and are easy to fit between two objects.

Of course, you don’t have to use a vibrator during sex. Rather than trying to orgasm in the same behavior, you can also do something that a sex therapist usually recommends, that is, take turns having orgasm. During your turn, use your favorite vibrator yourself. For this, any vibrator you like to use alone will work, including two women like: Lelo Smart Stick and Second of the 2 secret love. If you stimulate yourself in front of your partner, it is the same sex when he looks and opens or roams other parts of the body with his mouth!

Earlier, I imagined a woman using sex toys. Now, I want you to imagine being in the pool with your partner. There is also a raft in the swimming pool. Sometimes you lie on a raft together, sometimes there is only one lounge on the raft and the other hangs on the side, chatting or kissing on the other side. After such a fun day in the pool, you won’t call a friend and say “My raft and I have had the best time! Oh, my partner is there too. “You won’t even mention rafts because it’s just an accessory that will make your experience better with your partner.

The same is true for using a vibrator during partner gender. This is the tool to make your sexual experience even more exciting, novel and intimate!