Good safewords and interesting uses in the media

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In any BDSM activity, a safe word is a must.

For those new to the game, the safe word is Things a submissive can say to make everyone play immediately stopThis indicates that they are approaching or reaching a limit, or that there is a problem that needs to be addressed by the Dominant.

There is no such thing as a “bad safeword.” The only downside is engaging in any BDSM play (mild or otherwise) without it—and no Listen to those who tell you you “don’t need it”.

A Good safe word is something Clear, It’s easy to remember and something you wouldn’t normally yell out loud during pillow play.

Learn more here:

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Some common safe words

Most of the candidates on the list were no-brainers…

stop, No, security code, safeand mercy. even Red and Yellow This is understandable due to the association with traffic lights.

Then we move on to the next largest category – fruit.

Specifically, Pineapple, banana, appleand orange.

Why are they so popular? Because they are easy to remember and they are definitely not words you expect to hear, so they are effective in getting the attention of higher-ups.

Finally, the family’s odd child – Oklahoma and purple.

Reddit Theory: “Once you get to Oklahoma, you know the good times are over.”

Unique safeword: Beetlejuice, leafand Justin Bieber.

Safewords in Movies and Television

There are a lot of movies and TV shows that touch on this idea (some seriously, some in jest).

CSI, Saturday Night Live, The Drew Carey Show, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Team America: World Police, The Simpsons, Castle, Eurotrip, Family Guy, etc.

If you’re at work and can’t watch (NSFW), don’t worry. I’ve attached a brief summary of the scene.

“Banana” from Family Guy

Dilapidated – Louise and Peter are having a responsible and very “parental” conversation about their concerns about their kids and drug issues at school…while both are dressed in BDSM gear.

“Flying.” From a trip to Europe

Dilapidated – The most lascivious member of the group goes to a dungeon in Amsterdam, where the dominatrix (Lucy Lawless) hands him a piece of paper with a safe word on it… which he ignores. After the dominatrix leaves, the male dominatrix comes out, and the horror begins, as Copper misreads the safe word.

He eventually limped home. Obviously, this is a poor example of SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) practice and a professional Dom would never allow this to happen, but it’s still worth a laugh.

Examples in computer games

example: “humiliation”, Saints Row, Payday 2and Magician (This is hilarious, because Magicka is At least Aside from games like Candy Crush, this is the best sex game you’ll ever play. Remember, the safe word is “banana.”

However, Dragon Age: Inquisition is by far the most positive.

In the fantasy role-playing game Dragon Age, you can choose the character you want to have a romantic relationship with – And there are always some sex scenesOn my first playthrough, I chose the large warrior…

3…2…1…Bang!

The result is a relationship with BDSM aspects. +100 likes.

The scene that made me laugh the most was the one where they discuss “catchphrases” (aka safe words) after their romp on the bed – talking about other characters in the game and what words those people might choose if they were in a similar situation. The humor won’t come across unless you’ve played the game, but it’s still fun to watch.

Not suitable for working hours – Female characters’ breasts are exposed

Uses in web comics

Cyanide and happiness

Two people and a man

Non-sexual use

• Live Action Role Playing Everyone had to stop and listen to the coordinator’s instructions – they probably had to do this every 5 minutes, as long as I could stay in character.

• Digging In martial arts, it’s hard to recognize because you’re already hitting someone.

• “Ceasefire” In war… maybe some idiot got into a friendly fire fight.

• “cut” In movies and TV. I wonder if you said this to an actor in real life if they would stop talking… worth a try…

If you don’t like any of the safewords in this article and want to find your own, then There is a ton of advice available online.

Or you can Check out this random letter word search And use the first thing that comes to your mind. Mine is JELLY.

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Have you come across other great quotes about safewords in the media? Do you have a fun story about safewords that you’d like to share? Please share it in the comments!