Sissy Training 101 – Basic Concepts for Beginners

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What is sissy training?

In simple terms, Exercises, homework or advice for people interested in sissy (Sometimes called forced femininity or hyperfemininity – although they can be considered their own subgroup) Explore their quirks And find the style and depth in which they can bloom.

question?

Most of the “training programs” out there today are cheap-looking self-published books, shoddily made websites, Youtube “hypnosis” videos, or porn.

So here’s a free overview to help point you in the right direction. (I’ll also be writing to people who are interested in being a sissy, but sissies can benefit from this information, too).

1. Determine your wishes

There are many reasons why men want to go sissy – love of clothes, relatable sex, simple arousal, domination, humiliation, chastity play, control, bondage, etc. (or a combination of factors). This step, I think, is the most important.

This may be easy for some people but very difficult for others.

Why shouldn’t you rush to finish this part?

For example, if the need for sissy comes from the desire to satisfy only men/sissy fetishes, then A radically different approach Rather than people participating because they want to have sex in a bondage situation, they are more likely to participate in it. It can also be non-sexual, just for the thrill of dressing up.

There is no right or wrong.

It’s all personal.

But when second people to participate (or more), you must Very honest About what you want, what you need, what you expect, and what you worry about. There needs to be compatibility so that everyone can have fun.

The same goes for paying a professional Domme to fulfill your fantasies. Be honest. You may get some rejections (don’t mind them), but you will eventually find someone who is happy to work with you.

Once you understand your inner voice, you (and/or your partner) can design a training plan that best suits your goals, including homework, exercises, testing, etc.

2. Practice appearance

cosmetic – Get better at applying makeup with the help of videos, books, classes or friends. It’s best to do it in stages (rather than trying to perfect your entire face in one go).

example: Practice applying lipstick correctly.

clothing & Accessories – There are many styles, including princess, maid, naughty schoolgirl, sexy secretary, naughty prostitute, innocent virgin, various role play (from TV or movies). In addition to costumes, there are also lingerie, bras, jewelry, wigs, shoes (etc.) for you to try.

example: Asking your sissy to go out and buy her own feminine clothing can be a humbling and exciting experience. Plus, if you’re new to the genre, a simple pair of women’s panties is a great way to start.

3. Try to change your behavior

A lot of people are scared by this concept, but it’s not as bad as it sounds. It just means that you use various training and education methods to guide someone to behave differently in a specific situation.

This happens all the time in the vanilla world – teaching people not to pick their noses, learning to say “please” and “thank you”, learning to be more friendly.

In the sissy world, this means you teach a man to behave in a more (traditionally considered) feminine way.

This can be achieved in a number of ways…

• Wearing high heels and holding a book on head
• Practice voice control to make your voice softer/higher
• Language/vocabulary selection
• Learn to swing your hips
• eye contact
• Practice sitting and kneeling
• How to serve drinks or food
• How to address others in social situations
• How to dress

example: Use tongue twisters as a vocal training tool.

Keep in mind, this doesn’t mean men are in “sissy mode” 24/7 (unless they want to be). Training just helps them behave differently during play.

4. Integration

Learn how to give a decent blowjob (whether to use a real penis or just a dildo is up to you), perform cunnilingus to please your mistress, get anal training so you can use a penis, strap-on dildo or other anal toys, integrate BDSM equipment, play with chastity, control your orgasm, and more.

example: If your butt isn’t ready for a giant dildo, try using an anal trainer to help you adjust. This can also be incorporated into a training regimen or ritual.

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5. Add service elements

There are also many non-sexual bondage activities for you to enjoy (if that’s your thing)…

• Tea Set
• tableware
• cooking
• House Cleaning
• Shopping or running errands
• Love your heroine

6. Think about teaching methods

Training should incorporate appropriate punishment, correction, and rewards – the degree of punishment is up to you, and it can be kinky, nurturing, or just plain normal. Remember that punishment should be fair and fit the crime. Also, punishment should never be administered when the mistress is angry.

Personally, I think if the wimp is new and unsure of his or her own humiliation or emotional comfort zone or limits, corrective exercises and positive reinforcement are a better route to take.

example: If you do well, you get to kiss your mistress’ feet, or can buy something new to round out your collection. If you don’t do well, you have to repeat the task x# times until you master it. If you do your best, you get a praise (these are just examples off the top of my head).

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Keep in mind that this is just an overview of the training. I will lay out detailed suggestions and ideas in another article.

Also, if you’d like to share your own thoughts, feel free to leave a comment below!