Minimalist Sex Lesson – Operation

From Adam Tokunaga’s “Perfect Partner” and “Asami Sister Tells You”

Preface: Relax and enjoy the process

When it comes to sex, the most important thing is that both parties feel pleasure and don’t have to care too much about other things. Only in this way can both parties enjoy sex to the fullest.

The harder a man tries to make a woman orgasm, the more heavy the woman feels and the more she gradually closes herself off.

Women’s orgasm is not as simple as men’s ejaculation. For men, as long as there is nothing wrong with it, they feel comfortable after ejaculation. Men never worry about whether they can ejaculate today, but women are different. They really worry: Can I reach orgasm today? What if I can’t orgasm?

The secret to making a woman reach orgasm is not to force her too much, to keep emphasizing that she should reach orgasm, and not to pay too much attention to whether she has reached orgasm. Relaxing your body and mind, caressing your partner gently, and not paying too much attention to whether she has reached orgasm can not only eliminate the psychological pressure on women, but also help them feel comfortable and reach orgasm.

The ultimate goal of sex is not to let women enjoy a momentary orgasm. The ultimate goal of sex is to let women enjoy deeper pleasure for a longer period of time, and orgasm is just the result of this process. Only by changing the idea of ​​only wanting women to reach orgasm to making them feel comfortable all the time can women relax physically and mentally and bring them real pleasure.

Let go of your mood and relax your body

In order for a woman to reach an excited state, she must first go through a relaxed state. Only by relaxing her mind and body can she open herself to the opposite sex who wants to have sex with her. After relaxation, the sexual center that controls sexual feelings will be ready for sex and the body will become sensitive. Without this relaxation process, a woman cannot enter the next stage of excitement.

Respect your sexual partner, be considerate of your sexual partner, treat your sexual partner well, comfort your sexual partner, let her be free of any pressure when she is with you, and be calm and stable. The power of love will naturally connect you together, and you will be able to blend in and live together. Please look back and carefully examine the tactics of previous porn films, and don’t rush to send women to the paradise of sex. If you have a regular sexual partner, you might as well discuss with her in depth how to make both of you relax.

Stripping steps: stripping while caressing, the key is to be slow

Start undressing as soon as you start foreplay. Don’t strip naked at the beginning while your own clothes are still on. Strip at the same pace, caress each other, and strip each other’s clothes.

It is rational to undress with a man while being caressed by him.

Specific steps:

“After entering the hotel or room, first hug her and kiss her.

　　After the kiss, slowly move your hands around her back down and gently touch her buttocks through her clothes. The important thing is not to be impatient. Although it is exciting to be stripped by a man roughly occasionally, the basic principle is to be gentle and take your time.

　　Start taking off your clothes from the upper body first.

　　When a woman takes off her T-shirt or knitted cotton top and raises her hands, it would be nice if the man gently licks her armpits or sides, right?

　　My armpits are very ticklish and I basically don’t let anyone touch them, but for some people, once they enter the erotic mode, the areas that are usually ticklish may become sensitive areas.

　　Don’t take off your bra immediately. Please gently pinch your nipples with your thumb and index finger through your bra. Start here and always use gentle stimulation as the basic principle. Using too much force will have the opposite effect.

“When she starts to breathe, please press the breasts upwards, together with the bra. The secret is to press your hands against the steel wire at the bottom edge of the bra and gently press upwards.

　　It’s also stimulating to run your fingers over the outside of her breasts and around her collarbone, and it’s erotic to run your fingers along the straps of her bra. If you use subtle touches, running your fingertips over her body, she’s sure to gasp.”

“Even if you pull down the shoulder straps, it’s not time to take off the bra yet. It’s better to put your hands into the bra and knead the breasts. Although this is no different from direct touching, the difference between wearing a bra and not wearing a bra will make a girl feel very different.

　　Use both hands to slowly unhook her bra, then gently squeeze her breasts from the bottom up, and then slowly take off her skirt or pants.

　　In order to prevent the clothes from getting ripped, the man should fold them neatly and place them beside the bed. If the man takes this care, the woman will be more impressed.

　　You can’t take off your underwear right away!

　　Maybe she is wearing “combat underwear” prepared for this day. Please enjoy the caress through the underwear carefully! The key is to make the woman aware of the cut line of the underwear, that is, let your fingers and tongue wander along the cut line of the underwear. If you touch her thigh root along the edge of the underwear, and then stimulate her sexual organs by rubbing them, everything will be ideal.

“It might be a good idea to have the woman lie prone for a while and stroke along the round curve of her buttocks.

　　For experienced girls, you can also do it as if you are going to lift up her panties. This is to arouse her shame about her panties being torn open, and let her get the pleasure of shame because of the exposure from behind. It is also a good method to blow air on her body without touching her.

　　After letting her lie on her back again, please caress her pubic mound through her panties along her pubic hair. The effect of using rotating motion and vibration as the basic principle is far greater than direct contact.

