So you think you’re successful, but how can you be sure?

Your friends aren’t the most reliable source because they’re biased, and you can’t just ask your ex because, you know, they’re your ex.

Here is how I can help you.

Read the following 100 questions. Each time you answer “yes”, write a point on a piece of paper. Record your points and I’ll tell you what they mean at the end.

Well, by the end of this article, one of two things will have happened.

You will either discover that you have more potential than you thought, or you will discover that you are a little arrogant about your market value, and then you will know what areas of personal development you can focus on to maximize the potential that lies within you.

You need to be completely honest about this. If you are not sure whether you agree with something, it is best to leave it out and record it as a no.

Are you ready for this mission? Good! Let’s get started.

How to tell if you’re a good person: 100 questions to ask yourself

Your personality

– Do you consider yourself to be a kind person by nature?

– Do you value honesty?

– Are you proud of who you are as a person?

– If I asked your closest friends, would they say, overall, you are a good person?

– In the past three months, have you done anything that made you afraid (hesitant, cautious, uncertain)?

– When you buy groceries, do you put your shopping cart back in its proper place?

– When speaking to customer service personnel (servers at restaurants, people bagging your groceries, etc.), are you attentive, enthusiastic, and friendly?

– When you tell someone you are going to do something, do you usually do it (do it at the time you said you were going to do it)?

Your lifestyle

– Is your diet healthy?

– Are you actively taking care of your health?

– In the past year, have you woken up every day without a hangover?

– Have you stopped smoking in the past year?

– Are you satisfied with your body shape?

– In the past week, have you drunk more than 2 liters or half a gallon of water on one day?

Your social life

– Do you have a close friend whom you trust very much?

– Are you a good friend?

– Do you go out of your way to care, help, and be kind to your friends?

– In the past month, have you left home to socialize with someone who does not live with you?

– Have you given any gifts to friends in the last year?

– Do you feel seen, cared for, and supported by the friends in your life?

– Would you be willing to share with a friend something challenging you are currently going through?

Your habits

– Do you maintain healthy habits every day?

– Do you maintain healthy habits every week?

– If you wake up in a bad mood, is there anything you can do to pull yourself out of that mood?

– Have you ever made a New Year’s resolution and achieved it within the same year?

– Overall, do you feel like you are living a life that is consistent with who and what you want to be?

Your communication

– Has anyone ever told you that you are a good listener?

– When someone speaks to you, do you make sure that person feels heard and understood?

– When arguing with someone, do you try to understand why they are saying what they are saying?

– Have you given a compliment (or praise or verbal recognition) to anyone in the past week?

– Has anyone ever told you that you are funny or have a good sense of humor?

– Are you able to easily say “no” to situations, people, or events that you do not want to be a part of?

– When communicating with someone you’ve never met in person, do you find yourself able to follow their pace, tone, or manner of speaking?

– Are you willing to clearly express or demand that your needs be met in a relationship?

Your appearance

– Has anyone complimented you on your looks in the past month?

– Do you like the way you look now?

– Has anyone ever seemed shy, nervous, or unnatural around you, and did you think it was because they found you attractive?

– What’s your favorite part about your appearance?

– In the past 30 days, have you looked in the mirror and thought positively about what you saw?

– Do you seem to get a lot of attention from people of the opposite sex you like?

Your dating history

– Have you been in a previous relationship (regardless of duration)?

– Whether you are currently single, dating, or married, has it been more than six months since you started your new relationship?

– Did you know that your ex thinks highly of you and truly wishes you the best?

– When it comes to the intimate relationships you’ve ended, are you proud of the way you ended most of them?

– Would you say most of your exes are essentially good people?

– Has anyone ever told you explicitly that you are great?

Your sexual orientation

– Do you like sex?

– Do you consider yourself a sexy person?

– Are you comfortable expressing your sexual needs verbally to your partner?

– Are you willing to give your partner instant direction on how you want to bring you the most pleasure?

– Are you a fairly open-minded person when it comes to sex?

– If a long-term partner (2+ years) introduced you to a new sexual fantasy that you were able to satisfy physically and emotionally, do you think you would be willing to try it with them?

– Do you enjoy investing in your sex life, whether through ongoing commitment, experimentation and effort, or ongoing education and skill development?

Your reliability

– Do you keep your promises?

– If you say you’re going to do something, can people expect you to do it?

