Let’s face it – When your alarm is triggered in the morning, your first instinct probably did not have to jump on your partner. Maybe it is to scroll without a goal, to doze to “only five minutes more” or browse the kitchen for this sweet drop of caffeine. But what happens if there was a much better way to start your day-the one that is hot, healthy and worthwhile to be awake?
It’s the sex 101 in the morning, the guide of your beginner to put it Before Your teeth are brushed. Yeah, you heard of course.
The case for AM Shag
Why bother with morning sex? Isn’t night the default sexy time? Assuming you can keep your eyes open, that is to say …
Although there is something undeniably romantic in candles and a glass of wine, think of the morning sex like the underestimated brunch of the room: indulgent, well-being and perfect for people who love things a little disorderly but very satisfactory indeed.
Here is the arrangement of the reasons why you may want to move part of your sexy time at sunrise:
1. Your hormones are essentially the begging
In the early hours, your testosterone levels (yes, for all sexes) are naturally at the highest. Translation? Libido obtains a major boost. Your body is already in mood – it just waits for you to catch up.
In addition, you are well rested (ideally), which means that you are more likely to have energy and enthusiasm to have fun. And let’s be real: there is something more primitive and delicious in a head atmosphere of the head of the head. No pretexts, no pre -match – just you, your lover and a serious morning magic.
2. This is the sexiest awakening
If you hate mornings, morning sex can wake up a lot more attractive. Knowing that there is a bare body next to you and a potential orgasm (or two) in your immediate future could simply show you going.
In addition, if you are one of those people who feel grumpy or groggy, sex can get you out. A little moaning and groaning goes very far, especially when it is not traffic or reception box.
3. It is an espresso photo of nature
The orgasms trigger the release of well-being hormones such as dopamine and oxytocin, and morning sex in particular can give you high happiness that transports you all your day. The advantages include: stress relief, an immune boost, an improved mood and this post-co-organic glow that goes perfectly with your morning cup O ‘Joe.
The underlying question here is: Why settle for a latte when you can start your day with a literal zinger?
4. Sex with the lights on = hot, honest and intimate
Morning sex essentially means doing it with the light lights – whether it is the gentle translucence of a rainy day, or the full sun light through your blinds. Clearly seeing – pointed eyes, ruffled hair, morning wood and everything – can be incredibly intimate. There is no hiding place in the shade, no mood lighting to disguise what is real.
This kind of visibility promotes confidence, vulnerability and proximity. And let’s not forget the visuals – looking at the movement of your partner’s body, clear as the day? Underrated. Highly recommended. Better than the screen of your smartphone.
But what about morning breath?
Ah yes, the breathable elephant in the room. Morning sex is raw and real, and this includes breathing and not so fresh and folds on your face. But Newsflash: nobody expects a perfection of mint fruit at 7 a.m. (and if they are, you may need a new bed companion).
That said, if the morning breath kills the atmosphere for you or your partner, there are options:
– Keep the mints and / or water near the bed.
– Hit the bathroom for a 30 -second rinsing “not spitting (and pee!).
– Opt for positions that keep the mouth at a safety and sexy distance, such as slowdown, 69ing or even missionary variations.
The objective is connection, not perfection. If you are both at the occupation, the morning funk will not stop the pleasure.
Morning sex hack: how to do it correctly (even half sleep)
If you are sold on the idea but you still don’t know how to make it work Before Coffee, don’t be afraid. Here is your cheat sheet to become a professional sex:
1. Define the scene the day before
A little preparation can go very far. After all, completely spontaneous sex is a myth. Think: sleeping naked (or semi-naked), and sneakily adjust your alarm 15-30 minutes earlier if you are in a hurry for the time. Sexy does not need to be fanciful, with lingerie and candles – simple accessibility goes very far.
2. Keep things simple (and lazy)
Morning sex does not concern acrobatics or orgasms with five dishes (unless it is your thing). It’s about going back, grasping what you want and getting what you need – drowsiness and hot and hot. Think of lazy and tangled and whispering members “MMM yes just there is” rather than the full performance mode. You don’t even need to sweat (unless you want has).
3. Make it a habit
Here is a wild idea: what if morning sex was not only a treat, but a routine? Even once a week can create a pace shared between you and your partner – something intimate, connective and Oh -Si satisfactory before the other Grind has priority. Routines like this can make your whole relationship more alive. Who does not want to start the day to feel desired?
What if you are not one morning, a complete stop?
Totally fair. Not everyone wants to wake up and be immediately touched. And sometimes your brain always restarts and your body like: “Can we not? “”
Here’s what to keep in mind:
– Consent is always sexy in the early morning. Make it a rule to check with sleepy whispers: “Do you want to play before getting up?” is a mood in itself.
– Explore your timing. Morning sex does not have to signify RIGHT When you wake up. It can be post-shower (or in the shower), post-toast or just before leaving for work (alias the special “We-have-10-minute”).
– Do not force it. Morning sex should be fun, never a chore. If you are just not in it, save the sexcapades for later. Your bed, your period.
Between the boost of the natural hormone, the sleeping endorphins and the undeniable sex appeal of a non-awakening of sufficiently awake to block you with too much, the morning sex may well be what the good goddess has ordered.
So go ahead – real and raw pleasure is the first thing on your task list. There is a good chance that the rest of your list will become much more fluid. <3