20+ Tips to Make Anal Sex Easier!

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For some people, exposing your butt for penetration is absolutely terrifying. It’s as scary as brown recluse spiders, heights, and holes (trypophobia – yes, it’s a phenomenon). But I’m going to let you in on a secret – learning how to have anal sex doesn’t have to be unpleasant, and it’s not just in porn movies.

Let’s learn more…

Communication and Consent

yes real Decide you want to try it (or are at least curious enough to do so). Talk to your partner about the prospect. Whether you do this outright or implicitly will depend on your relationship.

• It is perfectly acceptable to ask
• It’s perfectly acceptable to say “no”

What is absolutely unacceptable?

If the other person doesn’t believe it, force them to do it. It’s also wrong to ask them every time you get naked. Also, it’s stupid to “accidentally slip in”. You could cause serious damage by doing this.

Forget the taboos

Anal sex has always had a bad rap – one of the biggest reasons being that it’s dirty. Considering the nightmares that come with anal sex after a night at a Mexican buffet, I can understand why people think that. However, anal is It’s not that dirty actually – there’s only a little feces left in it. All you need is a little cleaning.

Therefore, use condoms

When we say “little poop,” there’s still a little bit of poop in there (especially if you’re near poop). That’s why it’s always a good idea to wrap your penis. It makes cleanup much easier. There is also a risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases.

Avoid cross contamination

Once stuck behind, it will nowhere —not the vagina or the mouth. Forget what you’ve seen in porn! To prepare for a scene, porn stars clean their stuff better than most of us clean…well…anything.

If you want to start pushing the stick into other orifices, Changing condomsRemember, your vagina is in a delicate balance. It only takes a little foreign object to take it from perfect to, “OMG, why won’t this burning stop?!”

Go to the bathroom beforehand

Anal penetration when you’re about to have a bowel movement is not a good idea (it can get messy). Make sure there’s nothing in your anus, then wash it well with soap. Antibacterial soap isn’t necessary, but if you want to do some anal rimming (stimulating the anus with your mouth), it won’t hurt to use a little more.

Add an extra sheet

This is mostly because of the lubricant you use — especially silicone lubricants, which can sometimes be difficult to remove from a blanket. But it’s also a good idea in case an accident occurs.

Use plenty of suitable lubricant

You can’t just grab anything off the shelf, pay with your blush, and run out of the store. There are so many brands and styles out there. But generally speaking, you should still stick with anal lubricants.

Why?

Because they are (or should be) Formulated with different pH levels to suit the pH of your anus. Whether it’s water-based, silicone, or “other” is up to you. Here is a detailed guide to help you:

What you shouldn’t do…

Do not continue to use anything that stings! It is not normal and is not useful to your body. Oh, and Stay away from KY jelly – This lubricant has a pH of about 4, while the average pH of the rectum is about 6. It also has a high osmotic pressure of 10,300mOsm/kg (which is bad). The high osmotic pressure of the lubricant can cause cellular dehydration and cell death, making the surrounding tissue more susceptible to infection or disease.

Re-lubricate!

You should wear lots of nice clothes. Your back should look like something oozing out of an Alien movie.

In addition, if you encounter difficulties during use, Try a lube injector (They look like a large syringe without the needle). These are great if you have trouble getting lube in with your fingers, toys, or tools. Easy to use and no mess.

Do not use inferior lubricants

Things like heating, cooling or desensitizing. They are evil, vile liquids that should never go anywhere near a butt. Whether we like it or not, Pain is our friend. It tells us when something is wrong *chuckle*. Don’t numb your nerve endings with desensitizing lube. It can do more harm than good. Also, warm stuff often contains substances like cayenne pepper.

Ouch.

It shouldn’t hurt

You hear that a lot of people avoid anal sex because it hurts. Newsflash – if it’s done correctly, it shouldn’t hurt. It may feel weird, but it’s not painful.

The first step is lubrication, the second step is talking, and the third step is RelaxNervousness won’t help. Just keep breathing.

