Keep your sex life active during the holidays

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I know the holidays mean less or no sex for some couples. Often the husband wants it but the wife is too busy. Sometimes they both want more sex, but they’re too tired to have it.

If you want to try to change that this year, ask your wife what you can do to spice up your sex life more. This might mean you’re putting the kids to bed or canceling something. This might mean you find ways to cross things off her list.

One thing that helps is defining gender in different ways. Masturbating while lying together may not be your first choice, but it’s better than nothing. You can also keep it open-ended in the beginning; it will be beneficial for both of you if she gets involved. If exhaustion wins, it’s just for you and she decides how you finish.

Also consider different times of day, especially if one or both of you are too tired while sleeping.

Having this discussion now could mean a happier holiday season.

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