Housewife defends $100 weekly cooking, cleaning allowance

She won’t Tradition A place to be with anyone.

One woman who quit her job to become a traditional or “traditional” wife said her husband paid her about $100 a week to cook and clean for him. She even hit back at feminists who accused her of just wanting a sugar daddy, claiming they would be happier if they followed suit.

“My husband hired me to take care of the family,” Alyssa “Ally” Dee, 28, told news channel Truly. “It’s the best job I’ve ever had.”

“I encourage other women to pursue the same drive for future financial success,” urges the housewife, who regularly documents traditional wifey style to her more than 182,000 YouTube subscribers.

The housewife met her husband Tom, 51, in the army and they began dating while she was working and studying.

Little did the independent girl know at the time, but she had put her career ambitions on the back burner in favor of a more domestic lifestyle.

After they got engaged, Dee couldn’t help but feel that her boyfriend wanted “a little more attention to the house, the family, and himself.”

“I had a sneaking suspicion that if I stayed home, it might be good for our relationship,” says the burgeoning homemaker, who has now been with Tom for two-and-a-half years and is pregnant with their first child A child.

So she came up with the idea of ​​switching from craftsmanship to tradition.

Her partner was initially hesitant about Dee taking on more of a family role, saying: “Honestly, I thought I wanted to be a physicist triathlete, that’s my mindset.”

Despite his reservations, Tom decides to give this 1950s-style romance a try.

The professional housewife is paid about $100 a week under the arrangement, which allows her to treat herself to “snacks and coffee” and go shopping occasionally, the Daily Mail reported. For reference, that’s about a third of the federal minimum wage.

“We canceled all of her credit cards and opened new ones under my account, so now I can see all of her purchases,” Tom explains. “She really doesn’t ask for a lot of things she doesn’t need and she’s very disciplined financially.”

Tom is ecstatic about the Traditional Agreement, which he feels allows him to live a more stress-free, focused life.

“Before my relationship with Ellie, I didn’t even know how wonderful it would be to have a gender-separated traditional relationship,” he gushed. “I offer a home, protection and provision. All I ask in return is support and a clean house so I can go out and focus on the outside world.”

Quitting her job has also proven to be a boon for Dee, who describes: “After getting married, I make more money now than I did in the Army and it’s the best job I’ve ever had.”

“I might consider using his funds, he pays for my living expenses and has a health insurance plan,” added the traditional wife. She said this kind of remote employment opportunity is far better than a regular 9-to-5 job. work.

“The alternative is to get a real job, with a real boss,” she declared. “Remember, this man doesn’t care about you.”

Dee added, “He’ll fire you tomorrow, but my husband won’t fire me tomorrow.”

Her career 180 put her in the crosshairs of feminists who called her lazy and accused her of being a common “gold digger” in the guise of more “respectable” pursuits.

“There are some feminists on Reddit who hate me, and most of them are single people over the age of 30,” she explained. “I just think feminism is completely unnecessary, it’s a women’s supremacy movement.”

As for the gold digger accusation, Tom declared: “‘She asked for $100 a week, what kind of gold digger would want that?”

Fortunately, Dee claims, it’s also received a ton of “positive comments from women who feel like they’re finally being seen.”

The traditional wife insists she ultimately wants “women to know they have other options.”

“I think most modern relationships are unhappy, men act like women, women act like men, and when they’re together, their dynamic is very unbalanced,” she said.

Meanwhile, other traditional wives see their lifestyle as a welcome respite from the “woke” ideology they claim has taken over Western society.

“I think a lot of women are looking for this lifestyle,” Gretchen Adler, a 38-year-old California housewife, told The Washington Post in September. “They want to take their homes back. They want to get away from the fast-paced work lifestyle, the boss-baby mentality and just want to go home.”