I also recommend gentle pressure on the clitoris area. It’s also good to slide your hand in from the side of her panties and touch the protrusion of her pelvis. The key is to always slide in from the side, so you have to reach in from the front and slide in from the side.

　　If she’s wearing ties, take them off! Girls expect you to do this.

　　But after disassembling, it always maintains its original state and cannot be taken off as a whole.

Like this, letting her caress her in her underwear is to bring her the joy and shame of “being seen by a man wearing only underwear.”

　　Girls wearing cute underwear may say they are shy, but they are definitely waiting for you to do this. “Touching through underwear feels better than touching directly, and there are more girls who think this way than you think.”

“Among them, there are some girls who don’t want to get their underwear wet. If that’s the case, she will probably take it off first or ask the guy to help her, so there’s no need to worry.

　　Caress her body while undressing her smoothly. The best secret is to attack wherever you undress. To do this, your hands and mouth should not stop. Please keep touching her body, kissing and licking while undressing her.

　　The clothes are taken off smoothly, and when you come to your senses, you are naked – it is ideal for the woman to have this feeling.

“Take off your clothes one by one, kissing and licking the closest parts with your lips. Just by doing this, you can become an expert at stripping.

Caressing steps: from top to bottom, from shallow to deep

The key to caressing is to be gentle. Women’s bodies are delicate, so use the gentlest force to caress every inch of her skin. No matter which technique you use, you should start with the less sensitive parts of the body.

The correct order of caressing: hair, face, shoulders, arms, fingertips. Ventral side, waist, back, shoulder blades, buttocks. The sensitive nipples must be left for caressing at the end. Caress the back from the waist upwards. Caress the toes and slide towards the calves and thighs.

Start with the hair, then the face, shoulders, arms, fingertips, then from the ventral side to the waist, back, shoulder blades, and move down to the buttocks. When all the erogenous zones on the back of the body have been caressed, it is time to caress the front. One thing to remember: the sensitive nipples must be left for the last caressing. Only in this way can you whet the appetite of women and fill them with great desire all over their bodies until their sexual hunger reaches the limit.

When caressing from the hair, the sensitive detector in the woman’s brain will transmit a light and subtle pleasure. Because the soft waist can generate and store sexual energy, caressing the back should start from the waist. And the gentle caressing from the toes to the calves and thighs will continuously send sexual energy to the uterus along the path from bottom to top, making the woman’s skin highly sensitive. Why do you do this? If you can understand the physiological structure and psychology of women, you will know why you need to follow these orders when making love.

There are two ways to caress a woman: “positive caress” and “negative caress”. Positive caress is to slide the palm or fingertips over the skin and gently circle; negative caress is to use the fingernails to lightly touch the sensitive parts of the woman’s body. This positive and negative technique is the most effective in giving women pleasure. Influenced by erotic videos, many men mistakenly believe that squeezing and sucking hard when caressing women is the only way to increase women’s excitement. In fact, this method is too violent and will cause women to feel disgust and resentment. The correct strength is “gentle”, and the basic rule is “seemingly there but not there”

Caress every erogenous zone of a woman’s body from head to toe, and only at the last moment, start caressing her clitoris. Caressing the clitoris should be extremely gentle, with only one-fifth or even one-tenth of the usual caressing force. The clitoris is the most sensitive female sexual organ, which is covered with sensory nerves. Only very gentle movements can make women feel pleasure, and too heavy movements can easily hurt women.

Only after the sensitive cells in every erogenous zone of the body are fully stretched, then you can touch the clitoris to fully tap into its maximum potential and reach the highest limit of pleasure.

First of all, let the concave part of the palm touch the woman’s skin gently and closely. This is the most basic point.

The man lies diagonally on the bed, leaning against the woman. It is best for the woman to lie prone. Caress from the back, down to the buttocks, and then to the inner thighs, slowly drawing large clockwise circles. You can use talcum powder to promote relaxation. If the woman lies on her back, start from the abdomen, go to both sides of the abdomen, then to the chest, and then down to the thighs, slowly move the palm, and massage continuously. Do not use your fingers randomly, and keep your palm close to the skin. You can also use the palm touch caressing method when you are wearing clothes, massaging the woman’s back and waist. Over time, the woman will get used to being caressed, and can smoothly and quickly go from a relaxed state to a state of lovemaking.

Specific caressing route suggestions:

“After spending a lot of time enjoying and stripping her naked, the proper caressing is finally about to begin – don’t rush to attack between her legs!

　　To increase pleasure and whet her appetite at the same time, the basic principle of caressing is “from top to bottom”. Start from the chest, and pay attention to the two points of “from outside to inside” and “from soft to hard”. The secret is not to start with the nipples immediately, but to whet her appetite.

　　First, wrap your entire palm around the breast and gently push it upwards to knead it. Don’t grab it suddenly and tightly, but gently push the entire breast upwards from beginning to end, which is the feeling of “pulling upwards” mentioned just now. The structure of a girl’s breasts is that they will produce pleasure when they are pulled upwards.

