While technology has made it easier to connect, it hasn’t had the same effect on dating. The current dating scene is filled with insecurity and anxiety, and dating feels more like a performance. In this guise, when double texting makes you “desperate” and you don’t get texts for days – how do you know if you’re being ignored or if the other person is just busy? It’s hard to tell, but this test will give you a good clue. Any advice, though? If someone is making you constantly wonder if you’re being ignored, it’s best not to invest any more energy there.
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1. How often does the other person respond to your messages?
- Almost immediately
- In a few hours
- After a day or more
- Rarely, if ever
2. When you call, how often do they answer?
- Almost always
- sometimes
- rare
- no way
3. How often do you two plan to see each other?
- often
- Occasionally
- rare
- no way
4. Do they cancel plans at the last minute?
- no way
- rare
- sometimes
- often
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5. How often do you receive updates about their lives?
- often
- Occasionally
- rare
- no way
6. When they respond, how engaged are they in the conversation?
- Very committed
- Moderate participation
- Slightly invested
- Almost Engaged
7. Do they reach out to you?
- Frequently
- Occasionally
- rare
- no way
8. How do they react when you ask them about the lack of communication?
- They apologized and explained
- They gave vague answers
- They seem angry
- They ignored the problem
9. Have they stopped following you on social media or interacting with your posts?
- No, they interact frequently.
- They interact less than before.
- They rarely interact
- They don’t interact at all
10. Do you feel like you are the only one working to make the relationship work?
- No, it’s mutual.
- sometimes
- often
- always
11. How do they respond when you try to make plans for the future?
- actively
- indifferently
- Indecision
- They avoid the topic
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