I want to quit porn because I can’t use it moderately. If I can’t use it moderately, then I’d rather not watch it at all. At the same time, I must admit that I can’t… uh… really live without masturbation. I don’t find it healthy either. I get cranky, inattentive, aggressive, etc. Then, eventually, after a month without ejaculation (which is usually how long I last), I always get addicted to porn and for about two weeks I’m addicted. I want to avoid this. I want to make masturbation more fun and private. I can masturbate without porn, although it’s hard to get an erection without porn or a partner. But I know this problem will be solved over time. I want to buy sex toys, but I don’t want to spend too much money just yet. Some time ago, I bought a prostate massager for about 40/45 euros, but I never experienced a prostate orgasm, which was disappointing. Its vibrations were probably too weak, the material was too fragile, and the lubricant wasn’t sticky enough. It broke after a few uses. Pretty disappointing. What advice would you give to someone like me? Additional question: A quick Fleshlight (one that’s open on both ends) using only shower water…is this possible, or must I use lube?
Man wants to quit porn but doesn’t want to masturbate: What do you do…
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