Modern man (& woman) and behavior artwork of salty shrew –

A reader recently wrote to me that I need to comment more on the situation of modern men. We both agree that men are caught between what they want to be and what they think they have to be, so they are essentially lost.

Too many words, I recently mentioned in an email with him that I feel modern men are some sort of backwards to the troubled Winslow Homer paintings, a boat being thrown to stir. Hunting directly out of good will on the sea. Any port in the storm, boy.

It can be said: I hate the current differences between genders. I hate everything this so-called “feminism” does to modern people, but I will not give up any progress made by my gender, and I feel we have more realizations to erode masculinity. It’s a bigger topic for God’s sake, and it’s a fucking book. We don’t go there. However.

That said, when we struggle to find new identities for two genders, there is absolutely no reason we can’t have old-style behavior, charm and etiquette making a comeback.

I hate that etiquette has passed. I hate practicing chivalrous spirit almost apologetically. I hate black and white films seem to be more anthropological memories than cultural records.

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Someone is having everyone drink kool-aid somewhere, and somehow being polite to women, which means you don’t respect them. This is the most ridiculous irony that the masses have ever swallowed. By proving respect, you are disrespectful. say what?

Interestingly, the chivalrous spirit came out of the window and since then, everyone has forgotten the way of hell. Look around! We have rudders than ever before. Road anger, aggressive, never looking at passersby in the eyes, never saying hello, scattering on your fucking phone because some people assist you at the counter instead of pre-reserving parties – fewer people than ever I always know less about basic behavior.

It’s not just for Patsis, man. This is a necessary condition for the human condition.

We are a tribe, people. We need to get along. We need respect. We need a code. It keeps us through the difficulties.

I will tell you one thing I rejected the date based on my behavior. I don’t associate with people who lack them. This is unpleasant. Behavior is the best evidence for anyone who has it. What do you say to you? Your body language, the way you carry your own, the way you delay others, speak more than you say. How is your posture? Have you made it clear? Do you have eye contact? Do you know the correct way to shake hands?

Both men and women today need to learn to behave better. Women need kindness, accept the doors that are opened for them, and they need to return. Like in the past, if we reward and say thank you, people will feel welcome to start being kind to us the only way. We should not be threatened by the Knights, there is no damn reason. If so, what should that woman say? She is too unsafe to help? pfft.

I practice my preaching. I thank the man for opening the door and I smiled. If a person drops it, I will pick up something for him. What’s the problem? When did it become competitive? It’s like we’re waiting for whom to crack first.

My behavior makes my life more enjoyable. Of course when I say thank you or have a good time or have a little chat, half the time is like I’m a homeless bitch begging for crack repairs, the rest of the time I get these passions, gratitude smiles I’ll take some old-fashioned The charm of the sensation is reintegrated. I made friends for two minutes and then walked.

And I don’t care about the expectations of the world, I know what I expect, and what I ask for. I won’t be able to adopt their standards just because the world is too stupid. Do you know? I am part of a growing minority. But where are you standing?

So, this is a transaction. These things seem ordinary and stupid, but their behavior is important. If you are professionally rising, if you work with the public, if you want to attract women outside of your class, then you need to know this.

Here is my introduction to the truncated guide to basic etiquettes for dinner dates, etc. Some of them are considered old-fashioned and outdated, which makes me angry! g! It’s so stupid, I can’t even see the straight line!

Just like these guys go to expensive restaurants in pairs of jeans and T-shirts. Are there some things that cannot be exclusive? sigh. Nothing Special After that. Jesus.

These will be what I want my man to do. I was just closed by a guy who put his napkin on the table while dining. I’m a tough butt, but you’re learning from the right chicks, aren’t you? And, you know I’m holding behavior more interesting than holding lady, so don’t think it will make you obsolete.

This will make you retro cool. It will give you an elegant mystery, and neither do other dicks you know. In the future, I will return to this topic of modern man and how he can better find his place in today’s world with today’s women. Last Saturday’s sensitive post was just the tip of this big iceberg.

Oh, if you’re thinking, “What does this have to do with sex?” Well, it will teach you how to say a beginner, which will put you in one piece. We will move forward at another time. This is a big topic.

These tips start tomorrow. There may be two more posts. (In restaurant etiquette, it is mainly some tips provided for women.)