FF: Understand her sexual orientation: please please your guidelines

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Men are very direct in terms of sex. Our body parts are outside, and they respond fiercely to stimuli. We can easily reach orgasm. When we enjoy what we are doing, we usually give good instructions through sound, movements and words. In addition, men’s needs and enjoyment are very similar. Yes, there are some changes, but the change is not much.

Women are completely different stories. Their body parts are hidden, and the reaction to stimulus is very small and it is difficult to see. The orgasm may take a while (according to the male standards), and the feedback is usually poor or does not exist at all. In addition, women’s preferences are also very different, not only because of women, but also like the same woman again and again. It’s enough to make a man alone! Well, not true, but this may be frustrating.

Next is a variety of sexual issues. Some of them are suitable for your lady, and some are not suitable for your lady. If you want to know more information, most of them have links to other posts:

• Communicate, communicate, and communicate. Nothing can be more helpful than this, and there is nothing to make up for the impact of not communication. If you are the hesitation person, then overcome it. If so, please handle it gently. You need to know what she wants, her thoughts, and her feelings about sex. You also need her to tell you what it feels good, how it feels bad, when it feels good to feel good, and whether it feels good to not good. Promote her not to hurt your feelings. You are not feminine, so you need her to help you learn how to deal with them to get the greatest fun.
• Just because she didn’t feel “burning in the fire”, it didn’t mean she was unwilling to have sex. It does not mean that if you have sex, she will not enjoy sex. For men, sexual desire is spontaneous, but for most women, sexual desire is triggered.
• Her menstrual cycle has a great impact on her sexual behavior. You should always know what stage she is in the menstrual cycle, and what it means to me.
• It is found that contraceptives and other hormone contraceptives can cause hormonal changes, which significantly reduces the sexual desire and sexual pleasure of many women. If your wife uses hormones to avoid pregnancy, this may be part of any sexual problems you encounter. Other drugs, especially antidepressants, can also cause problems. Her doctor may be able to help find methods to solve these problems.
• Because her genitals are more sensitive, she is more likely to feel uncomfortable or painful because of sexual behavior. If you ignore the signs of pain, she may stop complaining, which is not a good way to deal with the problem. Ask her if she feels pain and what you can do to help her. (Understand why sex will cause damage)
• She may not want to reach a climax every time. When I say that, some women will feel uneasy, while others agree For them, “Every time it reaches the pressure of orgasm” actually delays their sexual life. Ask her and believe in her words.
• If she is difficult to reach orgasm or never reach an orgasm, the problem may be between her ears. Fortunately, you can do something to help.
• In many ways, her climax is different from your orgasm. Knowing what this has for her, you can make her better.
• Insufficient sleep is the main reason for women’s rejection. This is usually caused by too busy. If you want her to eager and enjoy, she needs a sober life and sufficient sleep. (Other reasons for women)
• Sexual toys can make sex life easier or better. But discuss it before buying.

[This post first appeared Oct 23, 2012.]

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