Stealing ways Social media are the ultimate infidelity machine

When my mobile phone buzzed with Instagram DM, my morning coffee was halfway. “Hey whats up?”

Harmic, right?

Except for the radio executives that I know from my reputation, I have never seen it before. He was very successful and rode the senior performances of some big -name programs he was responsible.

It is certain that I am glad to receive his letter. He wanted to take me to lunch and discuss that I would become a potential new program for headline news.

I seized the opportunity to meet him without thinking twice, not to meet in his workplace. I arrived on time and prepared for the preparation of the wonderful late -night broadcast show for me.

At first, I didn’t mind that he continued to talk about his previous dating (and sex life) life-I am a dating columnist, so this is very meaningful. But for a few hours, he has been ticking. He has been ordering more wines, and he has not yet attended the business of the meeting.

Well, spoiler alert: No radio show. It’s just a man who is too fast to get too fast to my Instagram stories (and some of my “thirsty traps” mentioned at the end of lunch analyzed some of my “thirsty traps”, “Oh, yes, yes, Well, let’s come, let’s come again, I can tell you the show I think for you. “

Then, he continued to send me a text message during the entire Christmas break, just to “say hello”. My footsteps are tingling, but there is no good way. Did I just have lunch with a married man with a keratin? It looks like that.

At that time, if someone wanted to invent the final infidelity, it was indeed my home for me. It already exists. This is the so -called social media. I mean, that’s where he encountered me.

Once upon a time, cheating requires real efforts-across the bar, a stolen kiss at the office Christmas party, or a careful sign of the “party” and “business travel”. But what about now? The portal leading to the adultery is like a double -click on Instagram. The “harmless” LinkedIn connection request or the Fire Emoji placed in DMS is simple.

As a single woman browsed in the scene, I witnessed how social media became a sneaky little companion. Let us become a reality, this is not only public, such as mature affairs. This is a micro writer, emotionally Dalianus, “Am I just flirting?” Instantly blurred the boundary between innocent and dark.

Who knows that the most dangerous phrase in interpersonal relationships will become: “Hey, what’s wrong?”

This is not only an obvious social media account such as Instagram, Tiktok and Snapchat, oh, no. LinkedIn is a home of some dirty affairs. Yes, this humble professional network platform has become the secret of the 2020s, underground dating applications.

In fact, one of my friends finally married a person who contacted her on the website, “with similar career connections.” We all think that social media websites are strict for business.

No. Think about it.

My inbox is constantly filled with men’s requirements in finance, architecture and technology. We are related to work related to work, so why are they so eager to establish contact with me? Spoiler Alert # 2: They do not pursue professional advice.

Therefore, ladies (and gentlemen), if you want to know if your partner is not online on the Internet, there are some obvious signs.

Dangerous signal of cheating

1. The “thirsty trap enthusiast” is a photo of the photos of influential and random women who never like and comment on the influential and random women, but ignore the cute couple photos you posted in some way. Just like they have the sixth consciousness to know when the bikini will go online. If you look at their exploration pages and look like the “Sports Illustrated” swimsuit version, it is a dangerous signal.
2. “Oops, I am not a cover” story manipulator suddenly began to hide their Instagram stories to you, but did not hide from their followers. This is a mysterious thirst trap, a person who takes selfies in the gym or a “go out with a boy” post-convenient to ensure that you will never see them. If they claim that it was accidental, it was not. (Never!)
3. “Excessive active LinkedIn users” network like Wall Street Sharks (except they do not pursue commercial transactions), they are chasing numbers to pay attention. If your partner suddenly gets a lot from attractive strangers from the zero -interesting industry, or they slide into the income box with the information of “let us connect coffee”, please doubt. Linkedin should not be a dating application. Let me say again no Become a dating application.
4. Then “send a text message late at night”, its information only appears after you go to bed. If your partner’s phone keeps silent during the day, but starts to buzz after midnight, something will happen. Honestly, no one discusses the work project at 2 am.

A simple fact is that social media make everyone look hotter, more interesting, and more available than the actual situation. This is a perfect and carefully planned photo, a witty title and a sufficient mysterious choice to maintain a curious highlight-we have become expert marketing staff. When people feel bored with interpersonal relationships, it is too easy to lose anything in fantasies. may be Instead of being engaged in yesEssence

Oh, if it can capture the hot Gay’s recent stomach attack or human plague. Of course we will not respond to his “hey” DM slide.

Very happy Anyone Honestly, these days: Most innocent interaction will roll the snowball mature emotional affairs. A simple “similar” became a comment, and it became DM, which turned into a dialogue about “how she just made me in my partner’s way”. Oh, we have seen it before. Next, you know that someone’s marriage is in the drainage groove-all of which start with the flame emoji.

I contacted a divorced lawyer friend, and he confirmed that social media is now the main factor of modern breakups. He told me: “A large part of my case involves things that start from social media.” “People don’t realize how many noodles can be unveiled, it is too late.”

Ah, yes, just like the lively and enthusiastic cause: “Dancing dancing as no one watched, but one day I will read text, email and DM slideshow in court.”

Sadly, social media brought the fantasy of endless choices. It has forgotten that the real relationship needs to work hard and promise, the most important thing is respect-not just a sexy bikini or gym.

But of course, we are all eager to verify-this is humanity. Who doesn’t like her cheeky praise or light DM? However, when your phone starts to become more exciting than the actual relationship, it is when things become troublesome. Social media itself is not a problem, but it will definitely make the darkness much easier.

Therefore, next time your partner is sticking to the phone, it may be peeking. Because the most dangerous affairs do not always start from the hotel room. Sometimes they start with simple “hey, what’s wrong?” Start.

Believe me, this is by no means a simple question.