This dating app cliché is a red flag – don’t let it slip

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The Daily Scanning the App has seen it so many times – those who point out the heights listed above and the striking phrases, “because it’s obviously important.”

Experienced love seekers have long ridiculed biological clichés, an instant sweep of the left-wing – according to experts, it’s a wise move.

In a recent article, co-worker, Sex and Relations editor Kayla Kibbe, of the International Metropolitan colleague, warned that seemingly expensive comments are actually a window into a man’s mindset and a red flag.

“They are presuming what all women want and painting us with the same passive attack brush.”

Essentially, by declaring their height in this passive attack, these guys let you know that their gender-based assumptions are that all women are shallow or obsessed.

Kibbe insists that they are not – saying these people are not entirely basic, but they are guiding their frustration, not even anger, and anger does not belong.

“The responses these people to these people are not completely unfounded,” she admitted.[but] The height standards that many men seem to feel are not designed by women, but rather a standard imposed on us all by inner patriarchal beliefs. ”

Additionally, in theory, men over six feet have nothing to complain about, and the fact that they are complaining about is not a good look, Keeb said.

“But, showing off your good luck under the guise of artificial humor, because it is obviously important, ‘they still drive this narrative by relying on judgments about all the women’s demands for men and in the process demanding us to humiliate us in the process.”

The high obsession on both sides of the dating aisle is nothing new.

Previous posts about the 6-6-6 rule Some women are following – a six-figure salary of 6 feet tall, six packs of abs – an unrealistic Trifecta that is said to separate the stud from the fool.

When women use it to filter through seemingly endless potential match lineups, experts warn that this rigid standard can leave you trampling on solitude.

Dating expert Amber Soletti, who hosted hundreds of singles events, said it is OK to have non-commodities, but should be rooted in deeper values.

“If you try to compromise on these types of scramblers, you’re going to build relationships with a lot of arguments, dissatisfaction and ultimate demise,” she told the Post.

Matchmaker and dating coach Judith Gottesman agreed, telling the post: “What matters is the connection you make, respect, trust and love.”