I finally had an orgasm while on top! Hands-free!

I finally had my first orgasm on top due to a vibrating grinding pad. I can’t believe it.

I’ve been with my husband for 20 years and we have a great sex life (due to hormone replacement and keeping things spicy. Happy to answer questions about that. But anyway). I can’t cum without a vibrator. Either by myself or with him. As long as I have one handy, I can have amazing orgasms and sometimes two. But I’ve never been able to have an orgasm when I’m on top. I can feel SO close without a vibe, but either I don’t have the “right” anatomy for it to happen naturally or I just need that extra stimulation that a vibe provides.

But using a vibe while on top is nearly impossible to manage. Most vibrators are hard plastic and that just doesn’t feel good when grinding or going up and down. Plus holding one is too much when you’re trying to steady yourself or focus on the sensation. I’m so sick of having to hold a vibrator with my hands in order to get off during sex. It can really fuck with your sexual self-esteem. Grr.

I read on U/ladypseudonymia review blog about this [vibrating grinding pad]( and threw it into the shopping cart at the last minute. I can’t freakin believe it. I came in under a minute and that’s only because I was holding off. I knew as soon as I started that it was going to work. I lost my mind afterwards and started giggling because I couldn’t believe it happened. After 20 years of sex with my husband I finally had a hands-free orgasm while on top.

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