– In the past, when your partner has brought up challenging or difficult things with you that they wanted to talk about, have you been able to talk about it and resolve the issue to their satisfaction?

– Do you consider yourself an honest person?

– Do you complete more than 98% of the things you commit to on time?

– If you think you’re going to be late and someone is expecting you at a certain time, do you always try to tell them in advance that you might be late?

Your relationship with emotions

– Have you ever cried or shed tears over something in the past 30 days?

– Do you believe your emotions are valuable and necessary?

– In the past three months, have you ever shed tears or cried because of something that happened to someone else (whether or not you knew the person directly)?

– Do you view your emotions as wise and beneficial?

– When you feel angry (frustrated, resentful, impatient, bored, etc.), do you feel empowered to express that anger?

– Have you had healthy, well-formed stools over the past three days?

Your financial situation

– Can you afford your current lifestyle?

– Do you have more than $50,000 in savings?

– Do you have six months or more of cash in a bank account that you can easily access?

– Are you debt-free (other than your mortgage and/or car loan)?

– Do you have money in your retirement accounts?

– Do you have money in your investment accounts?

– Do you feel you can invest as you please when it comes to paying for your necessities?

– Do you allow yourself to enjoy money?

– Has anyone ever commented on you being a generous person with regard to money?

– Have you given anyone a generous tip in the past month?

– Do you feel fully secure, abundant, trustworthy, and well-resourced in your financial life?

Your emotional availability

– When you see a happy couple in public, do you feel wonderful things for them (joy, warmth, gratitude, encouragement, etc.)?

– Do you feel like you are completely open to starting a wonderful relationship?

– Have you avoided ruining any promising potential connections over the past year?

– Does having a healthy relationship excite you?

– Do you have generally positive feelings towards both men and women?

– Do you think the world is mostly filled with kind, well-meaning people?

Your self-awareness

– Do you like yourself as a person?

– Do you know your core values (i.e., what you care about most in life)?

– Do you know what kind of life you want?

– Are you proud of how you perform most days?

– Do you know what you absolutely want and what you absolutely don’t want in a relationship?

– Do you feel like you have learned and grown through the hardships you’ve experienced in life?

Your hobbies

– What are your hobbies?

– Have you had a good week?

– Have you played any in the past week?

– Do you have any hobbies that you can pursue on your own?

– What hobbies do you have that you would participate in with other people?

– What hobbies did you have when you were younger (or related hobbies) that you still pursue today?

A clear understanding of your life vision

–Do you know what kind of life you want?

– Do you have any goals?

– When you wake up in the morning, are you excited about the day ahead?

– Is there something you do regularly that predictably puts you in a good mood?

– Are you willing to let go of relationships that don’t fit in with the lifestyle you’re building?

– Do you feel a positive momentum in your life right now?

So, do you qualify? What your score means

OK, you’ve answered all 100 questions… and you’ve calculated your score. Now what? Read the legend below to see how well you did. If you didn’t meet your expectations, there’s always room for improvement in our search to be as good as possible.

0-40 points: It sounds like you have some work to do. Fortunately, you can take note of the areas on the quiz where you scored lowest and start prioritizing those areas of your life to see the greatest improvement.

40-60 points: Well, that’s not bad! You may not be the best, but you’re certainly in a good place. We all have room for improvement!

60-80 points: You get a B+ in catching. You really have a lot of upside and anyone would love to play with you.

80-90 points: You are a qualified talent. There is no doubt about it. You have a good heart, a happy life, and you have a lot of love to give. Cheers to you!

90-100 points: You are a genius. I didn’t even know they could make someone like you anymore, but here you are now… in all your glory. Congratulations on becoming an extraordinary person. You are a gift from God to the world, and we are all grateful for your contribution (yes, even the haters, they are secretly inspired by you).

There is always room for growth

Look, nobody’s perfect. We all have room to grow.

If you get a zero (or close to it) on some parts of this test, it just means you need to work on some of the points (e.g. All of us Do!).

I hope this quiz has inspired you and that you are excited about your next steps.

Committed to your success,

Jordan

PS: If you enjoyed reading this article on how to become a fisherman, you’ll also enjoy checking out these resources:

– Apply for Jordan’s one-on-one tutoring

– “Why am I still single?” 5 reasons + solutions

– How to Meet Your Husband in 30 Days

– 8 Reasons You Can’t Attract Conscious Men (Like You Are Right Now)

– How to optimize your dating profile if you’re attractive

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