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Woman masturbating in bed.

They continue as they think about the past.

Despite how your last relationship ends, you won’t feel ashamed if you think of your ex when you please yourself – and you’re not alone.


Thinking about the past escape while pleasing yourself can mean all kinds of things. Marchsirawit -Stock.adobe.com

According to a new survey by entertainment technology company Ohdoki, 76% of men and 59% of women think of their ex when masturbating.

Before you worry, doctor and certified sex therapist Kristie Overstreet told Everygirl that fantasizing past lovers can mean all sorts of things.

If you are single and think of past lovers while showing yourself some people you like, this could be a healthy and beneficial way to look back on love. ”

If you are in a relationship and are still thinking about this particular person while masturbating, Overstreet tells the media that people should see it as a positive thing because it could be “a way to use past relationships to help strengthen the current relationship.”

According to clinical psychologist and psychotherapist Pamela Stephenson Connolly, thinking about your sexual experiences with people who are now banned is a major twist for some.

Not everyone is thinking about their past – some are just partial to sex.


Young couple in bed.
Some people prefer to continue on their own rather than sex. ndabcreativity – stock.adobe.com

When Charlotte thinks she’s “indulging in” the rabbit vibrator in that famous “Sex and City” plot, she’s doing something.

Ohdoki survey also shows that 29% of people prefer solo fun over real things, including one-third of men (31%) and just over one-quarter of women (26%).

A Swedish study even showed that on average, women enjoyed nine times in a 30-day period, which is equivalent to twice a week. Doing math, this has little time and companion Han’s groceries.

“Some people may find masturbation more enjoyable than sex because they can find their best position – they know what they like and what they don’t like,” said Gemma Nice, a sex and relationship coach.

“When you masturbate, you can control the rhythm, pace and pressure. This precision allows people to precisely adjust what they want and achieve an incredibly intense orgasm.”

While self-pleaser is healthy and normal, it explains well: “If you rely too much on masturbation to satisfy satisfaction, it can affect the quality of your partner’s gender.”

She added: “You may have become so used to your own technology that your partner’s touch feels less satisfied. Masturbation should not replace connections. If this happens, it also indicates the need for more open communication, too, outside the bedroom.”

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