　　Then, draw concentric circles from the outside towards the nipple, and caress her breasts in a way that gradually reduces the circumference. At this time, absolutely do not touch the nipple. This is also a so-called appetite-teasing technique.

“When a man uses this technique on a girl, the girl will not resist and focus on the world of pleasure. Few men know that even if the nipples are not touched directly, the pleasure will be transmitted to the nipples little by little by repeatedly caressing the breasts.

　　After the caressing with the palms and fingers, it is time to use the tongue to caress. First, the basic principle is to attack the surrounding area of ​​the breast bulge, and it is particularly effective to let the tongue wander around the breast area.

“While doing this, gently lick the areola with the tip of your tongue, moving in circles as you get closer to the nipple. Lift the tip of your tongue and feel the contours of the areola as you lick in circles. It might also be helpful to gently scratch it with the tip of your nose.

　　However, if the woman has smaller breasts, she may be ticklish because her breasts are too sensitive, so please observe her reaction before proceeding.

　　If she has big breasts, please lick her areola while gently holding both breasts and shaking the whole breasts to give them gentle vibration. Due to the weight of fat, the vibration effect will be transmitted to the nipples, and that feeling will definitely make her feel very comfortable.

　　Now it’s the nipples’ turn! The nipples are the most sensitive part of the breasts!

　　The nipple is a sensory organ that is closely related to sexual pleasure and is also a concentration of nerves. Perhaps because of this, some men also call the nipple the “clitoris of the upper body.”

　　Yes, the nipple is like the clitoris, it is the area where nerves are concentrated, please caress it carefully and carefully. “

“Rub, caress, lick, pinch, poke, flick – treat it like a treasure as you do so. Start by caressing the nipple with your open hand in a light, grazing motion. The secret is to keep a delicate distance without touching.

　　I suggest that you start the caressing of the nipples with extremely subtle touches. If you do it with skill, the woman’s body will suddenly tremble.

　　In addition, it is also great to gently pinch the nipple with the index and middle fingers and put the palm of your hand on the breast to vibrate.

“It vibrates the nipple and breast at the same time, so the pleasure should be amplified and spread throughout the breast.

　　Then, use the tip of your thumb or index finger to stroke or flick the nipple from bottom to top! While doing this, use the other four fingers to rub the breast. The gentle friction of the fingertips will produce moderate stimulation for girls. After the nipple is fully erect, please use the tip of your index or middle finger to poke the tip of the nipple straight and lightly, like tapping on a piano keyboard. It is not to make the nipple concave! It is to enjoy the swelling feeling of the nipple with gentle touch!

　　After the finger caressing is over, ask the man to keep the tip of his tongue raised and lick the nipple like scratching.

　　The tip is also a surface, so gently scratching this surface with the tip of the tongue is an important skill.

　　This kind of suspenseful, itchy and incredible stimulation will make the woman’s pleasure last longer and even increase her pleasure.”

“The man puts the woman’s nipple and areola into his mouth and uses the tip of his tongue to caress the nipple in a rotating manner. The trick is to draw a circle with the tip of your tongue while rotating the nipple. The stimulation of the lips and the stimulation of the tip of the tongue work together to double the effect.

　　It is important to rub the sides of the nipple with your tongue as you swirl the tip of your tongue around it, either in a circular motion or from bottom to top.

　　Occasionally poking or sucking the nipples can also be effective! Because instinctively, nipples are irresistible to the stimulation of sucking. While sucking, if the man’s head can move back and forth like in oral sex, making sucking sounds and controlling the intensity of the force, I think that would be great.

　　It might be a good idea to poke the erect nipple with the tip of your tongue as if you were pressing it back into your breast. Focus on one spot and do it rhythmically. Lift the tip of your tongue and poke it straight and gently while slowly increasing the speed!

　　Another method is for the man to slightly turn his face up and down and left and right, observing the woman’s reaction while gently biting her nipples.

　　Nibbling is the final stage of nipple caressing. Please observe the woman’s reaction while pinching her lips firmly, pinching or nibbling the nipple with your lips and tongue.

“The effect of caressing the breasts can be doubled by caressing other parts of the body at the same time. Start with the woman’s breasts and the back of the neck, the breasts and the back, and finally caress the breasts and between the legs at the same time! Then, I will give a suggestion for each part!

Chest and back of neck

　　While fingering her breasts, he blew air on and licked the back of her neck. “

“Chest and ears

　　While fingering her breasts, caress her ears with your tongue. Blow air into her ears, move your tongue in and out of her ear canal, and lick her earlobes.

Chest and back

　　Move your fingers along the woman’s back and rotate her nipples with the tip of your tongue, or vice versa, pinch and touch her nipples with your hands while licking her back.

