With the help of Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte, rabbit vibrators made their way into mainstream television and became a household name after the first season of Sex and the City. On the show, Charlotte becomes addicted to her new rabbit vibrator, so much so that she ends up canceling all plans to stay home and masturbate. Her friends eventually have to step in and call in a “rabbit vibrator,” but who could blame Charlotte, the rabbit vibrator is known for its “blended orgasm.” Unlike other sex toys, rabbits are designed to stimulate both the G-spot in the vaginal canal and the clitoris. And for many women, combining internal and external stimulation is the key to achieving a toe-curling blended orgasm.
Well, how exactly do you use a rabbit vibrator to get one of those toe-curling orgasms I just talked about? Start slow and take your time. It’s easy to feel a little intimidated by the rabbit, it’s a real toy. Not all rabbits are created equal, so it’s imperative to find the one that works best for you. A great beginner rabbit is the Bellesa’s Soft Touch GoddessIts liquid silicone technology and dual-action vibrations create the highest quality blended orgasm on the market. In addition to finding the perfect vibe, selecting the best lube helps make the experience more enjoyable. Lube helps everything slide and provides comfort.
Familiarizing yourself with the rabbit’s controls is essential to intensifying the experience. Most rabbits contain several different buttons, some of which control the shaft and others are for clitoral stimulation. Creating a personalized experience with your rabbit by finding your preferred rhythm and speed helps maximize pleasure. You can either move them together or start with one and add the other as your arousal builds. Some users turn their vibrators on first before inserting them, while others do not. It all depends on your preferences as a user, there is no wrong way to enjoy the rabbit as it is a multifunctional toy.
To insert the rabbit shaft, start slowly. Slowly slide it all the way in to stimulate your G-spot. Remember, if you feel any discomfort, stop immediately and remove it. Once the shaft is inserted, the clitoral stimulator, also called rabbit ears, will rest on your inner labia and clitoris and stimulate your clitoris for dual stimulation. I recommend starting with the lowest vibration setting. Starting at a higher speed can cause the G-spot to become hypersensitive, making it unresponsive. Go slowly and gradually increase. Another technique is to use the rabbit as an external stimulation toy. The rabbit shaft is a great tool to stimulate not only the clitoris and vulva, but also the anus, nipples, and testicles. Explore the different sensations on different parts of the body. Focus on the areas that feel good to you, it doesn’t have to be exclusively for dual clitoral/vaginal stimulation. Rabbits are great for foreplay or masturbation.
In addition to being great for solo play, the rabbit vibrator is also the perfect toy for couples. Rabbits can be incorporated into couples play during foreplay or even full penetration. During oral sex, the rabbit vibrator can be used for G-spot stimulation while the partner focuses on the clitoris. For penetrative sex, the rabbit’s ears can be held against the clitoris, allowing for dual stimulation. A great rabbit to use during partnered sex is the Dea by Bellesa, It maximizes both G-spot and clitoral stimulation without sacrificing either. It also features a one-button system that makes it very simple and easy to manage during penetration.
A rabbit vibrator is one of the most versatile sex toys on the market. Whether you want to have some alone time or have sex with a partner, it does all the work for you, the possibilities are almost endless.