You shower every day, so why not take advantage of all that solo naked time and have a little shower or tub masturbation? Chances are, if you’re an experienced masturbator, or even just an avid one, you’ve figured out that your bathroom is a great place to masturbate. Not only does it provide privacy and warm steam to relax your muscles, but hey, the bath or shower makes it super easy to clean up any, uh, hot, steamy messes you might make.
If you’re wondering why anyone would masturbate anywhere other than a comfortable bed, it’s simply to change things up, honey. Just like you might want to “spice up” sex with a partner, masturbation ruts are also a thing, but creativityas always, is the obvious solution. And really, even without a routine, exploring new territory is a great way to have some clean (dirty, nasty) fun – if you do it right.
Things to consider: comfort and safety
Although this may seem quite comparable to a partnership sex in the shower Or sex in waterPlaying solo in the water has its own set of important considerations – you know, things you might not think about that are meant to make the experience more comfortable and safe.
– Keep it clean. The first thing you absolutely must do before getting dirty in the bathtub or shower is to make sure it is clean: the faucet, the jets, the shower head, the sink.all this jazz. No need to expose yourself to harmful bacteria. This is of course even more crucial if you plan on lying on your back in your bathtub.
– Make your space toy friendly. The latest thing: there are shower curtains with handy pockets that can be used as a liner to hold anything and everything waterproof sex toys you want. Bonus: The variety of pocket sizes can hold just about anything from a vibrating wand to your most compact ball vibration.
– Take a bath pillow. You can buy one at any drugstore: they stick to the back of your tub with suction cups and will make any tub date much more comfortable and Delicious. You can get even more lost knowing you won’t be hitting your head in the heat of the moment.
– Get a non-slip mat. A non-slip bath mat is a must if you’re going to be shaking your legs in the shower. You want to make sure you don’t slip. Installing a grab bar on your shower wall isn’t a bad idea either, as having something to hold on to can definitely help you really let go. Ironic, right?
– Set the correct temperature. Always check the temperature of the water with your hands before splashing it on your vagina: you want to avoid burning yourself at all costs.
– Do not spray water inside yourself. This may or may not be self-evident: Do not use a shower head or faucet for penetrative masturbation, as this can disrupt your vaginal microbiome and lead to bacterial vaginosis Or yeast infections. Also, don’t try to insert the entire showerhead into your vagina. Finally, if there is a micro-tear or crack in your genitals, avoid exposing them to the pressure of a showerhead until you have healed.
Now let’s get to the good stuff: how to make yourself cum in the shower or bathtub.
If you’re up for it but need a little wet and wild inspiration, consider the following ways to explore a little self-indulgence during bath time:
– Your shower head: If your shower head is old, dirty, non-removable, or lacking in pressure options, you should seriously consider upgrading. A detachable shower head is 100% the way to go for anyone who enjoys quick, wet sex, as it usually has multiple modes to play with and you can make sure the water isn’t too strong or too gentle, while still being perfectly directed at your clitoris.
– The “bathtub technique”: THE The “bathtub technique” is a tried and true masturbation method that requires no intervention and only a bathtub. It’s really simple: Slide your butt toward the drain and position yourself directly under the faucet. Then, enjoy that trickle effect, right? If you’re lacking flexibility or don’t want to bother getting down, you might consider using a faucet extender: it simply clips around your faucet and directs the water further toward you.
– Waterproof toys: The shower or bath is the perfect place to play with waterproof toys like the Pebble or the AirVibe because the extra moisture helps the toy create a seal, which is essential to really feeling those suction sensations. Not to mention, you probably won’t hear these already quiet toys over the sound of running water, so your naughty mind can really take the lead. Soft Touch Ball is another mind-altering clitoral vibration option, just like the Discreet Pushwith its penetrating version of bath time pleasure. Oh, and then there’s the Bellesa Luxe Dildowith a suction cup that attaches it to the edge of your tub or shower. Need I say more?
– Lubricant that works in water: Treat yourself to some simple fingering, caressing or penetration with a quality silicone based lubricant— a waterproof option that’s sure to last. While water-based lube is typically used on land, it will wash off too easily. And oil-based lube will be messy, hard to clean off, and will destroy your condoms. Be warned, though, that silicone lube will degrade silicone toys, so they shouldn’t be used together.
– Erotic audio: Of course, you always can read erotic literature before descending (making sure to keep the pages/device a safe distance from the water), or you can watch porn (keeping your device a very safe distance from water), but the advantage of erotic audio is that you can listen while you explore, without having to crane your neck to get a better look. Not to mention that your imagination will fill in the gaps, and your mind is the most perverse toy at your disposal – you heard it here first.
Takeaway: Scrub yourself, scrub yourself in the tub. The pleasure of letting off steam, indulge yourself in the shower. Happy splashing to all the sexy water girls. Have fun! <3