The Best Gift For Your Partner Based On Love Language | Sex

The now well-known concept of “love languages” originated in Gary Chapman’s 1992 book: The Five Love Languages: How to Express Genuine Commitment to Your Partner. In case you haven’t read it or don’t know, the heart of the matter is this: we all express love differently, and identifying and understanding these differences can go a long way in improving our romantic relationships.

The five love languages ​​mentioned above include: words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts, and physical touch. But no matter which love language your partner most identifies with, there will come a time, whether it’s during the holidays or not, when you find yourself reaching for that language. Perfect gift.

With that in mind, consider the following love language-based gift ideas if you’re looking for a little extra inspiration this year!

1. Words of affirmation

If your partner’s love language East ““Words of Affirmation” They place a high value on written and verbal displays of affection. In other words, they will appreciate it if you write them a thoughtful poem or love letter, or sing them a song. If the mood is right, you can also consider giving a quality gift eroticI do not want write it yourself? No problem, because there is There are already a lot of super cool stuffthat are just waiting to be studied, or—uh—poured finished, depending on the case, then take your pick! Better yet, consider offering several premium e-books at once. Other gift ideas for your word lover include these sexy and lively stickersand this affirmation of life Braless and flawless crew neck.

2. Quality time

People whose love language is “quality time” appreciate your undivided, undistracted, and fully present attention, with added eye contact and active listening skills. In addition to turning off your smartphone for a day of quality time, consider treating your significant other to some extra quality time sex furniturelike luxury Liberator Wedge and Ramp Combohailed as the “greatest invention for sex since the bed,” or the Liberator Black Label Wedge and Ramp Combo if you prefer the kink version, with handcuffs and blindfold. These gifts were created with the idea of ​​spending quality time at the next level: neither of you will lose concentration with accessories like these. Bonus gift idea: the Talea Liberator Spreader Barwhich invites the wearer to discover the freedom of being deliciously bound, while their partner attends to their most intimate needs without delay or distraction in sight.

3. Acts of service

Those whose love language is “acts of service” value actions above words and greatly appreciate partners who do things to make their lives easier or brighten their day. In addition to initiating a little Roleplay action that has you dressing up as a perverted maid and cleaning your partner’s space (or your shared space, as the case may be), you might consider giving your practical-minded lover this very cute gift. Hydrate and masturbate mug – not only is it the perfect vessel to serve them their morning coffee or matcha, but it’s also a helpful reminder to drink plenty of water and get in a daily orgasm (which, by the way, you can also contribute to). For extra points, add a handy bottle of Bellesa water-based lubricant, a Tote bag to recharge your vibrator—you know, to carry their groceries and help them remember their charger at all times, or that Bellesa Hatto keep their soft heads warm when the cold wind blows.

4. Gifts

While at first glance, “gifts” (or, as Chapman puts it, “visual symbols of love”) seem simple enough in the language of love, those who identify with this way of expressing love recognize the symbolic thought behind the gift and value its emotional benefit over its monetary value—they deeply appreciate the careful and loving deliberation process you went through in selecting it. With that in mind, why not give the gift of a “jewel” that brings pleasure in the form of this beautiful piece of jewelry? Rosebud Glass Anal Plug: it is fracture resistant, easy to clean and compatible with all lubricants, not to mention it is a work of art. You can also add a little extra bling in the form of these Triple Play Nipple Clampsdesigned to stimulate the nipples And the clitoris! If that’s not a thoughtful gift, what is? Bonus idea: treat your significant other to a pair of Hidden pleasure panties! It comes with a remote control so you can both participate directly, whether in private or at a fancy restaurant, depending on the mood.

5. Physical contact

Those with physical contact As a love language, they value the feeling of warmth and comfort that comes from physical touch. They feel most loved when they receive tactile/physical signs of affection, such as kisses, kissholding hands, cuddlyAnd sexIn addition to meaningfully engaging in some or all of the above activities with your chosen partner, you might consider giving a top-notch gift sex toy (or five). Pushed by Bellesa is brilliantly designed to deliver dual standard (revolutionary!) stimulation to both the G-spot and clitoris – think of it as the blended orgasm of the future (the future is now). Bellesa Nirvana is another great option: it’s a magic wand designed to raise vibrational frequencies to an all-time high, whether in water, on land, or between silk sheets. You might also want to consider the Luvli Ditto 2AKA “The Wearable Couples Toy”, a hands-free, wearable couples vibrator with wireless remote control. And while you’re working hard to give the gift of physical love, why not cover all your bases by adding a whipA anal training kitor, the all-time must-have—a quality water based lubricant?

Bottom line: While some of us are easier to find gifts for than others (there’s always the classic gift card!), one of the greatest pleasures of the gift-giver is finding the perfect gift, one that is sure to put a naughty smile on your partner’s beautiful face and keep it there.

Good gift to all and good evening to all! <3