First intercourse

That’s it, friends. This is the moment you’ve all been waiting for. A story that’s all-encompassing. Intrigue, romance, and a little action. This is my First intercourse story.

We all have a story about how someone Sexual relations did occur With us. I’m sure I’m not the only one whose first time around wasn’t as earth-shattering as we thought it would be.

One minute is fun

Don’t get me wrong, I enjoyed it, for about 45 seconds…and then my seemingly innate sexual selfishness took over and I orgasmed.

But I skipped the foreplay leading up to this climactic finale, so let me go back…

For those of you who have read my introductory blog, you will know that this is a little late in terms of flowering. But better late than never, right?

I met this girl in 2006

It was 2006 and I had just started my HSC at a brand new school. I didn’t have many friends, but I wasn’t a social outcast either. It was through this small group that I met Leia*, a beautiful and talented musician who lived in my school’s boarding house, which was for international students and those who lived too far away to commute every day. She was one of the latter, her parents lived in Wentworth Falls, deep in the Blue Mountains.

We hit it off and became good friends. She was dating a boy a year younger than us at the time, but it unfortunately didn’t work out. Not long after that, we started dating.

It was unlike anything I had ever experienced before. It was a whole new world of coffee together, constant texting, smiles.

Sex talk is coming

After a few weeks of intimate contact with the 13+ and some very intense caressing, the topic of sex became inevitable. After underage drinking, I shared the shameful secret I had hidden in an undisclosed location (to protect those involved). I was a 17 year old virgin…

She was very understanding and understanding about it. Apparently, it wasn’t as uncommon as I thought. Just like that, my secret was out and she’s still around. In retrospect, having a good-looking boy who can be molded and shaped to suit your sexual needs isn’t such a bad thing. Other than that, it’s all been great for me.

So we made plans and decided her house would be best since my dad and stepmom were always around. I called my friend to prepare my alibi and she did the same. Then the date was set…

We waited two weeks

I have two weeks until I lose my V-plate, and in the history of time measurement, two weeks has never been so long. But after what felt like an eternity without sex, today is the day.

I was ready, I was excited, but I suddenly realized I had no idea what I was doing…

Sure, I got sex education. Like everyone else, but there’s a fine line between putting a condom on a banana and putting one on yourself. Not to mention that a 2D drawing with bullet points doesn’t do justice to the complexity of a vagina.

I became very anxious

I then spent 3 hours on the train thinking about all the “what ifs” my anxious teenage brain could comprehend. This was probably the worst thing I could have done.

But I realized that, like everything, practice makes perfect. So if my first time having sex didn’t turn out like a porn star, that was okay. That thought comforted me as I made my way to her house.

But when I got there, reality set in and the “what ifs” came flooding back so hard that I almost ran back to the station screaming. But I mustered up the courage to knock on her door.

She invited me in.

She invited me in and told me to feel free. So I sat in her living room with some action movie playing in the background. We started making out, and as things got heated, she suggested we move to her room.

I tried to be as confident as possible but all I knew about real life sex was from porn and porn doesn’t lean towards realism at all. So she took over after she took over and failed miserably.

I took off my clothes and lay on the bed

She had me strip naked and lie on the bed. Not being confident in myself, I quickly stripped and got under the blankets. As she stripped and laid down with me, I started to shake, I was so anxious. But she almost patiently and gently coaxed me into a complete turn-on for my first oral experience.

She sensed I was ready and had me put on a condom, and when I finally figured it out (I think after 3 tries…) she guided me inside her… I’d love to tell you that I had stars in my eyes and the universe changed. But to be honest, it felt good, but not up to the hype everyone told me it would.

Since then I have had many sexual partners and experiences.

You’ll never forget the first time

But I will always remember my first time.

*Names have been changed to protect the privacy of those involved

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