Love and Desire with a Virgo | Aldult Toys Blog

The wisdom of the stars is everywhere and accessible in our daily lives, if we choose to pay attention. The Goddess knows that when it comes to desire and love, we can all benefit from whatever resources are available to us. While there are of course no exact formulas that lock a person into the dictates of their astrological destiny, there is a wealth of surprisingly applicable information to be gleaned, much of it very specific. Take those (often underestimated) Virgo girls born under the sign of Virgo, between August 23 and September 22. If you’re in a relationship with one, why not take every opportunity to better understand what makes her engine purr, how to get past her outer wall of defense, and the best ways to make her scream with joy?

Here I bring you some of the most naughty and remarkable traits belonging to your Virgo lover:

Plan, practice and perfect

Think of them as the 3 Ps of the Virgo sensual code: plan, practice, and perfect. First of all, Virgos aren’t typically the type to engage in spontaneous or experimental sexual encounters. They tend to plan things out and stick to a routine so they know what to expect. Second, Virgos tend to embody the old adage “practice makes perfect” in all areas of life, and sex is no exception. If they’re attracted to you, they can become somewhat obsessed with establishing that routine, and I mean really right: Perhaps one of Virgo’s best qualities as a lover is their willingness to make sure their partner is completely satisfied. Third, while they have a reputation for being picky or prudish, in bed this translates into a mastery of the smallest details. They will therefore succeed in perfecting your pleasure.

If you want to turn your Virgo up to 10%, make sure you schedule time together in advance and make your intentions clear, no matter how dirty they may be. Virgo planners love to have time to think and get high in anticipation. You might also become attentive to the finer details of what you’re planning: the right visuals are always fun (think a pair of black stockings, if that’s their thing), and the right kind of touch might just turn them on (usually gentle, lingering, and thorough). It also doesn’t hurt to pay extra attention to hygiene: you could take a shower together as foreplay. But it’s worth noting that as perfectionist as they can be in some ways, Virgos are ultimately pretty down-to-earth and completely uninterested in flattery, glitz, or glamour.

Wild and verbose

Despite their reputation, Virgos are not inhibited. On the contrary, they are simply excited by specific Things like thoughtfulness, the kind of dirty talk of the highest order. Many Virgos use sex as an opportunity to finally let loose and get in touch with their inner wild child, except their wild version also happens to be wordy. Being the planners and visualizers that they are, words give Virgos an extra treat because they’re like another layer of wrapping paper carefully affixed to a deliciously irresistible gift: They fuel anticipation and imagination. Not to mention, unlike other earth signs, Virgos actually love talking about sex, so if you’re a champion of open communication but also prefer to stay grounded in reality, Virgo is the earthy equivalent of your ideal partner.

To tease your Virgo’s sensual mind, you can choose a book or illustrated video about sex to watch together. When it comes to dirty talk, it’s important to find the right words, as Virgos are talkative, but if you use the wrong words, you risk upsetting them. Be sensitive and attentive to their reactions. In reality, the best way to seduce a Virgo is to keep her engaged, and the best way to do this is to be her intellectual equal; they are turned on by their analytical skills and sharp minds.

Submissive…and a little perverse

Some Virgo partners may be frustrated because they don’t always make the effort to throw Sex. But really, since most Virgos are naturally submissive, they get incredibly turned on by the idea of ​​being a sex slave “forced” to do indecent things. Virgos spend a lot of time in their heads, so being ordered around is a welcome break. They have no problem letting their partner take the reins, and they may even be tempted to get spanked. If you’re a naturally dominant type, you’ll probably get as much out of it as you put in. If not, Virgos tend to be surprisingly sexually flexible and are willing to try new things (like being dominant), as long as they can play the submissive role at times. Voyeurism also appeals to many Virgos, as it’s an act that requires no initiation; it’s passive and they’re “innocent” bystanders.

Since your Virgo has a fertile imagination, you can use your words (carefully) to let her know your plans to take control. Tell her what you plan to do, how you plan to do it, and what you expect from her. Also, take the time to set the mood when planning something with your sexy Virgo. Arrange all the props or toys in an orderly manner. And no matter what naughty items are on the menu, never skip the foreplay. Cuddling and caressing are the kindling that fuels a Virgo’s passion. Use body contact to ignite that fire.

Quality over quantity

Virgos care a lot more about the quality of their sex than the numbers. If you’re with a Virgo, you may have noticed that she has no problem doing it once or twice a week (or less!), as long as the sex is good, of course. If you’re a good match, it won’t be alarming, but perfect. Would you rather have a quick, questionable sex every day or a long, drawn-out session that follows you for days, but not as often?

If you’re devoted to your Virgo partner, you’d do well to make an effort to live in the moment with them, sexually speaking. Getting the most out of every sexual encounter without craving quick, constant climaxes is the way to go. Of course, there’s always room for compromise, and chances are your Virgo partner will be open to a quick, spontaneous romp every now and then if you’re particularly convincing.

Emotional loyalty is a given

Virgos can be extremely picky, especially when it comes to choosing a partner. Most of them would rather go without sex than settle for a one-night stand without calories. This means that they are very rarely guilty of emotional infidelity. Virgos find it quite difficult to manage all the feelings associated with a single relationship, let alone two or more. Physical cheating, however, comes a little easier for some Virgos, especially if they don’t get enough of that regular “practice makes perfect” practice with their regular partner.

First of all, when a Virgo chooses you, take it as a compliment. Second, since Virgos tend to love talking about sex, do your part to keep the lines of communication open—there’s no better way to inspire loyalty than to be honest, vulnerable, and loyal yourself. Let’s put it this way: If this is the right person for you, loyalty won’t even cross your mind because it won’t be an issue.

Bottom line: Treat your sexy, sensitive Virgo right and you’ll find you have nothing to complain about (literally). Where there’s a true connection, there’s a beautiful collision of minds, hearts, and bodies just waiting to happen.

When it comes to compatibility, no one does Virgo better than Taurus, Capricorn, and Pisces, with honorable mentions going to Cancer and Scorpio, but no matter your sign, lustful love conquers all, so if it’s worth it, you’ll know (chances are you already know).