Have sex toys become dangerously good? What do you think?

I have been married for almost ten years to a beautiful wife and a happy life (with kids). However, our sex life together (not separately) has decreased significantly, which is understandable over time. I found my wife masturbating alone a few times while I was home, which really pissed me off, as I am a guy who is almost ready to go anywhere, anytime, as long as I am with her. Soon after, I did some scouting to find a toy that I would enjoy myself when she was not home or in a bad mood. Taboo, but I ended up with an amazing prostate massager (the orgasms are unreal – full body tingling and euphoria, and endlessly available once you start). The other day, I was warming up while she put the kids down, and ejaculated once, followed by 2 prostate orgasms, and then ejaculated again. I had no remorse after the session, which can happen in a session using only my penis. **Like I said, being with her is amazing, better than anything, it’s scary.** **If I had discovered this kind of pleasure, I really don’t know if I would have married my amazing wife and would have three wonderful children. I would probably be content with a life of solitude**, which makes me sad for future generations who might miss out on life events (kids, etc) because traditional sex has become suboptimal (at best, haha!). I want to have kids is what brings me to this. Honestly, I want to have offspring – I feel like that is a reasonable wish (but not a requirement for happiness). **Have we reached a dangerous point, or just a happy point?** I am happy with how things have turned out, but to be honest, I really doubt I would be in this position if I had discovered prostate pleasure sooner. Lastly, some of the toys my wife and I use (air stimulators/strokers) can cause desensitization to touch. She has admitted to me in the past that it is harder for me to orgasm manually, and I can attest that the air massager allows me to last longer (a real bonus for me!). I have mixed emotions because when we first met, we felt quite content using only our bodies and hands to stroke each other (not knowing any better at the time).

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