First sex toy, don’t know what it is?

Hello! I’m a 29 year old male living in Northern California. I’ve been touching myself since I was 11 and have never had a problem. I was in an accident a few years ago and for a while, because I broke my arm, I used a super cheap wand off Amazon to help when I couldn’t “yank” my arm. I really like the vibration of it so I use it all the time. Fast forward a few years. My arm healed, I met a girl, we got married and lived happily ever after! An important detail here is that I was circumcised as a baby and since I don’t stare at other guys’ dicks I can only assume it’s my problem and not every man’s problem but the underside of the head The small amount of skin on the bottom like the “clitoris” is because of how they were seeded on me and they just left excess skin in there? (Holy Sentence). Until recently, this has not been an issue. I don’t know if it’s the vibrator or the reason I don’t use lube (don’t come to me, I never need it), but that patch of skin seems almost calloused and dry – leading to less sensitivity . I still have the sensitivity, although I don’t know how much I should have since it was never “intense”. Like, I seriously doubt that any girl has ever let me play with my head with her tongue at any point in my life; but I digress. Well, fast forward to today, I recently started taking ADHD medication which has really reduced my sensitivity. It went from taking me 2-10 minutes to do it quickly, to having done it 2 times in the past 10 days, and I was doing it for 5 hours straight before I could go crazy. Too bad. I also realized this because of how many times I touched myself with and without a vibrator. Coupled with medication and my low endurance for full-body movement due to the accident that left me out of shape (to begin with), I realized that maintaining an erection was going to be much more difficult for me. I don’t think it’s ED, I believe it’s an issue with my medications. So I want to buy a “vagina-like” toy to help me get used to her feelings a little bit? I don’t know if this will work, but 🤷‍♂️ *TL;dr* I would like a toy that: • Vibrates hard to help get through that layer of skin. • Preferably a “vagina” or hole so I can get more used to the vagina so I can do better in bed. • Quiet is best, but not at the expense of low vibration. • Preferably rechargeable, but not a deal breaker. • Easy to clean, even a straight hole so there are no nuts in it would be great, but if I can clean it easily then anything will do. • Affordable price. I didn’t think highly enough of myself to spend a fortune on something for myself, let alone something that wasn’t guaranteed to be what I wanted – and I was broke. I guess that’s it? Forgive my ignorance and life story, I just don’t know where to start.

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