Let’s talk about sex positions.
Whether you’re just starting out with a new partner or looking to spice things up with an old flame, this series of guides is for you.
Next we have the tall and proud Eiffel Tower.
Eiffel Tower:
To put it simply, the Eiffel Tower involves 3 or more people positioning themselves in such a way that they collectively resemble the Eiffel Tower. Some consider this to be the ideal starting position for trios because it’s relatively easy, there are many modifications, and people of all genders can do it.
Enter the Eiffel Tower, arguably the most famous threesome of all time. The idea: 2 thrusting partners penetrate a third receiving partner who closes the gap between them, on all fours. One of the thrusting partners penetrates the receiving partner from behind.anally or vaginally, while the receiving partner performs oral sex, whether it is a blowjob Or cunnilingus—on the second partner who is thrusting. Then… wait for it… the penetrating partners touch hands, hold hands, and/or high-five, making their bodies vaguely resemble the iconic Parisian landmark.
How can more than 3 people participate? Well, there can be 2 receiving partners, side by side on all fours, instead of just one. That’s just the way it is. If that’s the case, the 2 pushing partners can then alternate as they please.
Since the Eiffel Tower can only be enjoyed with 3 or more people, if you are interested you will want to have an honest conversation with your partner about trios and or group sex before attempting this. As with any sexual act, only if/when all parties have confirmed that they are ready, willing and enthusiastic Can you start planning your, uh, sightseeing trip?
The Eiffel Tower position is similar to the spit roast position, but the main difference is that in the Eiffel Tower, the partners on either end of the middle partner touch hands. But unless you’re a fan of high fives between sex sessions, this probably won’t matter much.
Note on conditions:
When talking about penetration, we use the terms “thrusting partner” for the person with the penis (biological or synthetic) and “receiving partner” for the person accepting the act of penetration (vaginal or anal).
It is important to note that being a receiver is not a passive, submissive role. It is an active, enthusiastic role. There is power in choice, and by choosing to invite their partner into themselves, the receiver exercises that power.
Additionally, the thrusting partner is not just a giver. Of course, he or she also receives pleasure during the act. But for the sake of clarity and consistency, we have selected these terms for both sides of the dynamic.
How to do:
Getting into position is pretty simple: you don’t need to be very flexible or strong.
To begin, the receiving partner gets on all fours, forming the base of the tower.
Then, one pushing partner stands in front (facing the receiving partner) while the other stands behind them. Instead of standing, the pushing partners can kneel, depending on whether the receiving partner is on the floor, on a bed, etc.
The receiving partner then performs fellatio on the person standing in front while being penetrated by the person behind.
The two standing partners then hold hands or high-five each other in an excited high-five above the receiving partner, effectively forming the top of the tower.
Reasons why we love it:
-Threesome positions where everyone getting into action in a satisfying way are rare gems — this is one of them!
-The Eiffel Tower can be enjoyed by any partner, regardless of gender. In other words, it can include vaginal or anal sex, a dildoOr a strap-on dildo.
-To receive partners who love being submissive and being “taken” or “used” by more than one thrusting partner, this position offers the potential for a peak sexual experience.
-For partners who love to be the center of attention, literally, the Eiffel Tower is a dream come true.
-He offers a feeling of domination for both partners initiating as well as great visual stimulation. They can look down and see the receiving partner being penetrated from both ends or look at themselves and see their own pleasure reflected.
Variations to try:
Eiffel Tower inverted
This variation shares the same basic structure as the Eiffel Tower. The only difference is that the receiving partner, instead of being on all fours, rolls over onto their back. There you have it, so many new possibilities!
Double-decker Eiffel Tower
This is a scenario with a second aforementioned receiving partner who, by joining, helps form the base of the tower. They can face the same direction as the original receiving partner; slide under the first receiver, from head to toe, while 69 years old; or they can be flipped over and laid back to back on the original receiving partner. Thrusting partners now have four different variations to choose from for penetration. Consent is key here, of course, as is precautions against cross contamination.
Other tips and tricks:
–Receiving partners who do not receive enough clitoral stimulation In this position, one could add a toy to the mix. The partner pushing backwards could use a vibrator Or their hands to stimulate the receiving partner(s).
-If partners are very different sizes, it can be difficult to align everything. pillow or sex wedge This could be a game changer.
-If someone kneeling feels uncomfortable, a pillow or thick yoga mat will do the trick.