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We’re not talking about those scary metal panties from the Middle Ages. Instead, we’re going to look at what a modern chastity belt is, and some of the basics you should know before you invest your time and money into it.
Let’s take a deeper look…
1. Functions of modern belts
control – In many BDSM practices, there is an exchange of power – one partner voluntarily takes control and the other voluntarily gives up power. The person who holds the key is the one who is able to control their partner’s pleasure.
Teasing and Rejection – As for pleasure, if someone doesn’t want to try hardcore BDSM, there are simple steps that can be taken to discourage masturbation and thus sexual satisfaction. Imagine having your man wear a penis cage all day and sending him obscene messages.
Humiliation and torture – Wouldn’t it be torture if you had to wear one of these for weeks, months… or even longer? You can also bet that when you take it off, it will be the best sex of your life. Many of these elements also add a certain level of sexual humiliation.
Arousal and eroticism – It can be the simple feeling of metal or leather against your skin, or the pleasurable secrecy of wearing it underneath your clothes when you go to work or out with friends. Even sexual frustration can be as pleasurable as the act of sex itself.
BDSM Games – All of the above examples can be combined into BDSM play – such as controlling actions or behaviors, maintaining rules, disciplining the submissive, giving rewards, etc.
For example: Lock one of these on your husband and he won’t be able to take it off until his chores are done – I bet the house will be spotless.
Need game ideas? This article has plenty…
15 Chastity Games to Spice Up Your Cage/Belt Play
2. Types of belts
The basic design of women’s belts is similar Belts that work with most models and brands – U-shaped belt that goes between the legs.
Sometimes you’ll see some with additional straps that go around the legs. Some also have wider sections around the hips (to prevent anal irritation).
The design for men is also simpleand have some adjustments to suit the needs of the wearer or dominant. There will be a ring around the scrotum and penis, with some metal rings or molded tube/box that locks into place.
You may also find that the design is more like a “plate” that compresses non-Jews.
notes: Most chastity devices come with a lock and key. But some may not, and only have a loop attachment similar to a belt. These devices are better suited for those who want the feeling of a chastity device but don’t want the control of a lock.
3. Wear it correctly
Important The device is suitable for Appropriatelyespecially for men. Should not excessive Friction can cause abrasions to the skin (although Some Minor abrasions are common). There should not be any pressure that restricts blood flow.
remember: Don’t confuse these toys with penis and testicle torture. They should be snug but (relatively) comfortable to wear. Any discomfort should come from sexual tension and sexual withdrawal.
4. Materials
You should aim 100% Silicone, Stainless Steel, Titanium, Polycarbonate, or ABS plastic (or use a combination). All of them are harmless to the body and easy to clean.
As for leatherthere are many belt makers and kink enthusiasts who love this material (after all, it looks beautiful). However, it is important to remember Leather is porous, high maintenance, and can’t be sterilized.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t buy it, I’m just saying you have to buy it additional Be careful with maintenance and cleaning. They are also not suitable for long-term use.
Finally, make sure any decorative items are also made of body-safe materials and that any promises of stainless steel are real (and not just nickel-plated or cut with nickel).
These gender-specific articles will give you more information…
5. Additional extras
There will be differences in finishes, materials, and even specific functions.
Pluggable components – Some come with vaginal dildos, anal dildos/butt plugs that attach to a belt, and some come with urethral wands (for men).
Timer – You can find locks that count down until the person is released, or boxes where you can place keys, which can serve the same purpose.
Body seat belt – Extends from a belt to the body, sometimes ending in a collar or device to restrain the arms or legs.
Electronic stimulation – Electrical stimulation leads allow for gentle (or not-so-gentle) stimulation of the genitals.
6. Where can you buy it?
I have a pretty strong “anti-Amazon” rule in general. Mainly because it’s hard to know if you’re actually getting safe materials and construction.
However, if you are a first-time buyer and don’t know which device will work best for your body, it might be better to buy a cheaper device. That way, if you don’t like it, you won’t waste money.
Later, when you’re more confident in your preferences, you can buy higher quality products (and throw away the old ones… or keep them in a box for sentimental reasons).
- Fancy Steel There are some gorgeous pieces, but they’re not for the faint of heart.

7. Safe, sane, sober and voluntary
Whenever engaging in any type of BDSM play, it is vital to follow the SSSC rules.
Is it safe to wear a belt? Is the Dom responsible enough not to lose his keys? Does the sub/wearer really want to wear a belt?
example: Any time you wear a chastity belt, you need additional But if you must wear the belt away from your owner for an extended period of time, they should allow you to remove it so that it (and your body) can be properly cleaned. reasonable scheduleIf the Dom does not allow removal during prolonged wear, this will be considered a violation of “safety” rules.
as usual, Subs should be allowed to use their safeword If they sense something is wrong or it has reached a level of discomfort that is unmanageable.
Learn more here…
What is a safeword? Learn the basics of kink communication
What about you, my dear readers? Do you want to be locked up, or do you want to hold the key? Tell us in the comments!