One of the hottest things Dom could say to me… – Girly

Many of the things rulers have said to me over the years literally send chills down my spine. “This is an order.” “Have I explain Can you move? “Good girl.”

But one question I’m thinking about a lot these days (because a very hot guy said it to me a few times recently) is: “Pay proper attention.” Let me explain…

With all the talk these days about whether AI chatbots and pornographic video games are suitable substitutes for human companionship (IMO: no, but you can!), I often find myself thinking: What makes human Uniquely sexy, sexier than any cheap simulacrum rendered in ones and zeros?

The answer that comes to my mind again and again is desire. The robot won’t want me. Maybe it’s convincing pretend Wanted me, but my notoriously stupid moment deflated whenever I remembered that its desire was constructed. Mutual desire is the cornerstone of any sexual encounter I want to engage in, and without that foundation, the entire sex act feels hollow and flimsy.

For similar reasons, it’s super hot when a dom says “appropriately noted” (or some variation thereof) in response to me providing some information that they might want to implement later – like that I enjoy having my hair pulled, or that I sometimes cry cathartic tears when praised during a spanking. It showed their desire for me, their desire to make me feel strong feelings in the best possible way – it also showed their desire Know I have a better understanding of what turns me on sexually. I can’t think of anything hotter than this.

By contrast, a bot may do a good job of remembering what you tell it, but its own desires are not a factor in determining what is “appropriately recorded” about you. So I couldn’t care less what the robot chooses to remember me for. If Fuck Me was like an adult video game, I don’t want to be “played” by a robot that calculates routes based on probabilities; I want to provide interesting challenges for smart, dedicated people to use their passions, talents, and ambitions. (There’s a reason I love the ingenuity of human speedrunners on Twitch, but refuse to watch tool-assisted speedrunning, I find it boring by comparison!)

The moment when a person is truly employment Their previous message of “proper attention” – saying the right things at the right moments, touching the right places in the right ways – is one of the hottest moments that can happen during sex/kink, if you ask me. It simultaneously communicates: 1) I pay attention to you and remember what you say, 2) I am savvy, smart, and resourceful, and 3) it excites me and makes you feel good. I mean, what could be sexier than that?

Now, doms, I know I’m giving you a powerful tool here, but don’t place this line left and right like it’s some kind of secret code… It works best when used wisely – because, unlike a robot, your brain doesn’t store information indiscriminately. What does your brain pick? worth “Appropriate attention” and when to put this knowledge into action. It’s this keen insight that is irresistible to understudies like me who want to see you “win the game” fair and square: no cheat codes, no algorithms, just your gorgeously imperfect human body and brain doing what it does best.

Fellow divers, do you also have a weakness for this route? Do you have any wonderful memories related to it? Feel free to sound off in the comments!

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