Between chest and legs

While licking the nipples with the tip of your tongue, pinch and touch the clitoris with your fingers. Of course, you can also do the opposite, tasting the jade while stretching your arms to caress the breasts and nipples. “

The correct way to caress the clitoris: gently, gently, and gently again

For the clitoris, the right stimulation is the slightest stimulation that makes the woman impatient. Keep stimulating the clitoris with super gentle force. Even if she starts to feel it, do not increase the force. The correct way to caress is to maintain super gentle force. Only when the woman is about to reach orgasm, can you appropriately increase the frequency of finger and tongue stimulation.

When you start caressing the clitoris, you must first flip open the clitoris’s skin (not the labia; the clitoris is covered with a foreskin before it becomes erect, just like the glans penis) to expose the clitoris completely. Let the woman lie flat on her back, and the man lies beside her. If the man is right-handed, it is best to lie on the woman’s right side. Use your non-dominant hand to flip open the skin – the tips of your index and middle fingers, as if you are pinching the clitoris, and spread your fingers to the left and right in a V shape. Pull your fingers up a few centimeters toward the woman’s belly button, and you can easily flip open the clitoris’s skin.

Place your dominant hand on the woman’s thigh. Note that the fleshier part of the lower part of your palm near the pinky finger should touch the woman’s thigh, fix its position, use it as a fulcrum to rotate your wrist, and move your middle finger from bottom to top, caressing the clitoris super gently.

At the beginning, you must make sure that your fingertips touch the tip of the clitoris. When caressing the clitoris, the most taboo is not to get it in place. Please repeat the action to ensure that your fingertips remember the correct feeling.

Learn to kiss: The mouth is the second sex organ

Gentleness and gentleness are still the key. Calm down and feel the joy that soft lips bring you.

The key is to regard kissing as a caress between lips (tongue) and lips (tongue). Avoid the misapplication of the concept of “the stronger the stimulation, the more comfortable” when kissing.

“First of all, I say again that kissing is very important to girls. If a guy can give a good kiss, a girl will get wet just by being kissed.

Before the body is caressed, the mind will judge whether it is comfortable or not. On the contrary, if feelings cannot be generated through kissing, no matter what the man does afterwards, the woman’s passion will not be easily ignited. From this point alone, you should be able to understand how important kissing is to girls.

　　Yes, kissing is not just the appetizer of sex. Maybe it’s a bit exaggerated, but in the sense of whether sex is good or bad, kissing is the main course.

　　I think the reason why people say “a man who is good at kissing is also good at sex” is because his bodyguard can ignite the girl’s heart and body.

　　Kissing makes a girl feel like she is in a dream. If the man does not force his tongue in, but kisses her as if he is trying to draw out his tongue, the girl will feel a tightness in her chest.

“If a man licks the inside of my lips with his tongue, I will also want to lick that tongue. Once I kiss a man, the slippery and powerful tongue stimulates the surface or back of my tongue, and I get wet without realizing it.”

“Of course, men should kiss more than just the lips.

　　Girls are all over the body are kissable parts, especially the neck and back, armpits to nipples, buttocks and thighs, and of course between the legs. Girls are always waiting for the caress brought by kisses.

　　If you want to be popular with girls, you need to be a good kisser. He who can control kissing can control women. The previous introduction was a bit too long. Here, I want to review the basic points I hope you will grasp when kissing women.

　　The basic principle of kissing is to overlap your lips. Close your lips and just press your lips against hers as if you were touching them lightly. Don’t rush, take your time. It is important to enjoy the spiritual connection during the kiss.

Licking around the lips

　　The area around the lips, including the lips, is a place where nerves gather, so it feels very comfortable when licked. Please use your tongue to lick gently, but be careful not to leave sticky saliva. By the way, I don’t like this very much (laughing)

“Lick around your chin

　　If the man licks around the woman’s chin, she should be surprised by the unexpectedness and get indescribable pleasure. If the man lets his tongue move from under the lips to the jawbone, the woman’s lips should open naturally. But this is a bit hard for me to accept, sorry (laughs).

Pinch your lips”

“After touching and rubbing the lips together, gently hold the woman’s upper and lower lips with your lips, as if you were caressing her lips. The more casual you do it, the better the effect.

biting lip

If you are tired of the stimulation of just clamping your lips and cannot be satisfied, it doesn’t hurt to try biting it. Of course, gentle bites are important. Don’t just bite in one place, bite everywhere.

Put your tongue in

　　Put your tongue between her half-open lips. Moving your tongue in and out can also remind her of sexual penetration. After you put your tongue in, move it around to find her tongue.

Sucking lips

　　Girls also like men to suck their lips, which is more erotic than licking or gently biting.

Please suck and blow on your upper and lower lips alternately, changing the position of the sucking and blowing. “

“Kiss from behind

　　Girls feel safe when a man hugs them from behind. This is what we call a “bear hug.” Hold the girl in your arms and kiss her from behind. It’s better to kiss her while caressing her hair or breasts.

“Lick the back of your tongue

　　Please slide your tongue under the woman’s tongue, rub it gently, and then focus on licking the bottom of the tongue. Especially the root of the tongue is the key. Licking until the saliva blends together will be very erotic.

