Let’s talk about sex positions.
Whether you’re just starting out with a new partner or looking to spice things up with an old flame, this series of guides is for you.
Next we have the corkscrew position which increases lust.
A corkscrew:
In a nutshell, the corkscrew involves the receiving partner lying on a bed or couch (or kitchen counter) for support, with their back to their partner, while the pushing partner stands and straddles, entering from behind.
One thing is for sure, the Corkscrew puts the “screw” back into your sex life. A rear-facing sex position that requires both partners to be relatively physically comfortable and have basic flexibility, the Corkscrew offers deeper penetration and increased stimulation for the receiving partner, while allowing the thrusting partner to explore potentially whole new territory.
The corkscrew requires solid coordination between partners, but luckily, it’s inherently conducive to engagement with your partner. It seems safe for most women who aren’t yet comfortable/super intimate with a partner, allowing for easy communication while exploring each other’s pleasure zones. Of course, it turns out to be an incredibly intimate position to explore first time anal.
Corkscrew can also be great for when the receiving partner is feeling tired or lazy, making it perfect for slow and steady intercourse. Sunday mornings in bed.
Note on conditions:
When talking about penetration, we use the terms “thrusting partner” for the person with the penis (biological or synthetic) and “receiving partner” for the person accepting the act of penetration (vaginal or anal).
It is important to note that being a receiver is not a passive, submissive role. It is an active, enthusiastic role. There is power in choice, and by choosing to invite their partner into themselves, the receiver exercises that power.
Additionally, the thrusting partner is not just a giver. Of course, he or she also receives pleasure during the act. But for the sake of clarity and consistency, we have selected these terms for both sides of the dynamic.
How to do:
To get into this position, the receiving partner lies on her side on a bench, couch, or bed, supporting herself on her hip and forearm. The thrusting partner kneels or stands behind her and penetrates her from behind.
As he pushes, he turns his body to one side while keeping his hands on his hips for stability. The receiving partner can support herself with her hands.
To further enhance the experience, the receiving partner can keep their thighs pressed together, giving them a firmer grip on the thrusting partner’s penis.
The receiving partner may also prefer a more active role and enjoy slightly thrusting their hips to match and/or adjust the depth, tempo and rhythm of the thrusting partner’s penetration with their movements.
Reasons why we love it:
– The combination of the twisting motion of the thrusting partner and the “back” position allows for deeper penetration.
– The twisting motion can provide a unique and new sensation for both partners compared to more traditional sex positions.
– The perpendicular position allows you to reach many new areas, including that of the receiving partner. G point.
– The closeness and physical contact of this position can help strengthen communication between the two partners, helping them to adopt more intense and personal positions.
Variations to try:
Legs in the air
The receiving partner places their legs over the thrusting partner’s shoulders for even deeper penetration and increased stimulation.
This variation can seem quite unbelievable, especially if sex never seems deep enough for either of you.
Turn around
The pushing partner changes the twist direction to add a whole new list of different sensations.
This variation is for explorers at heart and those who generally seek that whole new feeling.
Kisses all around
The pushing partner incorporates additional physical contact, such as kissing or caressing, as a means of increasing emotional intimacy and general enjoyment.
This one is perfect for those who want to “fuck”, but with lots of love to spare.
Other tips and tricks:
– For added support, feel free to incorporate the use of a pillow, whether to elevate the receiving partner’s hips, to wedge them between their legs, or for any other strategy that improves the comfort of either partner.
– Take it easy. Start slowly and be patient with yourself and your partner. It may take some time and practice to master the technique and find a comfortable rhythm.
– Communicate with your partner. This has been said before, but it bears repeating: communication is the key to any sexual activity, and is especially important in more coordinated positions like the corkscrew. Be sure to discuss any physical limitations or concerns with your partner before trying the position, and don’t be afraid to switch sides: chances are you’ll feel more comfortable lying on one side than the other!
– Introduce sex toys. Using a vibrator Or dildo on your clitoris (or anywhere else!) while you’re pulling the plug all night can take things to the next level of dirty. Bonus tip: If you do try the vaginal corkscrew, consider wearing an anal plug at the same time for more sensations, there is a good chance that your partner will feel it too.
– Add lubricant as needed. A little extra glide can help you sync your movements to feel more in sync as your bodies push and grind against each other. Super hot, you heard it here first. <3