How to have anal sex – calm and relaxed

Try having a glass of wine. Meditate if that helps. Also, if you’re in charge of penetration, get a little massage while you’re at it. Anything to get circulation going and excitement going.

I promise you, external stimulation can make this process easier. One thing you can try is “rimming”. If you have never heard of it before, or don’t know how to do it, This is a simple guide.

Disassembling sex toys

Sex toys are also a good option to use during sex because you’ll be covered in lubrication. They can help with arousal and lead to relaxation. Just be careful about which lubricant to use for different materials.

example: Silicone toys are great for anal sex (They last longer and are easier to clean). But you can’t use it with silicone lubricants Because it will degrade the quality of the material and eventually cause tearing and other issues.

Also, make sure the toy doesn’t have holes. If it does, put a condom on it.

Try an app-controlled butt plug: 4 sizes, including one perfect for beginners!

How to have anal sex – Take your time!

Don’t do what porn stars do (like rubbing the tip of your vagina for a few seconds and then sticking it in). They have more experience and their butts are used to it. slowlywe are talking about turtle speed.

No, cross it out.

Compared to the speed you should be moving, the turtle looks like a Formula 1 racer. include Pull out.

Scaling up

If things still aren’t working for you, or your partner’s penis is the size of an elephant, consider Anal trainer. They look like butt plugs, but are sold in sets of 3 to 5 – most start out finger-sized and gradually increase to a size you’d be proud of.

Find the right location

For the love of God, Don’t start with… missionary. For beginners, it’s nearly impossible to find things and find the sweet spot without looking like a bumbling idiot.

• Cowgirl If the person above wants to control the speed.
• dog style is another winner.

Have a sense of humor

Be prepared for giggles and red cheeks. This isn’t like defusing a bomb, and it shouldn’t have the same seriousness. Also, don’t lose your temper with your partner if something goes wrong. When awkwardness arises, the only acceptable thing to say is, “It’s OK, honey. Don’t worry about it.”

Clean up afterwards!

You should not only go to the bathroom advanceYou should go too backEspecially if you’re relaxing a lot. Your chances of accidentally passing a bowel movement are almost zero, but a seemingly harmless “flatulence” feeling might not be. Also, if your partner didn’t wear a condom and ejaculated inside you, there’s going to be some cleanup to do.

Don’t worry if there’s a little blood.

The anal tissue is actually quite delicate – small tears may occur during a hard bowel movement. As long as the tears are minor, you’ll be fine. But if you continue to see blood, talk to your doctor.

Your butt will Don’t stay Stretch

You are not like an overstretched piece of Play-Doh. Your body will stretch during intercourse but will return to normal after a few minutes.

Trust me. We can all pass a normal penis-sized stool anyway. As long as you are gentle and use lube, it won’t hurt.

Forget homosexuality and heterosexuality

Anal sex has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It just means you like anal creampies. In both men and women, there are a large number of nerve endings around the anus. Men have a G-spot-like organ (the prostate), too. It responds to stimulation whether you’re gay, straight, bi, undecided, or a sex doll.

Other things to know

• Anal farting is entirely possible
• It might feel weird the first time.
• Beginners may feel that the anus is a little sensitive
• There may be a little smell. Don’t worry.
• You don’t need to rinse
• There is one Very unlikely You may be
• When a woman puts a strap-on dildo on a man, it is called “dildo bondage.”
• Your butt has a mind of its own. Sometimes things work, sometimes they don’t.

After trying, If you don’t like it, you don’t have to do it anymore.

After reading this, I’m sure you’ve also understood another very important thing… Anal sex is not spontaneous! It takes time and preparation before penetration.

So why go through all this?

• Some men like the feeling of being different
• This is an erogenous zone that can bring great pleasure
• If you think it’s taboo, it might be more naughty and exciting

I hope this article helps or inspires you to have fun where the sun doesn’t shine.

Have a great day!

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