Questioning the presumed flaw of heterosexuality is a good thing, but Unfortunately Some people are still embarrassed to accept and explore the possibility of their homosexuality.
You definitely shouldn’t be. This can come in many forms. Maybe You’ve noticed that you look at women more often than you thought. Maybe You have intense fantasies about being with another woman, it doesn’t matter. There’s nothing weird about that.
There are, however, many women who are curious to know what it’s like to try their hand at sapphic arts. And if you’re one of them, you have every reason to give it a try. The social taboos surrounding lesbianism are as follows: Fortunatelylifting. The narrow-mindedness of others is never a good reason to stop you from doing something you want to do, anyway.There is too much to explore for this to bother us.
This could open the doors to a whole new world of your sexuality. The key is to be open-minded and respectful. As long as you keep that in mind, there are many different ways to go about it.
Here’s what you need to remember.
You are not alone
Now, not all women are interested by acting on these fantasies. But they are very common and there is nothing wrong with having them.
If you have a Really honest relationship with one of your friends, you can try asking them if they have ever been curious. You could be surprised by What you find.
You never know until you try
Additionally, there is no way to predict how you will react to something until you try it.
I would encourage everyone to act on any bisexual curiosity they may have, because what is there to lose?? I thought I could be interested in women, but it wasn’t until I actually took the plunge that I realized how true it was. I would have missed out on so much if I hadn’t taken the plunge.
If you don’t like it? That’s totally good too. But there’s no point in missing out on what could be a huge part of your sexuality because you’re embarrassed to make the first move..
You know how not to be an asshole about it
One of the main arguments against exploring your sexuality is that you don’t want to use someone to experiment on — and I get that.. But you know how not to be a jerk about it. As long as you are open with the person about the fact that you are inexperienced and unsure and they accept that, there is no harm done..
I have had sex with women who were experimenting with their sexuality and I may or may not have had sex with a woman again. totally agree with thatI knew what I was getting into.
And the truth is, everyone experiments. We experiment and “try out” every new partner we meet, even when sexuality doesn’t come into play. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. As long as everyone knows what they’re getting into, there’s nothing wrong with that.
There are so many ways to do this
It’s natural to feel nervous about experimenting with your sexuality for the first time. I’ve done it, so I totally get it.. But if you do it right and at your own pace, you have nothing to lose and SO much to gain.