Micki Daniels has been a high-end escort for more than a decade, but there’s one part of her job that “no one believes in.”
Ms. Daniels, 29, said she didn’t sleep with as many clients as you might think; in fact, she blamed it on male loneliness.
“No one will believe this, but I don’t sleep with 80 percent of my clients. I get a lot of bookings and a lot of men tell me they don’t want to have sex and just want to spend their time doing other things,” she explains.
Spending time with Ms. Daniels isn’t cheap, but men are willing to pay $1,300 an hour to talk to someone.
“A lot of men are afraid to be themselves, even in a relationship with their wife or girlfriend. I think most men are uncomfortable with who they are because of the pressures in society today,” she told news.com.au.
“So they seek comfort from an escort who will not judge them and will accept them for who they are, just like we do.”
Ms Daniels said men often wanted to ask about her life and daily activities to distract from their own problems.
“I think what they really want to talk about is not just what’s going on with them, what’s going on at home, what’s going on at work, or both,” she said.
Sometimes the conversations became so heated that it took Ms. Daniels an hour or two to calm down.
“I feel exhausted after almost every appointment. As a caregiver, I put in a lot of emotional, mental and psychological effort so that they can have a good experience,” she explains.
The 29-year-old client also made more niche requests.
“Some men just want to be pampered and massaged, I once had a man who wanted me to serve him drinks in my underwear. They come to me for intimacy, for passion, for what they want and deserve,” she said.
Another reason many clients don’t sleep with her is that they feel nervous and can’t respond during sex.
“Even though you think these 24-year-olds are ready to go, they can’t handle the pressure, or even the pressure of me being in front of them,” she said.
“I don’t think men realise that it’s normal to lack confidence in the bedroom or not be able to perform due to pressure.”
There are many reasons why men may not do well during her treatment. The root cause is often emotional issues. If a man is going through a divorce, breakup, or a difficult time at work.
“I’ve been in this industry for ten years and have seen it all. I will never make someone feel inferior because they can’t have sex with me. I can still satisfy them and be there for them,” she said.