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Do you want to try your hand at the deep end of BDSM, but don’t know where to start? Well, learning how to use nipple clamps is a great way to get sexy without having to worry about strict rules or researching some other activities that require – For example, bondage.
Plus, nipple clamps aren’t expensive at all, and they come in a wide variety of styles. In this feature, we’ll look at what the best options are if you’re new to using nipple clamps. Plus, what you can do once the delivery guy brings you the nipple clamps.
The role of nipple clamps
The best thing about nipple clamps is that they allow you to experience new sensations. This means anything from increasing sensitivity to the point where it’s painful.
But it’s not just the feel of the clamps themselves. It’s also what you can do with them. You can use heat or cold, or even tickle, lick, or bite.
The best part about nipple clamps is that they are one of the few adult products or activities that are suitable for beginners to try BDSM play. Because things like bondage, hot wax, or gags all require a certain level of necessary research and expertise to ensure the rules and safety. In addition, they may be a bit too much for those who are very nervous about exciting play (but still curious).
That being said, I would put spanking that involves only light tapping on the buttocks or blindfolding with nipple clamps in the “very beginner-friendly BDSM” category.
Know Your Nipple Clamps
To keep things simple (assuming you don’t know much about nipple clamps), we’ve divided these toys into two categories. Non-adjustable and adjustable.
Some examples of non-adjustable clips are the common household clothespin, magnetic ball, or cloverleaf clip. These do not allow you to change how hard they press down. However, this does not mean that all of these clips have the same pressure. A clothespin squeezes much harder than a cloverleaf clip.
Adjustable versions may include an alligator clip or a tweezer clip. These allow the user to change the way the end presses against the nipple, so you can enjoy whatever style of pressing you prefer.
Generally speaking (if you can’t go to a real store and test them with your fingers) it’s best to go for an adjustable option.
Decide on your “extra”
The clamp comes with a variety of fun attachments. If you want to feel fancy, go for some pendant jewelry. If you want to feel stretched while playing, go for weights. Some weights have chains connecting them together, bells, tassels, and even extra links and more clips to attach to other parts of the body.
If you want something with more control (and pleasure), Some nipple clamps have vibrators built into them. Some can even be controlled via a smartphone. So you or your partner can wear them when you’re out and about, while the other person controls the clips with their phone for some discreet public play!
Don’t forget to communicate

Now, before you start playing with these bad guys, be sure to talk to your playmates first. What are you nervous about? What are your limits or taboos? What do you want to get out of this experience? Don’t be shy. Silence doesn’t bring fun.
Additionally, there are some safety rules regarding nipple clamps that everyone involved needs to know.
- Always clean the clamp before and after each use (and when changing users).
- If you are just starting to practice, do not use the clamps for more than 10 minutes. Even experienced players need to limit their play time to 30 minutes to avoid circulation problems.
- The fixture should comfortably Comfortable, not tight. The key is comfortably.
- If you have a nipple piercing, be extra careful when putting it in and taking it out.
- If you want to increase the intensity, do it little by little.
- Keep a close eye on the area to ensure there are no circulation issues.
- Always check to make sure you’re both having fun!
There are so many fun things to do
- You can gently tug on them, twist them, or pull them in different directions.
- If it comes with a vibrator, you can use it to tease your partner.
- If your partner is able to have nipple orgasms, you can edging them, too.
- Or, you can use it as part of a reward in a simple BDSM scene.
- If they have bells, you can laugh at the sound they make. Or have your partner try to move without making any noise.
Always follow up
Remember, after playing any type of game (especially your first time), always chat first. Maybe there’s something you like and you want more of it. Or maybe there’s something you don’t want. Maybe you have some ideas for next time. Also, make sure the nipples are happy.
How to Use Nipple Clamps – Conclusion
Nipple clamps are truly one of the best sex toys to have if you’re on a budget, just starting out, or just want to spice up your pillow play. They come in all shapes and sizes, so there’s something for everyone! Check out the internet and have fun!