Female Chastity Belts – A Big Guide for the Kinky and Curious

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Welcome, my weirdos!

Today, we’ll take a look at a metal monstrosity that has haunted history, as well as a modern version that some BDSM practitioners adore – the female chastity cage.

However, I will not be imparting a simple history lesson. No.

This post will share everything you need to know to safely jump into this quirk — or at least get a better understanding of how it works.

What is a female chastity device?

Modern chastity belts consist of an adjustable locking waist belt and a U-shaped secondary belt that fits snugly around the waist and covers the genitals and anus.

Their purpose is to restrict the wearer from sexual intercourse or seeking sexual release through masturbation. They can be worn for as short as a few hours to as long as months or years (and can be removed for safety reasons and/or for periodic sanitation).

Why do people wear them?

control – A power exchange where one person has complete control over the actions and behavior of another person. You are forced to seek sexual release or expression on someone else’s terms

Teasing and Rejection – Even vanilla people know the pleasure of being teased, being unable to do anything about it, and the pleasurable sexual tension that results.

Humiliation and torture – Some people find this kind of humiliation and restriction very erotic.

Aesthetic Erotica – Besides being associated with teasing, rejection and humiliation, simply wearing it or looking like it can be a turn-on.

BDSM Games – If you want to spice up your sex life, there are some fun chastity games you and your partner can play.

Check out some chastity play ideas here…

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Medieval mythology

In this article we may focus on modern models, but the infamous “history” of female chastity belts is too interesting to miss…

We’ve all seen illustrations, museum examples and movie props – the metal belt with the little hole (which gives access to the bathroom) and the keys that the husband keeps when he’s away (my favourite is Robin Hood in Tights).

However, the most interesting thing about medieval chastity belts is… They may never have existed.

Current research suggests that any mention of these devices could be Sarcasm, allegory or simple misunderstanding of the text –All the “ancient examples” we see in museums were probably made in or around the 18th century.^day or 19^day century.

How did this myth get so out of control?

The main theory is that something so abnormal, taboo, and sexual (not to mention controlling) was too easy to believe, given other medieval practices like torture devices, etc. So, people just bought into the concept.

Today’s shame

Given the past (and present) oppression of women, it’s completely understandable why some people would cringe at the thought of these toys. However, it’s worth noting that any wearer (male, female, transgender, etc.) can say No.

There is a huge difference between BDSM and sadism. Any sexual restriction or forcing someone to wear a chastity device out of jealousy or involuntary control does not fall under the umbrella of BDSM.

Learn more here…

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Comply with SSSC

There are four basic rules that everyone should follow – safety, sanity, sobriety and consent. These also apply to chastity play – including using security code.

However, since this is a fairly large (and important) topic, I encourage you to read more about it. I highly recommend starting with this article…

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From a security perspective, it’s also important to be extra careful with locks. Make sure you have a spare key For you and the wearer to use in an emergency. Also, before locking things up, all participants need to know how to disengage the harness if the key is lost (and need to have the appropriate tools on hand/nearby).

hint: If you are nervous about padlocks etc you can look at Disposable The lock can be easily unlocked with just a pair of scissors. In an emergency, the zipper can also be unlocked.

Interested in wearing it?

First, decide what type of belt you want. Is it primarily for show and casual play? Or do you want something more escape-proof or hardcore?

Next, you need to collect accurate measurements so you can buy clothing that fits well and is comfortable.

Finally, you need to look for reliable sellers that provide adequate product details and body-safe materials (we’ll get to that later).

In addition, there are a variety of design options or accessories to choose from – such as…

• Attach leg straps or waist belt
• Decorative or functional chains
• Adjustable belt or removable parts
• Vaginal dildo or butt plug
• Locking mechanism or timer option

Measuring Your Belt

You’re in luck! Finding your belt size is much easier than finding men’s belt sizes. Sure, you’ll need to write down a lot of numbers (and you should still be careful), but if you’re wrong smallyour belt will still be forgiving.

notes: Use a “soft” measuring tape, not a metal measuring tape used in construction.

waist – Most cages are positioned at the waistline (which is the most comfortable and secure). The waistline is at the same level as your belly button, or between the bottom of your ribs and your hipbones.

B. HIPS – Some styles may fit around the hips or have a secondary loop for added security or aesthetics. If so, find your hip bone and measure the circumference just as you would your waist.

C. Crotch length – First, are you ordering a waist belt or a hip belt? Whatever it is, get one of your own waist belts and tie it at that height (make sure it’s snug enough so it won’t slide down or shift).

