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The disturbing sexual trend of “building snowmen” in winter could put you at risk of sexually transmitted infections such as syphilis, herpes and gonorrhea, not to mention a romantic infection, a doctor has warned.
The term “snowman” was originally coined by eHarmony’s dating experts in 2019 – but only now are doctors warning it could lead to something worse than resentment.
eHarmony relationship expert Rachael Lloyd told The Mirror, “Christmas is a time for celebration and a great opportunity to socialize and find that special someone.”
“However, once the drinks stop flowing and the decorations come off, sometimes that initial burst of chemistry disappears. Our research shows that many people withdraw from new relationships, a trend we call ‘snowman-building.'”
Social media users say the affair disappears like a snowman, either after the holidays or when spring arrives.
While the person involved may be able to let it go, their vaginas may be left with unpleasant souvenirs of their brief romance.
Dr Crystal Wyllie, a GP at Asda Online Doctor, said it was a bigger problem if contact details weren’t exchanged and they couldn’t get people to call them if they started to develop troublesome symptoms. You know.
“December is a time for celebration and connection, but it’s also important to understand what’s going on with sexual health,” Dr Wiley told MailOnline.
“Planning ahead for contraception, or getting support after unplanned sexual activity, is key to enjoying the holidays while staying safe.”
Fortunately, STI rates in the United States appear to be declining overall. According to a recent report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, sexually transmitted infections dropped nearly 2% from 2022 to 2023.
Gonorrhea cases in particular are declining, down 7.7% in one year. In 2023, primary and secondary syphilis decreased by 10.7%.
Winter, meanwhile, has given rise to other dating trends, including “sledding,” where singles drag someone through the holidays with the intention of dumping them in the New Year.
“It can be toxic and a red flag,” Claire Rénier, a romance expert at dating app Happn, told The Daily Star. “It appeals to people’s emotions and promotes short-term gratification.”
There’s also a “winter coating” trend, where people touch old flames in the winter like an old coat.