Let the tips of your tongue touch each other

　　Please stick out your tongues and let them touch each other, that is, kiss the tip of the tongue. If the man licks the tip of his tongue gently for himself, the woman’s mood will become extremely erotic.

Sucking tongue

　　The man sucks the woman’s tongue and sucks it out of her lips. The trick is to mix the saliva together, not suck too hard, and suck the tongue like oral sex.

Saliva kiss

　　Wet your lips or tongue with lots of saliva and let the lips or tongues “tie” together. The following description is a bit unhygienic: dripping saliva into the other person’s mouth is called “spittoon kissing”. This is a bit unacceptable to me (laughing). “

“Licking the sensitive areas inside the mouth

　　The sensitive areas in the mouth are located behind the upper front teeth, on the gums between the lips and teeth, and on the sides and back of the tongue. Use the tip of your tongue to focus on licking these areas. The woman will definitely praise you for your good kissing skills.

entwine their tongues together”

“This is what we call a deep French kiss. The tongues intertwine as if they are exchanging saliva, and it feels very erotic. Please make circular movements with your tongue, using the entire surface of your tongue.

Kiss on the ear

　　When you move from the lips to the ears, kiss the woman gently. After reaching the ears, lick the outline of the ears with your lips or tongue, and it is best to blow hot air on the woman occasionally.

Kiss on the back of the neck

　　Please spread numerous kisses along the woman’s ears, the curve of her chin and the back of her neck. I hope you can alternate between kissing with your lips and stimulating your tongue by moving it left and right, slowly licking up and down.

Armpit kiss

　　Please put your lips under the woman’s armpits and move your tongue up and down and left and right. I think it will be easier to make the kiss more varied if the face is also moved. Don’t bother with ticklish women.

　　Don’t stop until the woman’s sexual desire is high before challenging her again.”

“Nipple Kiss

　　The basic principle of kissing nipples is to suck rhythmically, lick them all over with the tip of the tongue, gently knead her breasts upwards, pinch the nipples with your lips or poke the tip of the nipples with the tip of the tongue, which is the best technique.

Belly button kiss

“The belly button is a surprisingly sensitive area. Take her belly button as the center and draw concentric circles from the periphery towards the belly button. Licking the belly button with the tip of your tongue is also very effective.

Kiss on the back

　　The sensitive areas on the back are the spine and both sides of the spine. I hope you will use your lips and tongue to stroke upwards from near her arms, lick to the base of the neck and back and forth several times.

Butt kiss

　　The trick to kissing the buttocks is to lick with the entire surface of the tongue in concentric circles. The crotch should be touched with the tip of the tongue, just touching it. Please do this in advance, and then slowly slide the tip of the tongue towards her anus.

Thigh kiss

　　The next target for the buttocks is to avoid between the legs and move towards the thighs. I hope you can get closer to between the legs while sucking the woman’s thighs with your lips. Lick down with the tip of your tongue, and then lick up again using the whole tongue. “

“Kiss between the legs

　　The key to kissing between the legs is to stimulate the clitoris and the vestibule of the vagina with your tongue. Use plenty of saliva as a lubricant and lick, caress and poke her skillfully with the tip of your raised tongue.

　　Girls are surprisingly sensitive to kissing. I’ve had experiences where I’ve almost orgasmed from kissing alone. If a guy licks my mouth all over, I get the same feeling as if I were having sex.

　　The mouth is the second sex organ.”

Tips for penetration: The penis caresses the vagina, rather than rubbing it continuously.

Sometimes women’s genitals will secrete love juices reflexively because of their excitement. In other words, just because it is wet does not necessarily mean that it is the best time to insert. So, how to measure the best time to insert? It depends on how deep the pleasure of the woman is. The best time is of course when the woman begs you to insert, she will open her mouth and beg you to enter quickly. Of course, there is also an advanced technique, which is not to insert immediately at this time, but wait for her to beg you to insert.

After penetration, the man will immediately perform vigorous piston movements. At this time, many women will say, “Don’t move, don’t move yet.” Why is this so? It turns out that the structure of the vagina is very strange, it can stretch and retract freely.

After the penis is inserted into the vagina, the vagina will react quickly and change its shape to match the size of the penis in all directions. This process is very important. Only when the penis is still can the vagina remember the shape of the penis and make full preparations for the next thrusting. If the man thrusts hard as soon as he thrusts, the vagina will only feel a hard object stirring inside, and the woman’s physical and psychological state will not be able to settle down, so naturally she will not feel comfortable. 　　

Insert the penis deeply into the end of the vagina. The front end of the penis will naturally touch the A-spot. At this time, do not change the position, let the lower abdomen of the man and woman touch closely, and press the A-spot with the penis. Then swing your waist quickly, and try to vibrate the A-spot with the front end of the penis to stimulate it. It should be noted that this is not the friction of the penis on the vagina, not the piston movement, but the movement. A little advice, this method is not a piston movement, and you must not rub repeatedly. Swing your waist and vibrate her A-spot, this is the trick.

