5 Easy Ways to Improve Your Sex Life – Get the Most Out of Your Pillows

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1. Focus on foreplay

Quickie sex is great, but truly great sex requires lots of foreplay.

You need time to engage your other senses and heighten your passion. This can be done through action, but also through words (after all, the mind is the greatest sex organ). Learn to tease with your lips and hands. Explore how to use other body parts in different ways. The better the foreplay, the better the sex.

2. Add lubricant

For some people, their bodies just don’t produce enough natural lubrication no matter how much foreplay you give them—and we all know how uncomfortable (or downright painful) dry sex can be. It may have nothing to do with the other person. Intimate dryness can come from many reasons—external stressors, health issues, medications, etc.

This problem can be easily solved by adding sexual lubricant.

I recommend water-based ones. They are compatible with any sex toy and are much easier to clean up.

3. Communication

This may be third on the list, but it should be at the top of anyone’s list. Even simple communications like “I like that” or “Do this instead” can really help your partner understand your body and increase passion. Don’t be afraid to tell someone what you want, like, or need. This can be basic sex acts (like oral sex) or discussing complex role-play you’d like to try.

Be honest, understanding, and nonjudgmental—and you’ll open up a whole new world of joy.

4. Explore

For some people, they close themselves off during the communication phase. Their partner may want to try something new, but the other person just doesn’t want it. If this is the case, we need to respect that. However, if it’s just a matter of nervousness, then take your time. explore Things you’re interested in. Read guides and articles, watch videos (not porn videos), and build up “events” by trying little things.

Don’t be afraid to try new things.

If you want anal sex, maybe start with a small training toy. If you want role play, maybe start with just a costume, no acting required.

5. Make it important

We can look at this from two different angles. First, if you want better sex, then you have to make changes and prioritize accordingly.

Second, having sex just for your own pleasure may work with some partners, but it won’t be as stimulating or satisfying if it’s just for orgasm. Make sure the other person enjoys sex as much as you do.

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Do you have any tips you’d like to add? Please share them in the comments so we can all benefit!

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Have a sexy day,

Robin