Sexual massage tips

Last updated:June 21, 2025

Massage can take a whole new twist when you complete the person you have sex with. Massage helps us break down walls and boundaries, devastating, and melt into body sensations. It allows us to practice the art of donating and receiving and can be some of these hottest foreplays!

Want to give (or receive) XXX massage? We have all the tips you need!

How to have sex massage

You want your partner to relax as much as possible before diving into the juicy parts, so make sure to set the atmosphere of the space. First, heat your space. There are no multiple reasons for cold and sexy – unpleasantly, it prevents the receiver from focusing on massage and can transfer blood from important areas of the body.

Tip: Use an electric blanket/mat to place it under your partner, which will help keep them toasted as things heat up.

Set up space

Candles are always very touching when setting the atmosphere. Candles can be used with ours Full body massage candle (Yes, we mean full body) or our Flashing touch massage candle.

When grabbing the massage oil, make sure it is friendly downstairs, remember that the vulva can be particularly sensitive to certain ingredients and odors. Make sure to use natural, safe and fragrant-free oils.

Original olives, coconut, almonds and cold sticks of sunflower or canola seeds are suitable for massage oils. If you want to use essential oils, make sure to test your partner’s lower arm before actually applying it, or put them in a diffuser to prevent any skin misfortune.

Find your rhythm

Remember that sexual massage should be different from doing deep tissue or exercise massage. The pressure you use should be enough to keep them in the mood, not to make the type of knot stand out from one’s back. Soft and sensual is sexy.

Depending on what you are concerned about, the subtle thing is that the body strength should be better during sexual massage. The real intensity comes from taking time and showing up, not digging their muscles as deep as possible.

Remember to always treat your partner’s body as a whole. Start on either side of the body and make sure to cover the body before shifting its attention to their attention Porn area. You can gently brush them there, but don’t linger there (so far).

Rhythm is your friend. It allows you to smoothly change gears when switching back and forth between high-voltage areas and low-intensity areas. You can play some chill, relaxing music. It will remind you to keep your movements at a good pace. In addition to rhythm, you also want your strokes to be round and continuous natural feel.

Communication is the key

As you explore your partner’s body, make sure to observe subtle reactions. Pay attention to changes in things like their breathing patterns and abdominal tremors, which is a good indicator that they may be opened.

Twitching movements can suggest pleasant and unpleasant sensations, so communicate with your partner when you notice this feeling. Unlike the average massage therapist, you can do it in a way that feels hot. Questions like this “How do you like it?” and “How does that feel?” Simple and sexy.

While someone might want to partition during a normal massage, during a sexual massage you need to communicate with your partner to make sure they actually enjoy the experience and that they can meet their needs. However, you will want to communicate in a more complex way that doesn’t require answers than “whether” or “mmhmm”.

Let them know what you like to see and the ability to turn on can see and touch their oiled body, which is hot. You can say something like this “You’re so hard”“”You’re so wet“, or”Your nipples are too hot when they are tough like this”.

Learn about their bodies

You can even make a fun roadmap on their body. Once all of this is covered, be aware of what areas trigger the most arousal (except for obviousness). Slowly, we are starting to pay more and more attention to these areas. Then, as you progress, you can massage and caress these areas, then go from there to their vulva/penis and then go back.

Learn how to use your hands well – Use your palms to perform tremendous pressure and fingers for more concentration and more fun. You can also use the rest of your body! Get creative with our lower arms, legs, feet, breasts, butt, especially your genitals. The lubricated penis and vulva can be so hot that it can be used in fun and novel ways with your partner’s body (using your imagination).

Put it into practice

In practice, using continuous motion looks like:

If your partner has a vulva, let her lie on her back (you are next to her again). First, hang your entire palm over your partner’s common area and slide your fingers under the same action, then explore the curve of your butt.

Cover the area around the clitoris with your lower arm and grind continuously while putting your hands back. To continue the movement further, you can slide your palms across their vulva and gently spread your labia with the index and ring’s fingers, and maybe even slide your middle finger into it if you feel fanatic.

If your partner has a penis, let them lie on your back again, you kneel between his legs. First, move your palms to his thighs and apply a huge pressure, then, as you approach his cock, reduce the very gentle pressure, then slide your fingers and palms through his balls and grab his cock with both hands.

While increasing the pressure, you can do a few strokes with your hands, and even bend over and start using your mouth – all in a constant flow of motion. Spicy!

enjoy!

There is there! Your sexy XXX massage guide. Remember that you don’t have a specific goal or goal that needs to be achieved (such as orgasm). You are just there to connect with your partner, get to know each other’s bodies better, and give and have fun.

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