I am looking for a toy to use for grinding (for myself, a vulva owner) to use during penetrative sex with my penis having partner. I’m picturing something that sits on his pelvis and when I’m not riding up and down I can lean forward a bit and grind against.
I’d also like for it to be useable elsewhere on his body (like against his thigh), or even against the bed, pillow etc, so something like a cock ring toy isn’t what I am looking for. I’ve seen cool grinding mats that interest me but I’m not sure how they fit on a pelvis.
Vibrations would be a plus.
Godemiche makes a [grind ring] that is intended to be used exactly how you describe, and NS Novelties also makes although it doesn’t have the customization options that Godemiche offers. I haven’t used these particular toys so I can’t say how well they’d work on other parts of the body, but since they have flat backs I’d imagine they’d work well on top of a thigh or something similar.
I had a gf in college that would use my pelvic bone to grind against. It was so painful but I would just let her do her thing to finish. A toy would’ve been nice for her ha