To make a woman’s vagina enjoy the climax of sexual intercourse, the important skill is not to pump violently, but to keep the penis still. Not only should the penis be kept still properly after insertion, but also during sexual intercourse, first stop pumping, keep a short still state, and then start piston movement again. Before and after this, the woman’s sensitivity will change greatly. This method is very simple, you may wish to try it. (The so-called three shallow and one deep, nine shallow and one deep)

How to kiss the ears?

First of all, the basic techniques of kissing are: “point, pick, pluck, press, stir, suck, bite, and exhale.” The ear is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body, and it is covered with tactile nerves. When kissing the ear, you should first exhale gently to give the other person psychological preparation, then gently bite the earring, and slowly bite from bottom to top at a little distance.

The key is to take it slow and as softly as possible, just like biting a QQ candy. After biting it once, suck the entire earlobe into your lips, and slowly suck it from top to bottom. Then, you can suck it completely into your mouth and massage it with your tongue. Take it slow. Hold her head with one hand, and support her with your hands in your arms. Start kissing from above the earlobe with your tongue, and kiss from the outside of the cochlea. After kissing and sucking in circles, the most critical part is to put your tongue into the other person’s cochlea, and kiss as softly and densely as possible, going in and out of the other person’s cochlea back and forth, so that the other person can feel pleasure.

How to avoid ejaculating too quickly?

1. Palm-circling glans caressing method: Apply lubricant to the palm of your hand, and use this hand to hold the penis and glans later. Use your other hand to press the base of the penis so that the glans emerges from the foreskin. Place the palm of your lubricated hand against the glans, circle around the glans, and gently caress the top, sides, and bottom of the glans. The key is to maximize the contact area between the palm and the glans, and keep the palm around the glans without leaving it. (This guy said that Laogong acupoint can continuously release sexual energy). Sexual energy will continue to accumulate, and the feeling of comfort will become stronger and stronger.
2. Finger squeeze glans caressing method: Gently hold the hand that has just been lubricated to form a hole. Put the glans into the hole of this hand, keep the hand shape, and slowly slide down, letting the fingers gently caress the glans until the coronal sulcus of the penis is about to drill out of the hole. Never let the foreskin cover the glans, and then continue to keep the hand shape and slowly move upwards, gently caressing the glans.

When practicing the above two methods, please relax and practice slowly, restrain the urge to rub the penis quickly with your hands, pause when you feel you are about to ejaculate, and continue for at least 15 minutes each time.

Learn about different body positions

Man on top, woman on bottom:

This is the most orthodox and most popular sex position among women. The reason why it is popular is that you can see each other’s faces during the sex.

In the normal position, letting the woman spread her legs can increase intimacy and allow deep penetration. The man can use the pubic bone to stimulate the clitoris, and the G-spot can be stimulated by raising the waist; the woman can penetrate deep into the vagina when she opens her legs, which is an ideal insertion technique in a normal position.

　　When attacking deep into the vagina in the normal position, the secret is to perform piston movements from bottom to top, and add rotational movements. By doing this, the penis will reach deep into the vagina. If the man’s penis is longer, the effect of rotational movements will be better.

　　When the man supports himself with his arms, his waist movements will be a little slower, but the sense of intimacy will be increased, so the woman can enjoy it with peace of mind.

　　On the contrary, the higher the man’s upper body is raised, the less restricted the waist movement will be. Please stimulate her G-spot with diagonal movements, stimulate the clitoris with circular movements, and stimulate the vaginal opening with up and down movements.

Back to normal position:

“This is a position where the woman lies back with her upper body facing the man from the back-to-back riding position. Although the depth of penetration will be shallower,”

“But the man’s hands will be free to caress the woman’s body.

　　Needless to say, you should also use your fingers to focus on stimulating the woman’s clitoris. The woman’s clitoris will return to its original size during intercourse. Excite her clitoris again and create changes!

　　The basic principle is to pinch and rub the clitoris with the middle finger and ring finger, or to rub it in a rotating manner with the middle finger.

Sitting style:

Face-to-face sitting position

　　Sitting and riding are the two positions that allow for the deepest penetration! The man’s hands are free to caress other parts of the vagina, which is also the specialty of this position.

In the face-to-face sitting position, start with the up and down piston movement to promote continued erection in the vagina! The basic principle is that the man swings his waist back and forth and uses his pubic bone to rub the woman’s clitoris. After the glans reaches a deeper position, please perform a rotational movement in which the front end of the glans rubs the upper wall of the vagina.

　　The key is to lead the action by holding the waist. The man stretches out his legs or sits cross-legged, and the woman sits on him facing the man and combines. When taking this face-to-face sitting position, both parties maintain a hugging posture and swing their waists, letting their sexual organs rub against each other’s sexual organs, and should be able to taste strong pleasure from both inside and outside. “

When the upper body is upright, the male body is in a relaxed state, which can well suppress excitement, and cannot twist the waist greatly, so it is not easy to reach orgasm. On the other hand, men and women hug each other, warm each other’s body, can kiss, play, talk to their heart’s content, and can enjoy the happiness of perfect harmony. Therefore, no matter from which angle you look at it, the sitting position is the most ideal position for enjoying slow sex.

