How to Give Yourself an Orgasm 101 | Aldult Toys Blog

First of all, the best way to learn how to orgasm is to stop focusing so much on orgasm. While it may seem counterintuitive at first, letting go of the pressure to perform can be a huge help. Being in the moment and allowing yourself to focus on pleasure rather than orgasm is the best way to orgasm. Learning about your body’s needs and desires also helps you have better orgasms.

To help you achieve orgasm every time, here is a list of tips:

1. Give yourself permission

Give yourself permission to go for it. Often times, we don’t orgasm because we’re subconsciously afraid to give it our all. In order to orgasm, it’s important to feel good about your body and know that pleasure and orgasms are a normal part of life. As women, we get all sorts of negative messages about sexuality, but there shouldn’t be any shame around female pleasure. As the owner of a clitoris, pleasure is your birthright! The clitoris is the only organ in the human body whose sole purpose is to provide pleasure. You were literally born to do it. Try to get out of your head and listen to what feels good to you, not your culture’s idea of ​​what you’re supposed to want or be.

2. Try a sex toy

There are many toys on the market to explore. The world of sex toys is at your fingertips. For example, you can try Bellesa’s jokewhich is Bellesa’s best solution for targeted clitoral stimulation. The tip is constructed with liquid silicone technology, making it soft and natural to the touch. Paired with a shaft that allows you to comfortably use it on yourself, on a partner, or during sex with a partner. Another option are clitoral suction toys! Bellesa suction toys feel like they’re custom-made for you with luxurious, body-safe silicone that surrounds your clitoris in a sensual vacuum, delivering waves and pulses where it counts.

3. Use the shower

The shower head is a tried and true method that works every time. Place the shower head over your clitoris and let yourself go. Just be careful with the temperature so you don’t hurt the delicate skin, and don’t spray the water directly into your vagina. This can upset the balance of healthy bacteria or introduce air into your vagina, which you don’t want. Or turn on the bathtub faucet and let the water run over your vulva.

4. Experiment, experiment, experiment

Each of us is a special snowflake with our own unique sensibilities. What works for me may not work for you and vice versa. If achieving orgasm were a one-size-fits-all solution, this article wouldn’t be necessary, but since it’s not, experiment. Try a variety of different pressures, touches, and positions, and have fun with what feels good to you. Exploring your sexual tastes isn’t just a solo project. It’s also important to making a relationship work. So, explore them together as a couple, if you’re with someone.

5. Watching porn

Experts have found that porn use leads to better sexual outcomes in women. In fact, according to this new study, porn use in women is associated with several positive outcomes, including better orgasms. So when you’re in the zone, find a video that turns you on, it will help you achieve an orgasm that will blow your mind.