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Just bought a dildo for £70 but it’s much bigger than…
Just bought a large dildo that is 2.75 inches wide and 9.33 inches long. Don’t want to waste it, but how can I do this. I could get in fine but started to go down slowly and felt a bit of bruising and then what I would say was a little bleeding. Is there any way to relieve the pain? Can I work through it?
I’d say that’s on the extreme side for an average person. Most people comfortably top out at 1.75 inches wide. You should never be hurting or bleeding from sex, if you are, something’s not being done right. I would chalk it up to a loss, because continuing with something that size can and will do permanent damage.
uh wow yeah, 2.75 would kill me. It might be like, tearing you since you can’t handle it.
like 2.1/2.2 is the biggest I can possibly do.
what did you buy?
If you dont want to hold onto it theres always r/usedsextoysuk to get some of that money back or trade it for something more fitting
Is this your first anal toy? Because 2.75 inches in diameter is *huge*! A better starter toy would be 1 inch in diameter butt plug. If you’re ever going to be able to use this toy, you’re going to have to put it on the shelf and start with much smaller toys. And you’ll have to keep at least some of them because you’ll have to use them to begin a session and warm up to bigger toys. You basically keep adding bigger toys to your lineup. One thing to keep firmly in mind is that whenever you see a video of somebody taking a huge toy, they warmed up for a good long time on smaller toys. Nobody in their right mind just starts a session with a colossus like this.
Anal by the way
Can you link the toy you bought?
Also, you shouldn’t be feeling pain or bleeding. That’s a sign you’ve gone too big, too rough, or too fast.
Please start small and go up by only half an inch circumference at a time with new toys.
Don’t be proud and end up in a hospital because you didn’t size your order correctly, it takes
some time to learn your limits and skill level.
For that price and size, it seems suspiciously cheap. It might very well be made of unsafe materials that should not go anywhere in your body in the first place. Would you give a link to it?
Also, no amount of pain or blood is okay during anal. DON’T BUY DESENSITIZERS IF SOMEONE OFFERS THAT, IF SOMETHING GOES SERIOUSLY WRONG YOU HAVE TO FEEL THAT TO BE ABLE TO STOP IMMEDIATELY AND GET HELP FAST!
It is obviously way too big for you yet, and you *must* get some warm up toys first. What was your first toy’s size? What size you can comfortable take right now?
You never work past pain with anal.