New York City guys splurge on marathon date for 10 hours

For some singles, having a date is simply a lively night without a long-term plan.

But for Big Apple Romantics, the words “not you, it’s me” still sting — especially when a seemingly good date lasts for hours.

The dedicated guy is on a “marathon date” – an epic, romantic odyssey that lasts four to ten hours, and more.

They had dinner, drank, waved around the city, and were then concealed by the Garce ghost.

Now, they don’t waste time playing grip.

Jose, a Queens pilot, told the Post after a five-hour private day flight to Niagara Falls, told the Post that it was a post of more than $900, but soon after she found out she stopped him without saying a word.

“My heart is broken, but my wallet is not recovered,” the 23-year-old said of his mother on all marathon dates.

It was equally confusing: “She told me that she hated the concept of ghosts and how lame it was,” Jose sighed.

Other annoying gentlemen are openly venting their experiences in Tiktok and beyond.

Shane Vassar, a photographer who moved to New York City from the Bay Area earlier this year, told The Post that his most recent first date lasted more than eight hours.

For reference, this is twice the average time of the actual time running marathon.

He said the 27-year-old Chelsea resident and his better hinge half began rendezvous with coffee and Italian pastries — with almost no awkward conversation.

“We drank a bottle of wine and then four hours later, we were still chatting.”

The two then packed up and let the party go on until the Brooklyn Café is not for Kava, one of his favorite low-key attractions, where they hang out in the rear cavalry’s hammocks, chat and embrace under the starless sky.

They moved to another community party room where they “drink, but we didn’t even finish the chat because we were busy talking,” he said, after which he walked to her home, “and back to her Bedford position with his hands in hand.”

He went home in shock – at 4 a.m. when he texted her to thank for a wonderful night, he went to bed.

He wakes up with the cruel “we are not a game” message of his fickle female friend.

“That was my first marathon date in a few years, so it whirled me,” he said. “It’s so crazy.”

Despite the anger, Vassar found a side of the addition – he posted about his virus on Tiktok about 13 new working clients after his date.

And there are always more fish in the sea.

“I was disappointed at first. I thought they were my type, fashion, outgoing, but you can say there are a lot of people in New York City that fit this description, so I wasn’t destroyed.”

David, a 29-year-old born artist, admitted to a similar sour taste.

The hinge user told The Post that he and a woman went to the Natural History Museum, walked through Central Park, ate ramen, and then took the train back to the bed and made a round of pajamas.

After the date – he claimed it lasted “at least 10 hours” – his game lasted for two weeks and then sent out the horrible “I don’t have a romantic atmosphere, but we can be friends”.

“That was the last day I planned my first date,” he said.

One expert says it can be the worst move to be all accompanied by romantic companionship or excessive expectations.

Matchmaker Blaine Anderson suggested limiting first dates to a maximum of several hours and stressing the “with process” mentality.

“Marathon dates are usually – if not always – a mistake! Especially if you meet someone online, it’s wise to use your first date as an atmosphere check,” Anderson told the Post. “Meet, chat, find out if this is the person you want to spend more time with and call it the afternoon (or evening) so you can make your impression gel.”

Either way, you are facing reality checks.

She added: “If you meet someone and feel so incredible that you have to give up everything and keep being with them, that means you do have an incredible connection (why not run with it?!), or you have attachment issues and you need to brake.”

However, for some dates, marathon dates are not doom and sugar, and some romantics prefer them.

Jony, a 28-year-old Joony, who lives on Staten Island, has not found his right lady, but told Marathon to date “satisfies with the boys of love.”

“I just like spending so much time because if I’m really excited about people, like sometimes, sometimes I’ll giggle and kick me on the feet of dating some girls,” the fitness influencer and Cornell graduate used to work in the banking industry for 90 hours, plus wins women and wins and meals on dinner dates.

“There is ‘what if she was that person?’ It took a lot of time to bring you a romantic movie vibe in New York City, like you’re just doing everything in the city together,” he said.

“The more time a girl spends with you – at least how I prove it in my mind, the more she likes you.”