Female Top:

: The key point of this position is that the woman can move freely and easily get the stimulation she wants, so it is easy to reach orgasm. It is especially effective for women who like to masturbate. Using this position, the woman can put her legs together and adjust the position so that the man’s pubic bone just rubs against her clitoris, while controlling the speed of the penis entering the vagina to achieve the stimulation she wants most.

“Face-to-face riding position

　　This is a sex position in which a woman rides on a man who is lying on his back.

　　Since the woman can adjust the depth and angle of insertion herself, it is easy to stimulate the pleasure points, which is the specialty of this position.

　　The woman’s waist movements should focus on rubbing the clitoris back and forth and making circular movements. The man should tell the woman that squatting can allow for deeper penetration.

“Back-to-back riding position

　　This is the riding position with the woman facing away from the man. It is better for the woman to take the lead in waist movement! The basic principle is to use piston movement up and down, rotate the waist, or twist like intertwining. No matter which one is used, if the man caresses the woman’s clitoris at this time, sexual pleasure will easily rise. Although the basic principle is to use the fingertips to caress or rub it, it is also okay to pinch the clitoris with two fingers and rotate it at high speed!

“Sitting position facing back

　　This is the sex position where the man sits down first and the woman sits on him with her back to the man. The woman is the one who takes the lead in the waist movements, and the man is responsible for caressing. When taking this sex position, if you look in the mirror in a love hotel or other place with a mirror, you can clearly see the insertion site, which is guaranteed to make both parties excited.

Back-to-back position

That is, it comes from behind, with the woman on all fours on the ground.

　　The man’s aggressiveness and dominance will be stimulated, and the woman’s expression can be hidden from the man, which is a very easy position to release sexual desire. Because it can be inserted very deep, the man mainly uses long thrusts to perform large piston movements, which is suitable for comprehensive stimulation of the vagina.

　　Although you can caress the clitoris during penetration, it is a rare opportunity, so please focus on stimulating the G-spot. If you want to stimulate the G-spot with the penis, the best position is to let the woman lower her head.

　　The man holds the woman’s waist tightly and presses down from top to bottom to perform piston movements! It may only be understood roughly, but it is important for the man to realize that “he is now pressing against the G-spot area.”

“Side-entry body odor

　　Generally speaking, the side-entry position is usually used for resting, but if the intimacy is high enough, even the clitoris can be fully stimulated.

　　Of course, it is ideal to continue stimulating the clitoris during rest time. If the clitoris is continuously stimulated, the woman’s sexual pleasure will not decrease. If you want to stimulate the G-spot with a side-entry position, the secret is that the man should be aware of the front wall of the vagina at all times and switch the piston movement from forward and backward movement to diagonal movement.

　　But this is ultimately a position for both parties to rest, and the piston movement itself should be carried out slowly. “

“Standing Posture

　　This is a sex position where both men and women maintain a standing position and have intercourse. This position is suitable for small places such as bathrooms or toilets.

Since the position of caressing the clitoris is too forced, it is better to only attack the G-spot when in the standing position! If the man lifts one of the woman’s legs and supports her, he can penetrate deeply. If you want to use your penis to reach the G-spot, you don’t need to insert it deeply. Just let the woman lean back and use ordinary piston movements to stimulate the G-spot.

　　As long as the man feels the upper side of the glans penis rubbing against the front wall of the vagina, there is no problem.”

Change of body position should be smooth

No matter how good you are at caressing and penetration, if you can’t change positions smoothly and spend more time on penetration each time you change, you won’t pass.

　　Of course, I don’t mean that you have to change multiple positions every time.

　　By the way, if I’m having sex with someone I like, I won’t be dissatisfied even if I only use normal sex positions. I just want to say that each sex position has its own suitable insertion and caressing methods, and only those who can perform those techniques smoothly can be considered mature men.

　　No matter which position is adopted, the man cannot perform piston movements randomly. Each position has its own appropriate and effective insertion method.

　　If you can express your needs, it is best to use different positions according to the type of woman. For example, for a girl who is not experienced, it is better to use the orthodox way and slow deep piston movement rather than the standing position or side-entry position. However, if the woman feels pain, the depth and intensity of the piston movement should be shallower.

“For girls who have reached a certain level of sexual experience, please try to reach the G-spot. I suggest that the man do it in a rhythmic way, such as the “three shallow and one deep” piston movement method introduced in the previous chapter, after three shallow insertions, the fourth time is a deep insertion.”

“At this time, if possible, please stimulate two places at the same time, such as caressing the woman’s clitoris at the same time. It will be great. I think most women want you to caress her clitoris after penetration because it is easier to reach orgasm that way.

　　However, surprisingly few men are willing to do this for us.

