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Tinder’s “The Most Shaking Towards Men” finds love 9 years later

Tinder's "The Most Shaking Towards Men" finds love 9 years later

Meet Tinder’s “The Most Shakeful Perfect Man”, the app finally “found love” after nine years and 48,000 likes – but says his “dream woman is always offline.”

Stefan-Pierre Tomlin, 34, first downloaded the dating app in June 2015 after “Trying to Find Love.”

But two years later, he “turned into an addict” – sliding around potential matches on average three hours a day.

Eventually, he won the title of “Mr. Tinder” in 2017, when it was discovered that, to be precise, 14,600 users had stepped on him than anyone else.

Tinder’s “The Most Swinging Perfect Person” Stefan-Pierre Tomlin finally “find love” after working on the app for 9 years and 48,000 likes. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

Despite the hordes of potential suitors, the male model “never found love” on any subsequent dates and said he loved finding an old-fashioned way in person.

Tomlin, also a well-trained pilot, is open to his previous relationships and that’s “never resolved.”

But now admits that in October 2024, he was “in love” at a bar in Soho, London, which led him to get “right his right” in 43-year-old finance manager Vicky Batsford, who took his “breath” away.

Trained pilot Tomlin said that past relationships were “never resolved.” Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

The party meeting was “unexpected”, but nine months later, the two have become formal and “infatuated with each other”.

Tomlin, who owns a partner company, is a celebrity love coach from Greenwich, London, and said: “I just stepped on her in real life.

“She stole my attention right away, everything about her was easy and natural.

Tomlin is now with finance manager Vicky Batsford, who “breathes.” Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS
“I just stepped on her in real life,” Tomlin said. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“Once, I played 40 games a day on Tinder and had to mute it.

“Online dating has never really worked for me since then.

“When I saw Vic, I knew things would be different.

“Once, I played 40 games a day on Tinder and had to mute it,” Tomlin said. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“She organized, modestly, and saw me surpassing Mr. Tinder’s exterior wall.

“She is my perfect woman, and I’m completely out of limits now.”

Tomlin joined friends on a “spontaneous night” when he first bumped into Batsford in October 2024.

“She is my perfect woman, and I’m completely out of limits now,” Tomlin said. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

He claimed it was after Tinder’s nine-year tenure, seeing him have more than 48,000 potential “suiters to choose from”.

“She looks super fun in a fitted black dress,” he said.

“We made eye contact and all laughed as we crossed the path.

The relationship was nine years on Tinder, which gave Tomlin more than 48,000 potential “suiters to choose from”. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“I knew I had to talk to her and that night we exchanged numbers.

“We quickly became friends and things got unraveled from there.”

Tomlin said Buttersford “don’t know” when he first met he was ‘Mr. Tinder’.

It wasn’t until later that week, after Googled his name, that she realized and was “deterred.”

“It was a huge eyeball at first,” said Batsford of Essex.

“But I didn’t expect anything at first because we were just friends.

Batsford of Essex said of the title “Mr. Tinder”: “It was a huge eyeball at first.” Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“I did ask him if he was like **g and we laughed.

“But over the next few weeks we chatted more and I found him very interesting.

“He quickly fainted.”

Tomlin used Tinder for more than 15 dates, four of which led to relationships during his nine-year period.

“He quickly knocked me out,” Bartford said. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

But he “struggled” to meet “one person”, admitting that in his 40 games a day, less than 5% of them would lead to conversations – only he “becomes famous” in 2017 once he “becomes famous” and said that it led to “unreal interactions.”

“After I became Mr. Tinder, the success of my dating app plummeted.”

“It’s just a game, people just brush me because of who I am’.

“So, finding an old-fashioned way is something I rely so much on, and I’m glad I’m [pleased] Say it works.

“After I became Mr. Tinder, the success of my dating app plummeted,” Tomlin said. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“Vicky probably doesn’t know who I am, it might be my support.”

Although Batsford admits there is a “obvious difference” in their identities, she calls him her boyfriend “happy again”.

“We come from a different world,” she said.

“My structure and discipline are harder – he is more spontaneous.

According to Tomlin, “Looking for old-fashioned ways is something I rely so much on, and I’m glad I’m [pleased] Say it works. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“But I think it creates a good balance and it’s why we work so well together.

“We are very happy.”

Earlier this month, Tomlin and Batsford became formal and they planned to move in soon.


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Tomlin said that “marriage is definitely the future” with Vicky, and he said “it really feels like a real deal.”

With his experience in the dating world, Tomlin also built an online matching website in 2021, Celebrity Love Coach, to help others find their other half-before it has established 52 couples.

He said: “I found my love and I always wanted to help others find their love.”

Tomlin said that “marriage is definitely the future” with Vicky, and he said “it really feels like a real deal.” Stefan-Pierre Tomlin / SWNS

“The world of dating has been changing and it’s easy to lose hope.

“But there is love for anyone willing to put themselves outside of their comfort zone.

“In the past, I dated models, nurses and idiots.

“But my new partner is different now and we live a stable life.

“It’s something I’ve never had before.

“But I’m willing to keep it as much as possible.”

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