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Last Saturday, I talked about giving your wife a hand job. Today, I want to upgrade you to the battery assisted hand job.
The goal here is to hold a small vibrator so it’s on her clitoris. If you look at the image, the bump is the clitoris. The middle finger, or the middle and ring finger, can penetrate her vagina. The image has the hand pulled away from her body to make it clear. In practice, your hand is closer, and your finger(s) are deeper inside her. You may be able to stimulate her G-spot.
You do this with her on her back, and you lying on your side next to her. You can use your palm to move the vibe up and down (towards her head, then her feet) left and right, or in a circle. Changing how firmly you press towards her body changes the amount of stimulation. If you use a remote control vibe, you can change speeds/settings with the remote in your other hand.
As I said last week, start slow and easy. You should probably stimulate her by hand before you add the vibe. Most women will benefit from applying some lube before you get started. Notice how she moves, even if it’s subtle, and work with that movement by going the opposite way. If she pushes up, press down a bit, for example.
Once you get the hang of this, it’s a great way to make her come before or after intercourse. Or use it stand alone, or as foreplay.
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