Female Ejaculation 101: A Beginner’s Guide to How to Squirt | Sex

Vaginas are too often underestimated for their capabilities (ejaculation, for example). Fact: Squirting, aka female ejaculation, is a real thing. It’s not pee, and East, in fact, sometimes a product of vaginal arousal. While the general consensus seems to be that the key to making squirt happen is to focus on G-spot stimulation, research suggests that in the mission of learning how to make someone squirt, it’s best to focus on the entire clitoral-ethro-vaginal (CUV) complex (which includes the clitoris, labia, And the anterior wall of the vagina where the G-spot is located). In other words: the best way to give pleasure is to first understand that everything is connected, girl.

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What is squirting and how does it happen?

In short, the fluid produced by a person squirting is “juice” secreted by the Skene’s glands (which are said to be the female equivalent of the prostate). While the purpose of the Skene’s glands is debated, I would venture to say that… hello, they play a role in our pleasure.

So, skeptics be damned, dedicating your time to learning how to squirt yourself or make your partner squirt is a noble mission. That said, I always caution you against pressuring yourself or your partner to perform Squirting (or any other sex act), because it only works if all parties are relaxed. Also, if you can, avoid putting squirting on a pedestal. While some women who squirt may find their wet and wild orgasms enhanced, there is no hierarchy of orgasms, and you are not somehow a better, naughtier lover if you know how to make a pussy squirt. You are simply here to learn and enjoy the ride, girls.

How to Make Yourself Squirt (or How to Make Someone Else Squirt)

Here’s your basic guide on how to make someone squirt with a vagina. Of course, I recommend learning how to do it first. your vaginal ejaculation, just so you’re well equipped. I firmly believe that you need to know how to make yourself squirt if you want to do it to someone else. Good news: the following instructions are also ideal for a solo session!

Prepare your environment

1) Get rid of distractions and interruptions by making sure that you are not disturbed for at least a few hours. You should always give yourself enough time to avoid any stress.

2) Eliminate harsh lighting and instead opt for a lamp or candles, anything that can create an environment conducive to relaxation and release.

3) You can light incense or use a diffuser to scent the air with your favorite essential oil. Lavender is known for its relaxing properties.

4) Consider waterproofing the area by laying down several towels or putting a waterproof sheet on the bed.

5) Get comfortable. Start with a massage or pull out a reliable vibrator to release some tension, promote blood circulation in the area, and relax into the splash zone.

Locate that G-spot, girl

1) The G-spot is located inside the vagina, on the upper vaginal wall (towards the stomach), 0.5 to 2 inches from the opening.

2) The famous G-spot is the only surface of the vagina that is not completely smooth. In fact, it is compared to the skin of a citrus fruit.

3) But don’t rush in too quickly. Take your time to fully observe and appreciate the vulva as a whole.

4) Gently open the upper lips and explore.

5) I would recommend massaging and licking your partner before you start any real internal exploration, just to make him even wetter and more engorged. This will also make his G-spot more prominent.

How to make this pussy squirt? Stimulate her.

1) Take your time: This is the main rule, if you haven’t noticed.

2) Use plenty of lube to avoid excessive friction. Even if they are already aroused, this is a good idea. It is supposed to feel good. GOODthroughout the process, after all. While silicone-based lubes may last longer, they tend to eat away at silicone toys (and condoms), so you may want to opt for a water-based lube instead.

3) Stimulate the G-spot with your fingers, a glass wand, or with a vibrator. G-spot vibrators are designed with the perfect angle to hit the G-spot.

4) As you stimulate the G-spot and things get wetter and more excited, the G-spot and labia will become even more engorged and appear larger. You can continue to gently stimulate the clitoris simultaneously. Try using the AirVibe, the dual G-spot stimulation and clitoral suction will definitely get you there!

5) Stay gentle: This activity does not improve with rough touch.

How to make someone else squirt? Help him to leave go.

1) Communicate. If they don’t give you feedback, ask them. Then, do what they tell you or adjust the pressure you’re applying and try something else to see if it works better. This advice applies to almost any sexual act.

2) As the female ejaculate exits through the urethra, she may feel like she has to “pee.” While this may not be entirely intuitive, it is actually a sign that she is getting close to orgasm. The initial sensation can be similar to the need to urinate (at least for beginners), so you need to be relaxed enough to let it all go.

3) If her vulva has swollen and enlarged, you can try pushing and relaxing both at the same time. This may sound complicated, but it’s not. In other words, you should use a “back and forth motion,” gently but firmly against her G-spot, almost as if you were tickling it.

4) Strange but true: While some people only ejaculate when their G-spot is stimulated, others only do it without penetration (so with clitoral and vulvar stimulation). This is probably because the clitoris has internal and external components, and when we stimulate the G-spot area, we are actually also stimulating the internal clitoral body. And everyone’s body is different in how it feels and responds to pleasure, so make no mistake: we all have different pathways to pleasure and each one is valid.

Experiment with different positions

If you’re using a vibrator or dildo, you can try a cowgirl position with your partner to give her full control over her movements and make it easier for you to feel her G-spot.

Or, you could try doggy style, so they can more easily apply pressure to that playground that is the front vaginal wall.

In conclusion

Learn how to make your lover squirt in a relaxed, steamy, no-pressure atmosphere, and only good can come of it.