Summer body, happy summer – violet

Summer has long been sold as a season of “bikini corpses”, a narrow, exclusive idea that puts pressure on us to shrink, carve or hide our natural forms so much that it is considered acceptable for sunlight and sand. All corpses are summer bodies. But happiness has no requirement for scale. This summer, let’s get into something bolder: a season of joy, unapologetic softness and radical self-aggression.

The truth is that every body is the body of summer. Whether you’re hanging out in a strappy summer outfit, scattered in a swimsuit, or savoring the feeling of warm grass beneath your exposed skin, your body already deserves pleasure and visibility. Embracing summer does not necessarily mean enduring shame or discomfort, it may mean finding new feelings to make yourself feel good, feel free and completely feel you.

Skin, touch and sensual life

Summer has a deep sense. A breeze on the shoulders. The sun warms your skin. The simple joy of dressing and being deeply present. The touch becomes more direct and more exciting. Whether you reconnect with your partner, flirt with a new crush, or simply enjoying the texture of juice dripping on your wrist, summer is an invitation to the senses!

Showing more skin may be recycled in space. This may be political. It can be very powerful. It can be as sexy as hell. For those taught to hide, shrink, or apologize for the space we take up, enjoying more and enjoying more can be an act of self-love. Enjoyment starts with permission, so let yourself enjoy the feeling of your favorite lotion on your legs, the sun warms up, the belly warms, and the lover’s hands wandering where the swimsuit is lowered.

Food, plump and good feeling

Summer is also a rich period: ripe berries, grilled feasts, sticky ice cream cones, midnight snacks on the terrace. But many of us internalize the idea that pleasure (especially food pleasure!) can be won or rejected. In order to “look good”, we have to limit, limit or control.

This is your reminder, you don’t need it earn Nutrition. A good diet is not a betrayal of beauty, but a celebration of living. In all senses, fullness is not a defect. The joy of summer includes full of freedom: full of flavor, full of desire, full of joy. Eat peaches. Lick your fingers. Let your laughter spill freely like Prosecco.

chub rub, soft skin and practical magic

Let’s talk about one of the most sexual reality of summer: Chub Rub. Thigh touch is not a problem. In fact, they are beautiful, capable and worthy of care. However, friction, heat and humidity can create real discomfort, and taking care of your skin is not about vanity, but about survival.

There are great tools to combat burns: cream cream, bike shorts under clothes, or just a little bit of cornstarch. Whether it helps you spend your day with less stimulation, it’s worth celebrating. Taking care of the body, being gentle, focusing without shame is a kind of dedication. You should walk, dance and stretch in the sun without any discomfort.

This summer, choose happiness

You are not the project you are trying to solve. Your body doesn’t have to be tighter, it’s smaller or different to be worthy of pleasure. Already it is. This summer, choose a swimsuit that makes you feel good. Say yes to the picnic. Wear a crop top. Lick popsicles. Have someone kiss the sweat in your collarbone.

Pleasure is not a perfect reward, but a right to birth. It’s yours now.

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