Do you understand ignore and its influence?

Do you understand ignore and its influence?

Irene Snow

Many gender, pornographic and pairing substances/sexual drug users enter our treatment when they seek integrity, telling us that they have not abused or suffer in any way. However, when we started to cooperate with them, we found that they were. Usually, the abuse they suffer are not public, such as beatings, constant criticism or sexual contact. Instead, they have suffered the so -called “quiet” trauma, including all forms of neglect.

Generally, these people think they are not traumatized because there are nothing obvious bad things. When asked about childhood, they often said they had loved their parents. They will say at most that one or two parents are not emotionally or emotional.

What these people do not understand is that ignoring is a form of abuse, which is as painful as all other abuse forms. According to ENOD GRAY’s saying in her book, “Silent abusers”, it is expressed in many ways. The most common form is as follows:

• Lack of enough food, shelter, clothes
• Emotion/Psychological abandonment
• Priority
• Not hear
• Not allowed to own or express emotions
• Used as an agent spouse
• Forced to act as an agent parents
• Over -control

Usually, those who are ignored but have not been ignored like children but have not been abused publicly, but want to know why. These people are often struggling with addiction, relationship dilemma, depression, anxiety and many other issues, and decide that this is more important to what happened to them, because in their opinion, nothing bad makes them do so. However, ignoring the lack of support, in the short term and long -term, they are traumatized like more obvious abuse forms.

For more information about neglecting, including the method of identifying and overcoming it, we strongly recommend ENOD Gray’s book “Ignore: Silent Abuse”. We also recommend Dr. Rob Weiss and podcasts of ENOD GRAY.

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