Outdoor Sex 101 | Aldult Toys Blog

If you live with your parents, a group of roommates, or a large extended family, outdoor sex can present a private But for others, having sex outdoors is an act that deserves to be added to the list of the most important sexual taboos. Plus, who doesn’t love the idea of ​​having sex under the stars? It’s pretty damn romantic, that’s all.

Of course, while there is something to be said for hot, spontaneous sexYou must plan your outdoor activities, because in addition to checking the weather forecast, you must be very careful not to get caught and/or arrested, among other possible outcomes.

If you’ve already decided to have sex outdoors, or you’ve already gone there but want to up your game, consider the following tips to make the most of your outing. While keeping things safe, hygienic, and generally, amusingbecause that’s the whole point.

Choose your location wisely

Most people who explore outdoor sex do so because it’s an exciting prospect, a way to try something new, adventurous, and liberating with a partner.

If you’re new to outdoor sex, you can start close to home, like on your balcony or rooftop, or in your backyard under the night sky. Plus, props (like your patio furniture) can be more conducive to a good time than repeatedly scratching your back or belly against the bark of a tree.

If you want to be outside but Also By car, abandoned dirt roads and empty parking lots at night are usually fine. Just try to avoid more residential areas and the security cameras that come with them.

If you’re opting for a location far from home, empty campsites, deserted beaches and wooded areas at night are all contenders, as long as there are no passers-by.

Ultimately, you’ll want to choose a location that elicits your inner thrill, but with enough coverage to actually burn off that adrenaline coursing through your veins.

Consider privacy and consent

Be careful who might see you. the prospect of being watched Whether it turns you on or not, you’ll want to avoid involving non-consenting people. If you’re on a balcony where your neighbors or their kids will have a perfect view of your bare butt (or worse), you might want to think twice (or even thrice). While keeping your illicit activities under the cover of night helps conceal them, it may not be enough. The last thing you want to do is offend or shock someone who happens to be looking your way—or worse, (re)traumatize someone who’s already walking around with sexual ghosts.

Not to mention that giving yourself some level of privacy (i.e. a hedge or trees between you and the outside world) can help reduce your risk of being arrested/charged by the authorities, which no one wants. thatBeing on your own property makes this less likely, but if you live near other people it’s still a consideration you can’t afford to ignore.

Don’t get caught

FYI, there is a difference between hot outdoor sex and creepy public sex, although there are can There may be some overlap. Some states have laws about sex in public places, so unless you want to get arrested for lewd conduct, it’s worth researching those laws. And, of course, if you’re on someone else’s property, there may be consequences for trespassing.

To be honest, you could get arrested and/or have your intimate exchange end up on the Internet for all to see. Even worse, you could be spotted by a child (and their angry parents). Overall, be fair… clever Reduce your risk level by avoiding high traffic areas and places where children tend to hang out.

Tip: Consider going commando and/or wearing clothes that make it easier to get laid (and cover you up quickly if necessary), like a skirt you can lift up or baggy shorts you can push to the side.

Keep it clean and safe

If you have sex outdoors, it is important to take certain precautions to avoid infections and injuries. beach romps—a popular choice. Remember that sand everywhere (or dirt, gravel, or hay, depending on where you are) does not make sex easy. While this applies to all outdoor spaces to some extent, sand in particular is home to a variety of bacteria, not to mention trash, urine, cigarette butts, and bird droppings.

I’m not trying to criticize romance here, but the reality is that Urinary tract infections, bacterial vaginosisAnd yeast infections are all possible consequences of exposure to beach, park, or forest debris. To avoid this, bring a large blanket to avoid organic matter. And, since bugs, jagged rocks, and poison ivy should never distract you from the throes of the primitive heat, consider laying down several blankets, towels, and/or yoga mats, as well as bringing a spare sheet to hide under in case a nighttime stroller unexpectedly appears.

Better yet, setting up a tent will prevent both bacteria-infested debris and debris from entering the tent. And prying eyes. In other words, consider the possibility of having sex while camping. Add a campfire to the equation for extra enchantment, baby.

If you’re near a pool or natural body of water, you might consider having sex in the water (it gives you more privacy, after all), but since there’s no way to know if the water will be clean or if it contains parasites, do as much research as you can about the water quality ahead of time, and take your precautions.

Bring the goods

Planning ahead for outdoor sex means coming prepared! This means bringing everything you might need to make the experience safe, comfortable, and enjoyable. You can bring condoms, lubricant, sex toysinsect repellent, drinking water and snacks, to name a few.

You may also want to bring a few body and vulva cleansing wipes to remove dirt or sand from those intimate nooks and crannies, as well as a first aid kit, in case you cut yourself on a branch, rock, or thrown bottle. Basically, treat it like an adventure and pack accordingly!

Bottom line: While outdoor sex can be truly exhilarating, never forget that it requires a willingness to plan ahead and a partner who is reliable enough to be on the same page as you, just in case you need to think on your feet!

Everyone deserves thrills. Get yours. <3