Next, take your measuring tape and place one end at the center front of your waistband. Then, run it across your crotch and all the way to the same spot at the back of your waistband – see the picture below if you need a visual.

D. Front crotch – Place the tape measure in the same place on section C and measure down to the vagina.

E. Back – Measure by pulling the tape measure from the middle of your back (where the C section ends) to your anus (butt hole).

Depending on the design, it may be necessary to gather more numbers, but any decent shop will tell you what they need and how to do it, especially if you’re going for custom fit. For example, FancySteel.com has an in-depth guide as well as email support to help you get the right fit.

Ensure material safety

Medical grade stainless steel or titanium The safest to wear and clean. Other common materials include ABS plastic, polycarbonate, And possibly Silicone.

Do not use leather, TPE/TPR rubber, or any other material. They may look great, but they are highly porous and cannot be sterilized.

notes: All of this applies not only to the belt, but also to any accessories that come with the belt.

Best to test cheap

If you’re new to chastity play (or any kind of play that requires buying new gear), I always recommend buying a cheaper model first. It should still fit as well as possible, but if it turns out you’re not interested in it, then you won’t have wasted too much money.

Or, if you end up liking it and want a fancier one, you can adjust your size and make sure the next one is more comfortable.

where can buy this?

• Similar places Love Honey If you’re looking for an affordable option, this is a great place to start.

• Fancy Steel There are some gorgeous pieces, but they are pretty expensive.

How to Clean a Belt

Some belts are easier to maintain than others. Basically, the more gadgets, nooks, and crannies a belt has, the harder it is to clean.

And, like the men’s version, you’ll also have to deal with sweat and bodily fluids. This means that care comes in two stages…

Daily cleaning

You should clean your privates daily, so it’s no surprise that you should clean yourself and your toys daily. Whether it stays locked or not is up to you or your Dom/partner.

Clean thoroughly with warm water and soap – Except around the vaginajust use a soft cloth and water.

There is no soap WaguFind out why…

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Next comes the equally important stage… drying. Make sure everything is as completely dry as possible. For those hard-to-reach areas, use a fan or hair dryer (on cool mode) to dry.

Why?

Ladies, we all know what happens when we combine persistent moisture, sweat, and crotch. For those who don’t know… let’s say Yeast and bladder infections?Ouch.

Weekly cleaning

Once a week, the belt needs to be removed and the chastity device thoroughly inspected. The device is deep cleaned by wiping all the small areas with a cotton swab, soaking it with disinfectant, and then leaving it in the sun to further kill bacteria.

Also, inspect the wearer for signs of excessive chafing, irritation, or other possible issues.

And, as always, make sure items are 100% dry.

It’s time to stir up controversy

I’m going to piss off some readers with this part because some people think it’s okay to wear a belt continuously Weeks, months or years, no way Unless you’re going to have sex, take it off.

I strongly object.

Any level of BDSM play requires respect and adherence to the rules of “safety”, “sanity”, “sanity” and “consensuality”. Not allowing the chastity belt to be removed for weekly deep cleaning is a violation of the “safety” rule, as it may lead to Infect- Infection may cause Serious Health complications.

example: Let your girl wear a belt week When you are on a business trip, don’t let her take it off for inspection. no Cool.

It is the Dominant’s responsibility to care for their submissive’s spirit, soul, and body. Being locked up “often” should not be taken literally, nor should they assume that their daily shower is enough.

Also, one or two instances of “my slave wears it all the time with no problems” is no excuse or reason for unhygienic behavior by the rest of the chastity crowd.

How can we fix this?

• If you or your Dom/partner thinks the belt should only Being taken for sex, or perhaps a reward, and then weekly Cleaning needs to be done in parallel with these activitiesIf no incident occurs within 7 days, you will still An hour or two must be allocated for a thorough sanitation and cleaning.

• If your host/partner is going to be away for a long period of time, A Weekly cleaning can be done via Skype or other mediaso they can observe – we live in the technological age after all. No excuses.

• Some Doms/partners choose Exercise of Trust If they are unable to be present, weekly unsupervised cleaning is permitted.

How to use the belt

The world is your playground. With SSSC, anything is possible.

• You can wear one under your clothes when you go out at night.

• This can be part of obedience training – taking it off as a reward or wearing it longer as a punishment.

• You can use them as part of sex play

• Some people wear them to be more sexually attentive to their partners.

• Others enjoy their orgasms in denial

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How about you? How long do you think you can last wearing a chastity belt? Feel free to share in the comments?