If it is the first time using a vibrator, please take some time to “warm up” and get yourself excited. It will be more enjoyable. Use the vibrator to gently caress the body, and then use your fingers to caress the labia and clitoris…
In short, before using a vibrator, it is recommended to first stimulate your desires. It is suggested to use lubricant, which allows the vibrator to glide smoothly and gently inside.
Start by setting the vibration frequency to the lowest level and gently touch the clitoris. Sensitivity of the clitoral area varies from person to person. If even the lowest intensity is too much for you, try placing the vibrator against the labia instead of directly on the clitoris, or use a towel or blanket as a barrier between the vibrator and your body. You can also try using it while wearing underwear. If you need a higher intensity, gradually increase the frequency until you find a comfortable level.
Some people enjoy direct stimulation on the front and center of the clitoris, while others prefer indirect contact. Imagine that your clitoris is a delicious apple pie divided into four slices, and you want to taste each slice, experiencing different flavors.
Once you find the optimal intensity, you can try different vibration patterns (if available). Experience each pattern and find your favorite one. While there is no specific pattern that guarantees orgasm for everyone, many women have found that they have preferences.
Exploring different intensities and patterns can be very exciting, but if you’re already on the brink of orgasm, you’ll likely want to maintain a consistent level of stimulation. Once the vibrator is inside your body, place it against your clitoris and begin. You might notice slight trembling in your body, which is normal. Relax your body and allow it to respond naturally.