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We’ve officially entered the biggest gift-giving season of winter, which means it’s time to let love and good looks take center stage in our holiday celebrations!

Of course, exploring intimacy and sensual play with your partner during this amorous time of year is a great way to focus love, pleasure, and fun in your relationship, and remind you why you and your partner are low-key obsessed with each other. This means you may want to invest in a sex toy or some other intimate gift to enhance your bedroom.

Picking out a harmless vanilla gift for your significant other is hard enough, so we’re here to help you identify the sexiest gift. Whether it’s a new toy to try, an introduction to an exciting toy you’d like to try, or the usual toy deals to splurge on, we’ve got you covered. Sex toys come in all shapes and sizes, too, so you can grab a special stocking stuffer or something larger to really stir up a stir. There’s even a sex toy advent calendar if you want to celebrate throughout the month, as well as a subscription box that keeps on giving.

And, before you read on, here’s an evergreen reminder: Giving sex toys as gifts is your best bet for people you know who want NSFW gifts from you. Please be wise and respect consent before sending anyone the goodies on this list! If you’re even a little hesitant, maybe sit down, get a gift card, and make shopping part of your foreplay.

Otherwise, happy shopping! And, what’s more, when your gift arrives, you can enjoy some fun adult playtime!

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Bloomi Starter Pack

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Indulging yourself or your loved ones is what the holidays are all about, right? Bloomi’s starter set is a versatile slam dunk for those who enjoy clitoral and body massage stimulation. This set contains a tube of slick personal water-based lubricant and the Indulge Dual-Sided Vibrator, which features three exciting vibration modes to keep things fresh.
Bloomi Starter Pack
$64
sex bomb bath bomb

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It’s always good to calm down and reevaluate what constitutes a sex toy. It requires no vibration, thrust or suction to change! Sex bath bombs, like Lush’s highly regarded Sex Bomb Bath Bomb, are a cool way to bring a different scent and experience to intimacy. Use it for some self-care before you put it on (check out those aphrodisiac ingredients!), or for some really sweet after-shower care.
Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE wide handcuffs

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Make your life so much better with a cute set of handcuffs that are both beautiful and beginner-friendly, allowing you to enjoy losing or gaining more control in bed. (Pro tip: Feel free to take turns talking about how you feel in each role!) As a bonus, these handcuffs also double as chic leather bracelets—just untie the chain to turn them into a smart, sexy accessory.
When you play with them in the bedroom (perhaps our favorite handcuff sex position?), be sure to practice safe play and know your safe words and BDSM etiquette.
Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE wide handcuffs
$45
Curvy Beauty 2+

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I’m a big fan of an app-enabled remote control toy, and they’re an especially good option for people with long-distance partners. The Curvy 2+ from Satisfyer is definitely one I recommend to anyone who likes a good suction feel.
Curvy Beauty 2+
$34.95
on amazon.com
Vibes Only Cleaning Towel

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By far the silliest part of sex is cleanup time. If you’re looking for a cheeky, dedicated tool to deal with post-sex fluids, Vibes Only’s super cute cleansing towels will give you a sweet, giggly feeling of gratitude after play.
Vibes Only Cleaning Towel
$16
Missy Clitoral Stimulator by Girls Get Off

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The most popular toy from cult-favorite sex toy brand Girls Get Off, Missy makes a Christmas stocking so cute you’d never guess how powerful it is. This toy uses pulsating suction to deliver a variety of good sensations to your clitoris, and rave reviews reveal just how effective it really is. One commenter said Missy saved their marriage, while another said it helped them find joy again after a painful childbirth. “I bought myself a Missy and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done,” one person wrote. Which lucky person on your gift list got one?
Isabelle Fay water-based lubricant

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Water-based lube is a must-have in your sexual health toolbox for many reasons, but there’s something sweet about investing in a really good one that goes well with just about anything you throw at it A splurge you will thank yourself later. Isabel Fay’s water-based lube is designed to keep your vaginal pH safe, and the bottle is so pretty that it won’t look out of place next to the body lotion on your bedside table.
Isabelle Fay water-based lubricant
$17.95
on amazon.com
give me eva

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The Dame Eva is a favorite couples vibrator for these areas, helping you get more out of penetrative sex or solo sex with targeted clitoral stimulation that goes where you want it, while also Share some sweet vibrations to create wealth with their partner. A win-win situation.
give me eva
$98 $139.99 30% discount
on amazon.com
LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle

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Massage is a great way to build intimacy and make your partner feel great. It’s one of our favorite at-home sex toys for a reason! I swear by this massage candle from LELO, which gives you ambience and lubrication (because candles are really just solid massage oil) in one sleek and sexy package.
LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle
$24.50 $34.90 30% discount
on amazon.com
Erotic Senior 2

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There’s a reason why the Womanizer is a fan favorite, and the Premium 2 – the latest iteration of their super popular vibrator – shows why. This small but powerful clitoral stimulator includes 14(!) vibration modes, as well as an autopilot setting that lets you turn it on and enjoy the ride. Plus, it’s quiet – perfect for anyone who wants to sneak in some fun in a crowded house during the holidays!
Erotic Senior 2
$159
on amazon.com
Promescent The Rub & Love Set

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Looking for a way to make date night a little more exciting? The Promescent Rub & Love Pack includes everything you need to make it happen. The set includes a massage oil to “awaken” your partner’s senses, a warming gel to “get the party started before it really starts,” and an orgasm control spray to extend the party.
Promescent Rub & Love Set
$50.91
longing for vespers

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Jewelry as a gift is never a bad idea, and this beautiful pendant necklace that doubles as a discreet yet powerful vibrator is the best of both worlds. Available in silver, rose gold and gold, the Crave Vesper has something to suit everyone’s taste.
longing for vespers
$44.85
on amazon.com
Tracy’s Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

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If you’re looking to have a NSFW date night, a remote-controlled vibrator like this one can definitely elevate any activity—including running errands, watching a movie, or taking a walk with a hot girl. I particularly like this product because it combines vibration with suction and of course the super cute and discreet remote control.
Tracy’s Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator
$49.99
Mod Vibe + Organic Gloss

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Maude’s chic shaker is stylish and discreet enough to serve as bedside table decoration—when it’s not being used to its full potential, of course. Paired with Maude’s organic aloe lube, this spine-tingling vibe includes three speed settings and a throbbing tip to keep the good times rolling.
Mod Vibe + Organic Gloss
$50.15
on amazon.com