　　For example, you can do piston movements in a normal position while rubbing the clitoris with the tip of your thumb. When you are in a riding or sitting position, let the woman swing her waist while the man focuses on stimulating her breasts or clitoris, and the sensation will be great.

I just said that when the woman twists her waist back and forth in order to use your lower abdomen to rub the clitoris, it is evidence that she wants to stimulate the clitoris more.

In any case, it is ideal for the change of position to be smooth and smooth. Let’s give some examples! For example, starting from the normal position, both parties stand up with their upper bodies and switch to sitting opposite each other. Maintaining this position, the man lies back and switches to the opposite riding position. The woman turns 180 degrees and changes to a back-to-back riding position. The man raises his upper body and retracts his lower body, thereby changing to a doggy style position. Simply put, this is how it feels.

　　Of course, these are just a few examples. I think as long as both parties work together, they can come up with a variety of different body positions. “It’s important to change without pulling out the vagina as much as possible, and to do it smoothly and fluidly. So, let’s find out the key points of each position! Let’s start with the normal position.”

Basic caressing method:

Basic gesture: Keep your palm 4 cm horizontally away from the skin. Bend your five fingers and place them evenly spaced. Touch the skin with your fingertips. Imagine that the woman’s skin is just a thin membrane between your fingertips.

Keep the horizontal distance between your palm and the skin at about 4 cm, then bend your five fingers, arrange them at equal distances, and gently touch the skin with your fingertips. Note that the key to touching the skin is the word “light” – imagine that the skin of the woman’s body is close to your fingers, and there is only a very thin layer of membrane between them, as if it will break if blown. You can only touch it gently with subtle and wonderful techniques to stimulate the woman’s erogenous zones beautifully.

The movement trajectory of fingers is basically elliptical. If the back is a large area, it is a large ellipse; if the waist or hips are a medium area, it is a medium ellipse; if the palms or soles are a small area, two or three fingers are used to slowly draw small ellipses. There are two reasons for this: first, women like regular movements, and continuous elliptical movements have a relaxing effect. Women are comforted in this stable psychological state, and the sexual center will quickly open up and be ready to fully enjoy the pleasure; second, regular elliptical movements allow women to predict which parts the fingers will touch step by step, and the expectations in their hearts seem to be realized one by one immediately, which can effectively develop women’s sexual feelings.

There are two basic principles that must be followed when doing elliptical exercises.

First, place your five fingers evenly spaced. Do not change your position during the exercise.

If your fingertips move randomly and the intensity of the touch is uneven, you will not be able to apply appropriate stimulation stably. Therefore, the first step of the Adam Touch Caressing Method is to let your fingertips remember the basic gestures I just mentioned.

You must not use brute force with your fingers. You must maintain a certain degree of softness and move your fingertips smoothly to give it just the right touch.

Secondly, you need to control the speed of your palm movement. The Adam touch caressing method emphasizes both the ideal strength and the appropriate speed. Move 3 cm per second – count to three in your mind and move forward about 10 cm. Try it yourself. You will know that this is a very slow speed, so slow that it seems to be whetting your appetite. This speed is suitable for the sensitivity of a woman’s body. She will identify it as sexual stimulation and then feel sexual pleasure. For beginners, it is not easy to keep the five fingers spaced and balanced, and it is also difficult to maintain a speed limit of 3 cm per second. However, to make a woman’s body feel something, please be sure to implement the Adam touch caressing method correctly.

Vibration Caress Method:

Fingertip vibration method: Lay your palm flat, bend your middle and ring fingers at right angles to your palm, and vibrate your fingertips regularly at specific parts. Instead of just vibrating the surface, use the weight of your hand to press your fingertips 1 cm down from the surface of the skin, and feel like you are vibrating the center of the body. This method is suitable for stimulating the softer parts of a woman’s body, such as the breasts, lower abdomen, buttocks, perineum, etc., and is particularly effective for the breasts. The ribs connecting the nipples and armpits are about 5 cm wide and are suitable for this caressing method.

Palm vibration method: Press the fleshy part of your palm near your wrist to the area that needs caressing, and gently shake your fingers left and right as if waving goodbye. This method is suitable for wide erogenous zones, such as the pubic bone and coccyx.

Finger vibration method: Use the first joint of the index and middle fingers to quickly vibrate the erogenous zones in the vagina. This is for the G-spot.

Penis vibration method: After the penis is inserted into the vagina, do not pump it repeatedly, but insert it deeply into the vagina, make the vaginal opening fit closely with the male’s lower abdomen, press the glans against and press the vaginal wall, swing the waist back and forth, and vibrate the vagina. This is for the A point (near the cervical opening?).

What causes female sexual indifference?

The fundamental reason for women’s so-called sexual indifference is that their brains are not sensitive enough, the potential sensual touch function of the brain has not been effectively developed, and the touch stimulation of the skin cannot be efficiently and smoothly converted into sexual stimulation. There are many ways to activate this function and make women’s sexual feelings richer and more mature. The most effective and convenient way is to constantly and accurately stimulate their erogenous zones. Unfortunately, men often cannot do this.