Couples Toys 101 | Aldult Toys Blog

Sex toys aren’t just fun for solo play. They also provide exciting foreplay for couples, enhancements during sex, and naughty alternatives for getting a little freaky in public.

Here are 3 ways to introduce sex toys into your relationship:

1. Use toys for foreplay

Sex toys are the perfect option for foreplay because they allow you and your partner to save your energy for the main event while building excitement beforehand. Using a Bellesa Nirvana is the perfect couples toy because it is technically a massager. It can be used to tingle the clitoris in anticipation or on the balls for added sensation. Using sex toys like the wand for foreplay instead of individual use also provides a more intense experience that will have you jumping all over each other quickly. Sex toys can also include whips and restraints, a sex swing, or themed accessories. Think outside the box and use whatever brings your partner’s fantasies to life.

2. Buy your new toy as a team.

When shopping for a sex toy, the possibilities are endless. Yes, your standard classic vibrator or dildo is always a popular choice, but there are also toys specifically designed for couples to use together. These include modern, high-tech choices like remote-controlled toys like the Luvli Ditto 2 Wearable Couples Vibrator — Bellesa’s most comfortable and flexible hands-free wearable couples vibrator with the added convenience of a wireless remote.

Couples can try a simpler but very enjoyable toy like the Halo cock ring. The Halo is designed to amplify the pleasure of both parties, this little power bomb will allow the wearer to last longer and their partner to ride the wave of vaginal penetration and clitoral vibrations to the bliss of orgasm.

There are also Wi-Fi-enabled toys that couples can use together even when they’re apart, like the Kiiroo Interactive Long-Distance Couples Set. This interactive couples toy includes the ONYX and the Pearl 2. The Pearl is a cutting-edge G-spot vibrator with touch technology. The Onyx, meanwhile, is a male masturbator that can reach up to 140 strokes per minute. You can even control your partner’s Pearl2 from the Onyx’s touchpad.

3. Don’t forget the lube.

When it comes to sex play, lube simply makes things better. In fact, if you only use lube when you absolutely have to, you’re probably not getting the most out of it. Yes, lube is great for getting things going when you’re taking care of your partner the old-fashioned way. However, it’s also out of this world when used during any type of play involving toys. Just make sure your lube of choice is compatible with your toys before you get started. Some of the ultra-slick silicone lubes and love oils you swear by for sex can damage toys that are also made of silicone. Water-based alternatives, on the other hand, are safe to use for just about anything you enjoy, including play involving your toys.